Is Chatting With A Member Of The Opposite Sex Cheating?

[Amby 490]

good choice you'll never go hungry!

[trinket 30]

I just woke up and I'm feeling kinda' cranky. My biggest regret is obviously the fact that the marriage failed. The problem is that she didn't enter it in good faith. so it was doomed to eventual failure anyway.

Dude, you're in Vietnam! There are thousands of chicks who will marry you for real.

Good God you're right! Be back in a second.

or just go round up a few and have some fun - talk to justashooter for pointers.

Yup justashooter will tell you exactly what kind of silicon was used

[Teacher Mark 53]

Yes I remember watching those videos. They are nice and cute.

Oh well I think its a good thing that you didn't have the video camera to record the ending (unless it was some kind of filmy ending). Just I believe in let go, if you keep the videos, you would want to see them again after 5 years and those wounds will never heal.

I just woke up and I'm feeling kinda' cranky. My biggest regret is obviously the fact that the marriage failed. The problem is that she didn't enter it in good faith. so it was doomed to eventual failure anyway.

Bottom line-- You can't control how others feel.

So you can't control that she was just using you. But what you can do is live life to the fullest. I know its hard to be heart broken and all that (sorry if I sound harsh) but you have to pick yourself up and live your life. Its not the end of the world, nothing is end of the world, and when that time reaches, well you can't do anything.

Take your time to be angry, mad, be frustrated and all that but don't take it too long. Its not black and white world and you can't say life will always be perfect, hell life is never perfect but you just need to wear that humour hat and live whats in store for you.

Sage advise. Thanks.

OR alternatively...just think of her sweating and bent over a bucket of water washing clothes while you're at home tossing stuff into the washing machine

Ouch!

I try to avoid thoughts like that. I'm afraid that one may come during a moment of weakness, start making excuses for her again and call. No chance now though.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

good choice you'll never go hungry!

I just woke up and I'm feeling kinda' cranky. My biggest regret is obviously the fact that the marriage failed. The problem is that she didn't enter it in good faith. so it was doomed to eventual failure anyway.

Dude, you're in Vietnam! There are thousands of chicks who will marry you for real.

Good God you're right! Be back in a second.

or just go round up a few and have some fun - talk to justashooter for pointers.

Yup justashooter will tell you exactly what kind of silicon was used

:rofl:

[Teacher Mark 53]

People in those countries wash clothes like that. We think it's insulting, but, it's common practice to wash clothes in buckets. I don't think it's insult to them. However, we sure the she won't be getting a green card because Joe can just tell the US Embassy that she is a perpetrature of marriage scams. This will leave a record for them to reference from ever going to the US.

I won't go to them unless I am applying with another wife. Then it will probably be necessary.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

How about a teacher? Someone you might know at work? Hot teachers are hawt.

Edited June 13, 2009 by Col. 'Bat' Guano

[Teacher Mark 53]

How about a teacher? Someone you might know at work? Hot teachers are hawt.

[almaty 19]

always hot for the teacher

[Teacher Mark 53]

always hot for the teacher

Thanks Dean but I don't mess with married men!

[Ban Hammer 13,360]

always hot for the teacher

Thanks Dean but I don't mess with married men!

[warriorprincess 0]

If you're just talking about everyday things, it's okay. Once the conversation begins to get too personal or sexual in nature, then it call it quits. If it is someone you recently met, you have to draw the line from the beginning. Let the person know that any inappropriate behaviour or conversation would not be tolerated. In fact you can also introduce your spouse to the person. But my view is it is up to the individual to let the friend of the opposite sex know what is and what is not acceptable in the friendship.

[aishahossam 1]

If it were me chatting with a memeber of the oppsoste sex would be an automatic divorce. I've seen this turn from innocent chatting to divorce several times with family and friends. Want a friend? Get a dog.

seriously?????????????????????????? shouldn't you trust your spouse to have FRIENDS?

I encorage her to have friends. I draw the line at chatting with other men though (relatives excluded). Call it control or what you will but I have would have a problem with her chatting with another man on a computer that I bought, over the Internet that I pay for, on the time that she has free because I support her.

The incident that me and a friend were discussing had him catching his wife with a chat window open. The user name was in English and sexually suggestive. She claimed she didn't know it was suggestive and that is probably true, BUT with a user name like this he only had one thing on his mind. They were chatting in another language that the man did not speak. He then had her open her account and it was loaded with chat partners. She claimed that she had not talked to any of them since she met him, but was caught red handed talikng to one. I'm sorry, she would have to go.

you know me and my husband had the same talks about me chating to men online, and hes egyptian and u know there that women normally dont talk to men thats not relative unles s the husbands there,,,, buttttttt this is what we concluded from it all...

if he has to keep me from talking to men to make sure i dont cheat,, it means that he dont trust me and alsooooooo if u can only keep ur wife in ur life by preventing her from talking to a man,,, then in realityyyyyy u never had her ,,, and same goes for a woman not letting her man talk to women also................ we cant keep people in boxes and cages to keep them,.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, alhamdilllah my husband has my heart mind body and soul.......... and 10000000000000000 men could want me and i would refuse.. and not cause he stoped me from talking to men, but cause he has my love and devotion, and i know my husband is same way with his feelings torward me, now dont u think

that this is one of the many things that shows real love??????? real marriage???????/ real trust????? you can put ur spouse in a cage and prevent her from talking to men,, but when she walks down the street or goes to work orrrrrrrr anywhere,, what then?????? you gon na put a device on her to track her every move????? in a nutshell. if someone wants to cheat on you there is no cage to strong to stop them except loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

So why do we still type like 15 year olds?

[mawilson 2,133]

So why do we still type like 15 year olds?

Insecure 15-year-olds make excellent targets for green card seeking Muslim terrorists.

[Ban Hammer 13,360]

So why do we still type like 15 year olds?

Insecure 15-year-olds make excellent targets for green card seeking Muslim terrorists.

how so?