Is Chatting With A Member Of The Opposite Sex Cheating?

[mawilson 2,133]

So why do we still type like 15 year olds?

Insecure 15-year-olds make excellent targets for green card seeking Muslim terrorists.

how so?

They can file petitions when they turn 18

[Teacher Mark 53]

If it were me chatting with a memeber of the oppsoste sex would be an automatic divorce. I've seen this turn from innocent chatting to divorce several times with family and friends. Want a friend? Get a dog.

seriously?????????????????????????? shouldn't you trust your spouse to have FRIENDS?

I encorage her to have friends. I draw the line at chatting with other men though (relatives excluded). Call it control or what you will but I have would have a problem with her chatting with another man on a computer that I bought, over the Internet that I pay for, on the time that she has free because I support her.

The incident that me and a friend were discussing had him catching his wife with a chat window open. The user name was in English and sexually suggestive. She claimed she didn't know it was suggestive and that is probably true, BUT with a user name like this he only had one thing on his mind. They were chatting in another language that the man did not speak. He then had her open her account and it was loaded with chat partners. She claimed that she had not talked to any of them since she met him, but was caught red handed talikng to one. I'm sorry, she would have to go.

you know me and my husband had the same talks about me chating to men online, and hes egyptian and u know there that women normally dont talk to men thats not relative unles s the husbands there,,,, buttttttt this is what we concluded from it all...

if he has to keep me from talking to men to make sure i dont cheat,, it means that he dont trust me and alsooooooo if u can only keep ur wife in ur life by preventing her from talking to a man,,, then in realityyyyyy u never had her ,,, and same goes for a woman not letting her man talk to women also................ we cant keep people in boxes and cages to keep them,.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, alhamdilllah my husband has my heart mind body and soul.......... and 10000000000000000 men could want me and i would refuse.. and not cause he stoped me from talking to men, but cause he has my love and devotion, and i know my husband is same way with his feelings torward me, now dont u think

that this is one of the many things that shows real love??????? real marriage???????/ real trust????? you can put ur spouse in a cage and prevent her from talking to men,, but when she walks down the street or goes to work orrrrrrrr anywhere,, what then?????? you gon na put a device on her to track her every move????? in a nutshell. if someone wants to cheat on you there is no cage to strong to stop them except loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

I don't care what she does now. Last I heard she was dancing on a bar for tips.

[Staashi 371]

With people writing like that, it is a sure sign that our education system has gone to #######!

[ya fallaha! 0]

It's also a sign that some ppl sign not only their hearts but their minds and writing abilities to non native speaking husbands.

With people writing like that, it is a sure sign that our education system has gone to #######!

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

It's also a sign that some ppl sign not only their hearts but their minds and writing abilities to non native speaking husbands.

With people writing like that, it is a sure sign that our education system has gone to #######!

oh snap, she brought it to OT mena-style lalalalalalalalala *ululates*

[Chica Yeyé 41]

It's also a sign that some ppl sign not only their hearts but their minds and writing abilities to non native speaking husbands.

With people writing like that, it is a sure sign that our education system has gone to #######!

oh snap, she brought it to OT mena-style lalalalalalalalala *ululates*

[morocco4ever 63]

Whatttttttttttttttt isssssssssssssss wrongggggggggggg withhhhhhhhhhh talkinggggggggggg likeeeeeeeeee aaaaaaa 1555555555555 yearrrrrrrrrrr oldddddddddddd?

[ya fallaha! 0]

You forgot,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

You ladies are being so insensitive.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

omg... and the goes "no-oh" and I go "ah! yeaaaah" and he goes "pfffffffft -- loser" and i go "oh noooo you didn't" and he goes "wahtevah"....

[Nessa 23]

oldie but good

[Spoom 8]

On the actual topic, if you are so insecure as to believe that your partner even talking to a member of the opposite sex is cheating, you should really be examining your own insecurity rather than the fact that they were socializing.

Trust on both sides is a requirement for any relationship I'm in, and I'm happy to say that we have it.

[morocco4ever 63]

You ladies are being so insensitive.

Just trying to beat you to the punch.

omg... and the goes "no-oh" and I go "ah! yeaaaah" and he goes "pfffffffft -- loser" and i go "oh noooo you didn't" and he goes "wahtevah"....

Ohhhhhhh nooooooooo youuuuuuuuuuuuu didn'ttttttttttt,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

(Was that better Moody?)

[Chica Yeyé 41]

You ladies are being so insensitive.

Just trying to beat you to the punch.

[ya fallaha! 0]

That's my girl!

You ladies are being so insensitive.

Just trying to beat you to the punch.

omg... and the goes "no-oh" and I go "ah! yeaaaah" and he goes "pfffffffft -- loser" and i go "oh noooo you didn't" and he goes "wahtevah"....

Ohhhhhhh nooooooooo youuuuuuuuuuuuu didn'ttttttttttt,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

(Was that better Moody?)