k-1 gone bad I want her out asap

[gtron 0]

why did i return to this thread? such a terrible read. sad.

[bhajishah 4]

my sad and lonelygori brother found some free cheap and easy chicks on a site called Aff. he having time of his life , said he screw his way back to happiness. soon he is going to get married , and she is from next town over!! she cooks 3 times a week, cleans wo times a week works part time and use to be a pro. he is in heaven ,he says!! we r glad he ishappy . they go to church togher and are soo cute..rehabbed felon and ex prostitue..

[bhajishah 4]

my sad and lonelygori brother found some free cheap and easy chicks on a site called Aff. he having time of his life , said he screw his way back to happiness. soon he is going to get married , and she is from next town over!! she cooks 3 times a week, cleans wo times a week works part time and use to be a pro. he is in heaven ,he says!! we r glad he ishappy . they go to church togher and are soo cute..rehabbed felon and ex prostitue..

[shamrock21 0]

hmm it seems like you guys need to sit down and talk the whole issue through- does she even know how you feel and that you found the chat logs? A little talking doesnt hurt anyone and you can make your decision once you know the whole story.

[shrewdgal 0]

No offenses either but thoses cases are i think expected when for example you have 25 yrs difference or someone really heavy with a tiny young adult all cute and fancy from poorer countries.

I do not know what is your situation.

I saw some picts on the gallery that sometime..... i wonder about the honnesty of all that.

what the hell? just because people are different ages or different sizes doesnt mean their marriage is a fraud???

[shrewdgal 0]

haha I turn 20 tomorrow! Tomorrow is my birthday! Yeah! I am young! There is a saying fool me once shame on you! Fool me twice shame on you! And being older doesnt make you more wise! hey I know I am in love and enjoying every second of it!

Yeah, the saying is actually...'fool me twice...shame on ME'.

It's not so much age as it is life experience that make you wiser...and you don't usually have one without the other.

To the OP, I completely understand your frustration with this and my heart goes out to you. It seems your good sense was trying to tell you something yet, it was clouded by what it is you want most and wanted to believe. I can understand that. It happens to all of us. You had warning signs, it's happened before...DONT let it happen again! The only thing you can do now is really learn from your mistakes. To love and be loved is the best gift this life has to offer. There is someone out there for you to share your life with. Someone who wont lie or cheat. Perhaps she's in this country, though.

IF all the OP states is true then this 'person' is one of the reasons we are all waiting so long to be with our loved ones. She is all that's wrong with this process and I would be disapointed if she was allowed to stay. Yes, I agree that she is a human being...but not a very nice one.

In regards to those who feel they are somehow empowered to judge the relationships of others.... I don't think it's any of our business to judge who is in love with who and why. Whether someone is too fat, too pretty, too young, too old, too rich..too poor...etc. How is that even our business and what gives any one of us the right to even suggest it's for visa fraud? We don't live their lives...we don't sleep in their bed. We can't even know the most intimate details of the people closest to us so what gives you the right to judge someone else's relationship based on a few lines or pictures in a forum? Of course there are cases of deception...but that can happen in even the most seemingly 'normal' relationships. Who made you judge and jury? We're not here for bigotry...we're here because we need and can offer support to each other based on similar circumstances. Those kinds of unjustified opinions should be kept to yourself because it really only shows your own arrogance and ignorance when you make statements like that.

agreed. I teach elementary school and my students are better educated than that!

[przy 0]

haha I turn 20 tomorrow! Tomorrow is my birthday! Yeah! I am young! There is a saying fool me once shame on you! Fool me twice shame on you! And being older doesnt make you more wise! hey I know I am in love and enjoying every second of it!

Yeah, the saying is actually...'fool me twice...shame on ME'.

It's not so much age as it is life experience that make you wiser...and you don't usually have one without the other.

