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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: Egypt
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It's just the right thing to do, IMO.

Nagi, I agree that a thank you is the right thing but I don't think one should expect it nor be too put off when a thank you is not forthcoming. Politeness can go along way toward developing good relationships here and in most aspects of our lives.

NavarreMan,

Thank you.

Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

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Thank you's are cool, but it bugs me more when someone asks the same question (or states the should-now be corrected info) over and over again despite it being answered a few times over previously. I just wind up ignoring the subsequent requests.

lol @ Jenn :luv:

Does the name Daisy spring to mind? :lol:

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Nigeria
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I put no. Sometimes I don't even know if they have thanked me, because I don't always have time to go back and read that thread after I've answered the question.

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11/15/2007 = Package sent overnight Fedex to CSC

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11/21/2007 = NOA1 (according to www.uscis.gov online case status)

11/26/2007 = Check cashed (YIPPEE!!!!!!!!!!)

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11/30/2007 = Rec'd NOA1 hard copy in the mail

12/20/2007 = Touched

12/21/2007 = Touched

03/12/2008 = Touched (due to phone call)

03/24/2008 = NOA2!!!!!!!!!

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04/23/2008 = Touched

05/05/2008 = Arrived at Consulate

05/12/2008 = Picked up Packets 3 & 4

06/24/2008 = Interview Date and APPROVAL

07/02/2008 = Picked up Visa at Embassy

07/05/2008 = Arrival in the U.S.!!!!!!!!! Met at POE in ATLANTA

07/06/2008 = Fly back to Salt Lake City Together!!!!

08/06/2008 = MARRIED TODAY!!!

AOS & EAD

08/23/2008 = Package sent via USPS with Signature Confirmation

08/25/2008 = Package arrived in Chicago

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It doesn't bother me...I don't write much visa info these days but I answer other questions on the boards sometimes and ask questions. I think a "thank you everyone" is fine instead of having to thank each one individually, especially if you get lots of responses.

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I don't know if I've offered any advice yet (since I'm pretty new to it all). If I did put my two cents in and didn't get a thank you, I don't think it would bother me much. I know how hectic all of this can get. I do however try to make it a point to thank anyone who offers answers to the questions I post (but I've probably forgotten to do this once or twice :whistle: ) So... I put no but I think it's polite to post thank yous.

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October 2002- Met and fell in love

February 4 2004- Julian is born

February 12 2007- Vera is born

March 21 2007- Rodolfo leaves the US (voluntary departure)

April 2 2008- Met with attorney to talk about the case

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Thank you's are cool, but it bugs me more when someone asks the same question (or states the should-now be corrected info) over and over again despite it being answered a few times over previously. I just wind up ignoring the subsequent requests.

lol @ Jenn :luv:

Does the name Daisy spring to mind? :lol:

No, I was just speaking in generalities thinking back on the years here. :blush:

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After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?

I don't offer input. I try to be as unhelpful as possible. So I don't know. You have no choice for N/A. Therefore this poll is flawed.

Man is made by his belief. As he believes, so he is.

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After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?

No, but thank you for asking. I would imagine that you have not given much thought to thanking those who have taken part in your poll. I also do not expect a waiter to follow me to the parking lot and fall to their knees thanking me for the tip I left for them. Most information here is gratuitous and I do not think most expect a thank you, but it never hurts to be grateful and to express that gratitude.

:o

*contemplates another poll on un-called for rude posts* :angry:

I didn't find that post to be rude at all. So everyone sees things differently, but I would agree with him. I don't really need to have someone tell me thank you. The sharing of information is the purpose of this board. Thank yous are nice in this instance, but I wouldn't react or be upset if I didn't get one. Honestly, I probably wouldn't even notice if I got one or not.

GHANA.GIFBassi and Zainab US1.GIF

I-129F Sent: 6-18-2007

Interview date: 6-24-2008

Pick up Visa: 6-27-2008

Arrive JFK POE: 7-2-2008

Marriage: 7-9-2008

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mailed AOS, EAD, AP: 8-22-2008

NOA AOS, EAD, AP: 8-27-2008

Biometrics: 9-18-2008

AOS Transferred to CSC: 9-25-2008

Requested EAD Expedite: 11-12-2008

EAD Card production ordered: 11-12-2008 changed to 11/17/2008 Why? (I hope it doesn't change every week!)

Received AP: 11/17/2008

Received EAD: 11/22/08 (Praise God!!)

AOS RFE: 1/29/2009

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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no. thanks for asking :P



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
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It's just the right thing to do, IMO.

Nagi, I agree that a thank you is the right thing but I don't think one should expect it nor be too put off when a thank you is not forthcoming. Politeness can go along way toward developing good relationships here and in most aspects of our lives.

NavarreMan,

Thank you.

Thank you Nagi for making me chuckle :)

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Russia
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No. I am far more bothered by people that attack other posters trying to offer suggestions or words of encouragement.

Jeffery AND Alla.

0 kilometers physically separates us!

K-1 Visa Granted... Wednesday, 21 May 2008

Alla ARRIVED to America... Wednesday, 12 November 2008

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After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?

No, but thank you for asking. I would imagine that you have not given much thought to thanking those who have taken part in your poll. I also do not expect a waiter to follow me to the parking lot and fall to their knees thanking me for the tip I left for them. Most information here is gratuitous and I do not think most expect a thank you, but it never hurts to be grateful and to express that gratitude.

:o

*contemplates another poll on un-called for rude posts* :angry:

I didn't find that post to be rude at all. So everyone sees things differently, but I would agree with him. I don't really need to have someone tell me thank you. The sharing of information is the purpose of this board. Thank yous are nice in this instance, but I wouldn't react or be upset if I didn't get one. Honestly, I probably wouldn't even notice if I got one or not.

It's okay Bassi and Zainab... my response was actually kind of tongue-in-cheek, which I think was how NavarreMan's post was too. :)

Well, everybody. At this point in time I would like to thank you all for taking part in the poll. It was very kind of you to participate and offer a response. Thank you. :thumbs:

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I don't offer input. I try to be as unhelpful as possible. So I don't know. You have no choice for N/A. Therefore this poll is flawed.

I intentionally omitted an option for anything but a yes or no response. As you know, pollsters do this on purpose. Your input, as always, is appreciated. :hehe:

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After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?

I don't offer input. I try to be as unhelpful as possible. So I don't know. You have no choice for N/A. Therefore this poll is flawed.

here is some input for you....stfu, you Persian Shoe

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But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

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