Is Chatting With A Member Of The Opposite Sex Cheating?

[natashenika 0]

Depends on the context. If its a new cyber friend, then it can't be going in the right direction. If it's a preexisting friend that stays in touch via the internet, then perhaps there's nothing wrong with this. But as soon as any type of flirting begins, its emotional cheating. At least, in my book. I don't think Sasha or I would tollerate this behavior. And neither one of us needs a new cyber friend.

TOTALLY AGREE

[Teacher Mark 53]

I encorage her to have friends. I draw the line at chatting with other men though (relatives excluded). Call it control or what you will but I have would have a problem with her chatting with another man on a computer that I bought, over the Internet that I pay for, on the time that she has free because I support her.

Dude, with all due respect, you're seriously fcked up. There's control, and there's abuse.

I hope your wife finds some normal guy online real soon. I hope you pay for it too.

Listen. I've been thinking about this all day. I never bring up the fact that I pay for these things and I was out of line posting that here. She never asked, I offered. I have went WAY beyond what my most trusted friends have told me I should be doing. The length to which I have extended myself sort of scares me to be honest but she is taking a leap as well.

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

[Ban Hammer 13,366]

I encorage her to have friends. I draw the line at chatting with other men though (relatives excluded). Call it control or what you will but I have would have a problem with her chatting with another man on a computer that I bought, over the Internet that I pay for, on the time that she has free because I support her.

Dude, with all due respect, you're seriously fcked up. There's control, and there's abuse.

I hope your wife finds some normal guy online real soon. I hope you pay for it too.

Listen. I've been thinking about this all day. I never bring up the fact that I pay for these things and I was out of line posting that here. She never asked, I offered. I have went WAY beyond what my most trusted friends have told me I should be doing. The length to which I have extended myself sort of scares me to be honest but she is taking a leap as well.

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

[Teacher Mark 53]

I encorage her to have friends. I draw the line at chatting with other men though (relatives excluded). Call it control or what you will but I have would have a problem with her chatting with another man on a computer that I bought, over the Internet that I pay for, on the time that she has free because I support her.

Dude, with all due respect, you're seriously fcked up. There's control, and there's abuse.

I hope your wife finds some normal guy online real soon. I hope you pay for it too.

Listen. I've been thinking about this all day. I never bring up the fact that I pay for these things and I was out of line posting that here. She never asked, I offered. I have went WAY beyond what my most trusted friends have told me I should be doing. The length to which I have extended myself sort of scares me to be honest but she is taking a leap as well.

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

Now you've gone and whipped out a despair.com post. I know I'm gonna' cry now!

[mawilson 2,133]

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

*mawilson takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about all the dumb things he's done*

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

*mawilson takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about all the dumb things he's done*

*puts mawilson on suicide watch*

[Teacher Mark 53]

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

*mawilson takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about all the dumb things he's done*

See, we do have something (other than the f..ed up process we're in) in common.

[almaty 19]

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

*mawilson takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about all the dumb things he's done*

*puts mawilson on suicide watch*

* takes away his malt-o-meal*

[Ban Hammer 13,366]

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

*mawilson takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about all the dumb things he's done*

one of which is taking that geico lizard off your avatar

[eric&gen 0]

Look at his title Im a baby killer.

[mawilson 2,133]

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

*mawilson takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about all the dumb things he's done*

one of which is taking that geico lizard off your avatar

The Geico lizard is too cute and positive for me right now. I was going for a darker, more ominous look.

[Ban Hammer 13,366]

I'm going to ignore you mawilson. Go take a look in the mirror.

P.S. I love all you guys and gals (even if you refuse to see things my way)!

*mawilson takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about all the dumb things he's done*

one of which is taking that geico lizard off your avatar

The Geico lizard is too cute and positive for me right now. I was going for a darker, more ominous look.

[Sprailenes 47]

I think once your married male/female relationships that are outside the marriage can become complicated, and if you are going to have them, you have to be completely open with your husband/wife about it. I mean if my husband was talking online with another female, and never told me about it, or tried to hide it, I would become suspicious.

Edited March 11, 2008 by Sprailenes

[Marilyn. 340]

Why would someone need a new chat buddy? A vast majority of the people on this website including myself met our others online. We all know where "innocent chatting" can lead. My wife and I had this same discusion not long ago. As I told her, I trust you but it's not proper for you to chat with other men. I will not chat with other women because there is no need to.

Right on brother!

innocent chatting will only go somewhere if you let it or want it to happen

Depends on the context. If its a new cyber friend, then it can't be going in the right direction. If it's a preexisting friend that stays in touch via the internet, then perhaps there's nothing wrong with this. But as soon as any type of flirting begins, its emotional cheating. At least, in my book. I don't think Sasha or I would tollerate this behavior. And neither one of us needs a new cyber friend.

TOTALLY AGREE

dang, so making new IRL friends is ok??

[Peikko 1,575]

Hell no, you don't need friends, you've got a husband, woman, get back in the kitchen and warm those slippers!