She Dumped Me!!

[kd4uvc 0]

Beata dumped me because her friends fed her a line of bull about me leaving her stranded or alone. She called our life together a dream which would not be a reality. She hurt me so much when she broke up with me. She had decided weeks ago but decided to wait until after she got her Woman's Day gift. I would have given her all I had. The worst thing she took from me was my heart.

[sara..... 371]

Beata dumped me because her friends fed her a line of bull about me leaving her stranded or alone. She called our life together a dream which would not be a reality. She hurt me so much when she broke up with me. She had decided weeks ago but decided to wait until after she got her Woman's Day gift. I would have given her all I had. The worst thing she took from me was my heart.

im sorry to hear that.....is there anyway u can try to talk to her about all of this?........

[tammy2688 1]

Oh no,

I wish you are not feeling so bad. Please talk to her and try to work things out.

I wish you the best

Tammy

[natashenika 0]

I'm sorry,

[kd4uvc 0]

For an hour, I talked with her. Some damn idiot which claims to be her friend has convinced her that I would abandon her and leave her stranded. She is convinced that her coming her would be a burden on her and me. She thinks she will be a burden on me financially on her. If I could get my hands on this friend,... How can I talk and convince her of how her thoughts of me and the burden issue is wrong when I can only talk with her on the phone and her friends can talk face to face. She thinks she will be better off living there. She makes $200 a month, has to buy her daughter medicine for leukemia, and food. Several days ago, she almost passed out due to not eating. I believe it is due to not having money. I have asked her to tell me when she needed money for her daughter's medicine but she rarely requested it. I believe it is a death sentence for her daughter. I make good money. I drive a Mercedes, 2006, Harley 2006, own my own home. I live 92 miles from work and am in the process of selling it. I was going to buy a home closer to work. I grew up in a family which doesn't get divorces. The average marriage lasts over 50 years. It is the rule, not the exception. I waited until I found someone which loved me very much. Unfortunately, I lose her due to bad advice from her friends. It is my loss!!

[panamania79 2]

Beata dumped me because her friends fed her a line of bull about me leaving her stranded or alone. She called our life together a dream which would not be a reality. She hurt me so much when she broke up with me. She had decided weeks ago but decided to wait until after she got her Woman's Day gift. I would have given her all I had. The worst thing she took from me was my heart.

These so called "friends" of her's are just envious of her.Try talking to her again but do not beg.If she's going to fall for her friend's bs instead of trusting you,forgetaboutit.You deserve better.I'm sorry that this happened to you.

[natashenika 0]

how did you meet?

how long do you know each other?

may be it will help if you'll fly to talk to her in person?

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

Did you get a translator for that one hour conversation?

I'm sorry but something isn't right about this whole story.

Leukemia medicine? come on.

Where did you meet this girl?

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

I'm with you on this one. Something smells here Laura.

Did you get a translator for that one hour conversation?

I'm sorry but something isn't right about this whole story.

Leukemia medicine? come on.

Where did you meet this girl?

[visaveteran1 33]

I'm with you on this one. Something smells here Laura.

Did you get a translator for that one hour conversation?

I'm sorry but something isn't right about this whole story.

Leukemia medicine? come on.

Where did you meet this girl?

This does sound like a scam of some sort. I wonder if a request for money is forthcoming?

[JVKn'CVO 11]

For an hour, I talked with her. Some damn idiot which claims to be her friend has convinced her that I would abandon her and leave her stranded. She is convinced that her coming her would be a burden on her and me. She thinks she will be a burden on me financially on her. If I could get my hands on this friend,... How can I talk and convince her of how her thoughts of me and the burden issue is wrong when I can only talk with her on the phone and her friends can talk face to face. She thinks she will be better off living there. She makes $200 a month, has to buy her daughter medicine for leukemia, and food. Several days ago, she almost passed out due to not eating. I believe it is due to not having money. I have asked her to tell me when she needed money for her daughter's medicine but she rarely requested it. I believe it is a death sentence for her daughter. I make good money. I drive a Mercedes, 2006, Harley 2006, own my own home. I live 92 miles from work and am in the process of selling it. I was going to buy a home closer to work. I grew up in a family which doesn't get divorces. The average marriage lasts over 50 years. It is the rule, not the exception. I waited until I found someone which loved me very much. Unfortunately, I lose her due to bad advice from her friends. It is my loss!!

From your post, I take it money is not an issue for you, so my advice is: take the next avail flight to Russia, and go talk to her face to face. Show her you care, I think she needs that. If it fails, at least you tried your best.

It is HER you need to talk to, not the people here.

Saludos,

Caro

[kd4uvc 0]

I wish I could fly to Novosibirsk, but I would lose my job. My job is my lifeline. I am a diabetic and no one will hire me now. It is a good job and I cannot afford to lose it because if I lose it, I lose my life. I have known her for a long time. She did not ask for money for the daughter, it is not a money issue. It is an issue of she does not believe that I will stay married to her. She has had two pathetic husbands, I did check this out. One was not faithful, getting several women in the building where she lived pregnant, the other turned out to be gay and used her for a promotional stepping stone. I do not need an interpreter to speak with her. She can write well enough to understand the forms, that was my red flag. She has something in her past which she does not want me to know. She cut both of our throats to keep the secret. The biggest problem is my personal beliefs, I made a promise to her and to God. I cannot break that promise. I promised to be faithful to her, and I shall. Because she doesn't honor her promise which she made also does not give me the OK to do the same. It took me 44 years to find the one which stole my heart. I can live alone, for I won't live another 44 years. Thanks for the support. Maybe someday soon she will realize the mistake and rethink her thoughts.

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

I wish I could fly to Novosibirsk, but I would lose my job. My job is my lifeline. I am a diabetic and no one will hire me now. It is a good job and I cannot afford to lose it because if I lose it, I lose my life. I have known her for a long time. She did not ask for money for the daughter, it is not a money issue. It is an issue of she does not believe that I will stay married to her. She has had two pathetic husbands, I did check this out. One was not faithful, getting several women in the building where she lived pregnant, the other turned out to be gay and used her for a promotional stepping stone. I do not need an interpreter to speak with her. She can write well enough to understand the forms, that was my red flag. She has something in her past which she does not want me to know. She cut both of our throats to keep the secret. The biggest problem is my personal beliefs, I made a promise to her and to God. I cannot break that promise. I promised to be faithful to her, and I shall. Because she doesn't honor her promise which she made also does not give me the OK to do the same. It took me 44 years to find the one which stole my heart. I can live alone, for I won't live another 44 years. Thanks for the support. Maybe someday soon she will realize the mistake and rethink her thoughts.

I'll ask again, where did you meet her?

[kd4uvc 0]

I met her on a website. I don't even remember the name of it. We have been talking on the phone for the last 1 1/2 years. I went to St. Petersburg and paid for her flight to join me there. She will not come.

[mox 298]

Alright...call me jaded, but one of two things is going on here:

1) kd4uvc is a troller

-or-

2) There is more to this story than we're being told, and it's being done in such a way as to pull on this community's heartstrings to make the OP feel better about a situation he knows is a complete scam.

I find it very strange that this story has played out so quickly. In just over a week we've gone from totally in love, needing help translating documents for the K-1, to "she's keeping secrets." Sorry, that's just not working for me.

kd4uvc, if you're for real, then you're being taken for a ride, and what's more is that you know it. I'm sorry I can't provide more sympathy than that, but nothing is adding up for me. If you're for real, then you know that you need to run, not walk, away from this relationship.