She Dumped Me!!

[mox 298]

I'm of 2 minds on kd4uvc. I'm sympathetic to anyone who is led to believe they're in love, only to find out they've been scammed. That has to suck in every imaginable way. On the other hand, kd4uvc needs to man up and accept the situation for what it is, instead of pouring more time, emotion, and money into something that is not going to be true no matter how much he wants it to be.

It's no surprise that he's gone. We were pretty harsh to him, but it needed to be done. And since there's no way she's going to go along with a K-1 application, he's really lost most of the reason to be here anyway.

[slim 1,525]

This really is the resurrecting old threads day.

[NavarreMan 10]

I don't think anyone was harsh on him. If he managed to patch things up, great for him. But having carefully read every post in this thread, one thought comes to mind...

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!

Love, true love, is unmistakable in its intensity, sincerity and identity. It can happen face to face, over the phone and on the internet; in a bar, at a party or on a bus. Geography is less important but does affect opportunity. Every word the OP wrote about his experiences with his special lady describes textbook scamming. If he, or anyone else thinks the posters here were harsh, please visit Fiance.com (I am not advocating their web site, quite the opposite!) and their forums and try this story out. The OP would have been slaughtered.

The comments here were intelligent and truthful and as best as I could tell, well intentioned. A few of the posts were the best advice I have seen on this subject in quite some time. It remains the OP's decision on how to deal with his situation. As Robert Heinlein wrote" People seldom learn from their own experiences, they'll be damned if they'll learn from the experiences of others".

Mox, Slim & Jeff... you are wise beyond your years!

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

Nice post! Thanks for the kind words Navarreman! But I is getting up there in age!

I don't think anyone was harsh on him. If he managed to patch things up, great for him. But having carefully read every post in this thread, one thought comes to mind...

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!

Love, true love, is unmistakable in its intensity, sincerity and identity. It can happen face to face, over the phone and on the internet; in a bar, at a party or on a bus. Geography is less important but does affect opportunity. Every word the OP wrote about his experiences with his special lady describes textbook scamming. If he, or anyone else thinks the posters here were harsh, please visit Fiance.com (I am not advocating their web site, quite the opposite!) and their forums and try this story out. The OP would have been slaughtered.

The comments here were intelligent and truthful and as best as I could tell, well intentioned. A few of the posts were the best advice I have seen on this subject in quite some time. It remains the OP's decision on how to deal with his situation. As Robert Heinlein wrote" People seldom learn from their own experiences, they'll be damned if they'll learn from the experiences of others".

Mox, Slim & Jeff... you are wise beyond your years!

[Corey-Mariya 14]

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!

You stole my quote haha

Well said everyone you nailed it!

[visaveteran1 33]

I don't think anyone was harsh on him. If he managed to patch things up, great for him. But having carefully read every post in this thread, one thought comes to mind...

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!

Love, true love, is unmistakable in its intensity, sincerity and identity. It can happen face to face, over the phone and on the internet; in a bar, at a party or on a bus. Geography is less important but does affect opportunity. Every word the OP wrote about his experiences with his special lady describes textbook scamming. If he, or anyone else thinks the posters here were harsh, please visit Fiance.com (I am not advocating their web site, quite the opposite!) and their forums and try this story out. The OP would have been slaughtered.

The comments here were intelligent and truthful and as best as I could tell, well intentioned. A few of the posts were the best advice I have seen on this subject in quite some time. It remains the OP's decision on how to deal with his situation. As Robert Heinlein wrote" People seldom learn from their own experiences, they'll be damned if they'll learn from the experiences of others".

Mox, Slim & Jeff... you are wise beyond your years!

I'm not sure if the OP was being scammed or we were. OP suddenly appeared on the forum with a sad tale of woe and his story read like a bad soap opera script. Given the recent bogus Satellite thread about his wife leaving him, and all the attention that got, I think we had a copycat poster...maybe. If not, we met the rookie to beat all rookies. But I tend to go with him being a BS artist as he disappeared as quickly as he showed up.

When we stopped taking the bait, the fun was over and he split.