Tips on how to survive the wait and venting

[L & P 0]

Hi all,

As everyday I have been looking at K1 posts all day as well as to my email and USCIS site for update . Personally the wait is driving me mad and my SO who is the USC is trying to keep me sane by calling me as often as he can.....but I am sure some of you can not spend hours on the phone. I got almost mad today seeing so many VSC approvals from february !!!!! I am glad for the filers .....don't take me wrong ....... But where that left us ??? you are all welcome to vent here i think CSC needs a thread to VENT if not you are welcome to get it remove

[marryme 0]

Hi all,

As everyday I have been looking at K1 posts all day as well as to my email and USCIS site for update . Personally the wait is driving me mad and my SO who is the USC is trying to keep me sane by calling me as often as he can.....but I am sure some of you can not spend hours on the phone. I got almost mad today seeing so many VSC approvals from february !!!!! I am glad for the filers .....don't take me wrong ....... But where that left us ??? you are all welcome to vent here i think CSC needs a thread to VENT if not you are welcome to get it remove

seems the wait is never ending even when your so close .. its like you can see it but can't touch it kinda deal

[L & P 0]

so true ...hope you get interview soon

[sara..... 371]

Hi all,

As everyday I have been looking at K1 posts all day as well as to my email and USCIS site for update . Personally the wait is driving me mad and my SO who is the USC is trying to keep me sane by calling me as often as he can.....but I am sure some of you can not spend hours on the phone. I got almost mad today seeing so many VSC approvals from february !!!!! I am glad for the filers .....don't take me wrong ....... But where that left us ??? you are all welcome to vent here i think CSC needs a thread to VENT if not you are welcome to get it remove

well i would like to vent.........we filed in aug......called our attorney because the stupid web site says their still doing aug18 or 19th he feels we can not do anything to find out what happened to our case......why so long.........last time i called csc they told me they were working on oct......but non can tell us why its taking so long it has not even been assigned to a worker yet according to a very nice lady at csc......they have more than enough proof of anything that they ask for and we still sitting im going crazy........and now i have decided that im taken my mom to india on spring break.......culture and religion does not allow us to be together with out someone with us......... and im jealous of VSC but.......they didnt have it so good not so long ago so its a useless emotion lol.......anyways thats my vent.......time for me to go walk off some of this fat i have put in in the last two months so my wedding dress will still fit when EVER they get around to us lol.........................................

[B'sA 0]

Hi all,

As everyday I have been looking at K1 posts all day as well as to my email and USCIS site for update . Personally the wait is driving me mad and my SO who is the USC is trying to keep me sane by calling me as often as he can.....but I am sure some of you can not spend hours on the phone. I got almost mad today seeing so many VSC approvals from february !!!!! I am glad for the filers .....don't take me wrong ....... But where that left us ??? you are all welcome to vent here i think CSC needs a thread to VENT if not you are welcome to get it remove

Yeah, that's not envie, but like... to see seven days approval, or a month...

An order in those approvals would be more than welcome.

Plus, there is poor august and july filers with no NOA2.

I think that's more than unfair.

And as about talking to eachother - my fiance and i are talking and seeing eachother on the computer everyday for about 2-3 hours, but that don't mean i don't break down and cry every once in a while. Thank God, my future husband is a wise man, he knows always tha right words to say to calm me down.

[L & P 0]

i saw many of your other post Sara and i feel so bad for you that is really not fair......I am complaining but i can not describe how i would feel if i was in your place hope you get to the end of that tunnel very soon

[sara..... 371]

Hi all,

As everyday I have been looking at K1 posts all day as well as to my email and USCIS site for update . Personally the wait is driving me mad and my SO who is the USC is trying to keep me sane by calling me as often as he can.....but I am sure some of you can not spend hours on the phone. I got almost mad today seeing so many VSC approvals from february !!!!! I am glad for the filers .....don't take me wrong ....... But where that left us ??? you are all welcome to vent here i think CSC needs a thread to VENT if not you are welcome to get it remove

Yeah, that's not envie, but like... to see seven days approval, or a month...

An order in those approvals would be more than welcome.

Plus, there is poor august and july filers with no NOA2.

I think that's more than unfair.

And as about talking to eachother - my fiance and i are talking and seeing eachother on the computer everyday for about 2-3 hours, but that don't mean i don't break down and cry every once in a while. Thank God, my future husband is a wise man, he knows always tha right words to say to calm me down.

We dont get much time together on the computer because he is a doctor and works so far away from any normal city that has net for most of his work days.......when he comes back for a few days he is so tired........so we are lucky to get a couple of times a month to even talk.......sure i call him on his cell phone in between those times but since he is on call 24 seven while at the hospital alot of times i catch him in the middle of something.......he is always glad to hear from me but its kind of hard to talk when a sick child is crying in the back ground makes me feel bad for taking his time.........

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

Now that VSC is completely caught up (except for the people they just seemed to skip over) it does look rather ridiculous doesn't it. Makes me wish I had used one of my relatives living on the east coast addresses when I refiled for a THIRD time thanks to CSC errors.

Edited March 11, 2008 by lancer1655

[L & P 0]

so is mine Bryan and it does help to be able to speak daily but i can not imagine the horror for those who can not

[B'sA 0]

We dont get much time together on the computer because he is a doctor and works so far away from any normal city that has net for most of his work days.......when he comes back for a few days he is so tired........so we are lucky to get a couple of times a month to even talk.......sure i call him on his cell phone in between those times but since he is on call 24 seven while at the hospital alot of times i catch him in the middle of something.......he is always glad to hear from me but its kind of hard to talk when a sick child is crying in the back ground makes me feel bad for taking his time.........

My God, if the USCIS officers would have known all of those sacrifices...

I don't know if i have the right to complain when there is one day we cannot talk.

Hang on!

We're going to be happy one day

[L & P 0]

I completely agree Lancer ...my SO filed first time in April but file got lost .....and it took them so long for CSC to tell us

[B'sA 0]

when I refiled for a THIRD time thanks to CSC errors.

We've been through this too.

When the petition got back i felt like killing somebody

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

I completely agree Lancer ...my SO filed first time in April but file got lost .....and it took them so long for CSC to tell us

Did you try to get them to honour your april date or ask for an expedite?

[sara..... 371]

i saw many of your other post Sara and i feel so bad for you that is really not fair......I am complaining but i can not describe how i would feel if i was in your place hope you get to the end of that tunnel very soon

thank you.....we are all gonna get there.......lol not sure when but we will........i keep having my mom check for gray hair cuz im sure there must be some lol but nope not yet

[melusine 5]

L&P i wish you to have your NOA2 soon (should be anyday now i think)

stay strong ! it`s coming !!!