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  1. 1. Are you better than people with crappier jobs than you?

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This one is a hard one for me. I would say I absolutely do not look down on anyone for the job they hold--but I am a total hypocrite because of the job I am currently in. I have had a pretty good career so far--but when I moved to Oregon I could only get a semi-good paying job as a project assistant which is mostly administrative--there are parts of my job I absolutely love (technical editing) but I also have to answer the phone and do the mail (which I hate) and think that I can do BETTER that this. And have been reduced to tears when a coworker introduced me as a receptionist.

So I have been grappling with this issue--why do I think I can do better then a receptionist--and why does it bother me so much. Because I have done better in the past--I have had so much more responsibility and power and I do admit that I only feel like I'm using less then half of my available brain power.

So I think I'm in a quandry.

February 17, 2005--mailed in I 129F to CSC!

February 24, 2005--1st NOA

March 15, 2005--2nd NOA

April 11, 2005--Fiance receives Packet 3

May 19, 2005 Fax Checklist(Nigeria police report finally arrives)

June 6, 2005-- Interview Date!!!!Visa approved!!

June 18, 2005--Fiancee arrives in Hawaii!

August 14, 2005--wedding in Oregon

September 12, 2005--sent in AOS

September 20, 2005--1st NOA AOS

September 23, 2005--Walk-in biometrics completed

October 1, 2005--fingerprints received/processing resumed

November 26, 2005--EAD card received in mail

June 7, 2006--contact senators about AOS

June 28, 2006--senator says interview date is for August 14!!

August 14, 2006--AOS interview and 1 year wedding anniversary

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This one is a hard one for me. I would say I absolutely do not look down on anyone for the job they hold--but I am a total hypocrite because of the job I am currently in. I have had a pretty good career so far--but when I moved to Oregon I could only get a semi-good paying job as a project assistant which is mostly administrative--there are parts of my job I absolutely love (technical editing) but I also have to answer the phone and do the mail (which I hate) and think that I can do BETTER that this. And have been reduced to tears when a coworker introduced me as a receptionist.

So I have been grappling with this issue--why do I think I can do better then a receptionist--and why does it bother me so much. Because I have done better in the past--I have had so much more responsibility and power and I do admit that I only feel like I'm using less then half of my available brain power.

So I think I'm in a quandry.

It's typical. You are not looking down at people because of their jobs. You are dissatiesfied because you can & you have done better. It's pretty similar to people who recently immigrated & had to start over. Sometimes they have to start over lower than when they were just out of school.

I-130

Jun 28 2004 : Received at NSC

Oct 25 2004 : Transferred to CSC

Oct 29 2004 : Received at CSC

Nov 8 2004 : Received response from CSC that my file is being requested & review will be done

Nov 10 2004 : Email & online status Approved

Nov 15 2004 : NOA 2 in mail

Dec 16 2004 : NVC assigns case number

Dec 20 2004 : NVC sent DS 3032 to beneficiary, copy of DS 3032 & I-864 fee bill to petitioner

Jan 3 2005 : Petitioner received copy of DS 3032 and I-864 fee bill. Post-marked Dec 23rd.

Jan 11 2005 : Beneficiary received DS 3032 in Indonesia

Jan 31 2005 : Sent DS 3032 to NVC

Feb 8, 2005 : NVC received DS 3032

Feb 21, 2005 : IV fee generated

Feb 25, 2005 : Sent I-864 fee bill

Feb 28, 2005 : I-864 fee bill delivered to St Louis

Mar 3, 2005 : IV fee bill received

Mar 7, 2005 : Sent IV fee bill

Mar 9, 2005 : IV fee bill delivered to St Louis

Mar 28, 2005 : I-864 fee credited against case.

April 6, 2005 : Received I-864 package

April 7, 2005 : Immigrant Visa fee credited against case.

April 11, 2005 : DS 230 is generated

Aug 12, 2005 : I-864 & DS 230 received by NVC

Sep 14, 2005 : RFE on I-864

Nov 3, 2005 : Checklist response received at NVC

Nov 25, 2005 : Case completion

Dec 9, 2005 : Police Cert requested from the Netherlands

Jan 12 2006 : Interview success - Approved !!

Jan 19 2006 : Visa & brown envelope picked up

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This one is a hard one for me. I would say I absolutely do not look down on anyone for the job they hold--but I am a total hypocrite because of the job I am currently in. I have had a pretty good career so far--but when I moved to Oregon I could only get a semi-good paying job as a project assistant which is mostly administrative--there are parts of my job I absolutely love (technical editing) but I also have to answer the phone and do the mail (which I hate) and think that I can do BETTER that this. And have been reduced to tears when a coworker introduced me as a receptionist.

So I have been grappling with this issue--why do I think I can do better then a receptionist--and why does it bother me so much. Because I have done better in the past--I have had so much more responsibility and power and I do admit that I only feel like I'm using less then half of my available brain power.

So I think I'm in a quandry.

It's typical. You are not looking down at people because of their jobs. You are dissatiesfied because you can & you have done better. It's pretty similar to people who recently immigrated & had to start over. Sometimes they have to start over lower than when they were just out of school.

Yeah. I start grad school the end of this month. So I'm thankful to have a nonstressful job while I go on to bigger and better things.

onwa, I think your feelings are pretty typical. I get pissed when people call me a 'technician', because in my mind I associate that with something less than what I like to think I do. It's a mindfukc.

So true....

February 17, 2005--mailed in I 129F to CSC!

February 24, 2005--1st NOA

March 15, 2005--2nd NOA

April 11, 2005--Fiance receives Packet 3

May 19, 2005 Fax Checklist(Nigeria police report finally arrives)

June 6, 2005-- Interview Date!!!!Visa approved!!

June 18, 2005--Fiancee arrives in Hawaii!

August 14, 2005--wedding in Oregon

September 12, 2005--sent in AOS

September 20, 2005--1st NOA AOS

September 23, 2005--Walk-in biometrics completed

October 1, 2005--fingerprints received/processing resumed

November 26, 2005--EAD card received in mail

June 7, 2006--contact senators about AOS

June 28, 2006--senator says interview date is for August 14!!

August 14, 2006--AOS interview and 1 year wedding anniversary

 

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