To the OP, I completely understand your frustration with this and my heart goes out to you. It seems your good sense was trying to tell you something yet, it was clouded by what it is you want most and wanted to believe. I can understand that. It happens to all of us. You had warning signs, it's happened before...DONT let it happen again! The only thing you can do now is really learn from your mistakes. To love and be loved is the best gift this life has to offer. There is someone out there for you to share your life with. Someone who wont lie or cheat. Perhaps she's in this country, though.

IF all the OP states is true then this 'person' is one of the reasons we are all waiting so long to be with our loved ones. She is all that's wrong with this process and I would be disapointed if she was allowed to stay. Yes, I agree that she is a human being...but not a very nice one.

In regards to those who feel they are somehow empowered to judge the relationships of others.... I don't think it's any of our business to judge who is in love with who and why. Whether someone is too fat, too pretty, too young, too old, too rich..too poor...etc. How is that even our business and what gives any one of us the right to even suggest it's for visa fraud? We don't live their lives...we don't sleep in their bed. We can't even know the most intimate details of the people closest to us so what gives you the right to judge someone else's relationship based on a few lines or pictures in a forum? Of course there are cases of deception...but that can happen in even the most seemingly 'normal' relationships. Who made you judge and jury? We're not here for bigotry...we're here because we need and can offer support to each other based on similar circumstances. Those kinds of unjustified opinions should be kept to yourself because it really only shows your own arrogance and ignorance when you make statements like that.

agreed. I teach elementary school and my students are better educated than that!

Well put.

Edited April 25, 2008 by przy

[gemilina 0]

Sorry but I have no sympathy for this woman whatsoever. She lied, he found out, he is upset and wants her gone. I would too if the same occurred to me. Who wants to be lied to and used and then be told to suck it up just because he was taken advantage of? The whole extent of their marriage is based on a lie...so I don't get where some people here thinks it's ok in any way to let this gal stay in the US and to kick this guy further. She doesn't have any right to be in the US and needs to be sent home. Everything was based on fraud and she knew it. If I posted on a forum that my husband just married me to get my money people would be irrate. They wouldn't say....awwww poor guy, just give him your bank card and leave him be. Not a chance. Just because we are on an immigration forum doesn't mean that everyone in this world who is involved in an immigration situation is legitimate. There will always be sharks in every pond. They also hurt the rest of us as we now have to go through so many hoops to validate our relationships and provide documentation upon documention so the system is ground to a halt and we wait to get approval.

I also agree that a person shouldn't go to a country where poverty or other outstanding issues are the norm thinking they are going to find their soulmate. Often times in places like this, there are people just waiting to find someone who lives in a well established country such as the US to improve THEIR own lives. I know it would be great if you could find someone who is alot younger and better looking, but when you do that, you roll the dice and the odds are truly not in your favour. If this guy has been burned twice now, I hope he lives...learns and moves on. Don't go down that same path is my thoughts.

[athena_ny 1]

No offenses either but thoses cases are i think expected when for example you have 25 yrs difference or someone really heavy with a tiny young adult all cute and fancy from poorer countries.

I do not know what is your situation.

I saw some picts on the gallery that sometime..... i wonder about the honnesty of all that.

what the hell? just because people are different ages or different sizes doesnt mean their marriage is a fraud???

seriously. People are so ignorant.

I guess because my husband is moreno and I'm gringa, and he's from a country much poorer than the US, it's marriage fraud. I guess I should go tell him that! I think he'll be quite surprised.

[zqt3344 21]

No offenses either but thoses cases are i think expected when for example you have 25 yrs difference or someone really heavy with a tiny young adult all cute and fancy from poorer countries.

I do not know what is your situation.

I saw some picts on the gallery that sometime..... i wonder about the honnesty of all that.

what the hell? just because people are different ages or different sizes doesnt mean their marriage is a fraud???

seriously. People are so ignorant.

I guess because my husband is moreno and I'm gringa, and he's from a country much poorer than the US, it's marriage fraud. I guess I should go tell him that! I think he'll be quite surprised.

It is possible, happens more than you would realize.