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Do you have/want any children?  

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  1. 1. Do you have kids now?

    • ya
      43
    • nope
      77
    • maybe
      2

  2. 2. are you planning on having kids/more once your SO gets to the US?

    • I dunno
      15
    • ya
      77
    • nope
      31

  3. 3. How many do you want?

    • I dunno
      18
    • 1
      24
    • 2-3
      46
    • We'll start our own soccer team if we can
      7
    • whatever
      30

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Y's_habibitk Mentor

Y's_habibitk   2

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this poll sucks. first of, ####### is up with people???? multiple choice? oh, I'm gonna vote yes and no at the same time :wacko: and then ####### is up with the second question? we're not all USC waiting for our SO, make the question available for everybody to answer. God damn it!

Geez.. its my first poll, chill out for the love of God. :) lol

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Nessa Grand Master

Nessa   23

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why not? because it's selfish. if you realistically can't afford to have a child, then it's understandable, but if you can but are just too worried about having to cut back in some of your luxuries, then it's selfish behavior, IMHO.



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JVKn'CVO   11

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1) nope

2) we are going to wait a few years

3)So if I want 3-4, I have to vote going for the soccer team? :blush:

House count as of today:

hubby and me

1 siberian husky - "Anya"

2 cats

1 african sicklet (that looks like a giant gold fish)

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Y's_habibitk   2

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1) nope

2) we are going to wait a few years

3)So if I want 3-4, I have to vote going for the soccer team? :blush:

House count as of today:

hubby and me

1 siberian husky - "Anya"

2 cats

1 african sicklet (that looks like a giant gold fish)

Saludos,

Caro

Hee hee, no 3-4 wouldnt be a team, really lol

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my son and I

4 snakes -Achilles,Rosy, never named the other two heh heh

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1 german shepherd- Akasha

Lisa

"you fondle my trigger then you blame my gun"

Timeline: 13 month long journey from filing to visa in hand

If you were lucky and got an approval and reunion with your loved one rather quickly; Please refrain from telling people who waited 6+ months just to get out of a service center to "chill out" or to "stop whining" It's insensitive,and unecessary. Once you walk a mile in their shoes you will understand and be heard.

Thanks!

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Amby Grand Master

Amby   490

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we only want 1-2 kids (neil wants 2 so we have a backup incase something happens to one SERIOUSLY) which we will probably adopt because I'm too selfish and don't want to go through the pain and suffering. plus why have our own kids when there are tons of kids out there waiting for a family. we don't want them anytime soon though. maybe 5-10yrs down the road. we still have way too many things we want to do before we have a family. mainly travel stuff and I'm sure world travel is not easy and not as fun when you're hauling around kids

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Nessa Grand Master

Nessa   23

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you talk like you can just snap your fingers and adopt a baby just like that.



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*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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Dr. Obvious   49

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why not? because it's selfish. if you realistically can't afford to have a child, then it's understandable, but if you can but are just too worried about having to cut back in some of your luxuries, then it's selfish behavior, IMHO.

I don't think it is selfish. That person is someone who is probably correct not to want children. Wrong personality, values for the job.

Luxuries are in the eye of the beholder.

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I looked at that and thought, what-??? :lol: I think you meant African Cichlid!

1) nope

2) we are going to wait a few years

3)So if I want 3-4, I have to vote going for the soccer team? :blush:

House count as of today:

hubby and me

1 siberian husky - "Anya"

2 cats

1 african sicklet (that looks like a giant gold fish)

Saludos,

Caro

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Sister Fracas   5

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JVKn'CVO   11

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I looked at that and thought, what-??? :lol: I think you meant African Cichlid!

1) nope

2) we are going to wait a few years

3)So if I want 3-4, I have to vote going for the soccer team? :blush:

House count as of today:

hubby and me

1 siberian husky - "Anya"

2 cats

1 african sicklet (that looks like a giant gold fish)

Saludos,

Caro

fudge! I googled it to try to get it right and not even then

Saludos,

Caro

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Happily married and enjoying our life together!

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Ban Hammer Grand Master

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I can't believe you guys :bonk: you can't just not have kids just because they're expensive. What about things that money can't buy that kids provide, like unconditional love, suffering, annoyance, disrespect?

oh i got married for those :lol:

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yaziedandlisa   0

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yah we are planning on kids.... and FYI hunny i voted on soccer team lol... hmmmm? good poll babe,, and for those who didnt like the poll= 00100... sorry for being rude babe... anyway... this is my wife poll and i LOVE it...

and no adoption ... google = why no adoption in islam...

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My husband and I do want children - but not for a couple of years when we're better established here. We're both in our mid-twenties and neither one of us has children and we'd like to have a family together. We plan on having two children, but if that doesn't happen (having any kids) then that's what is meant to be.

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chri'stina   190

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We have one(he's new! hehe)...waited about 2 1/2 years after Sujeet moved here/got married before we started trying.

I always said I wanted 2. At the moment, I am scared about recovering from another c-section and my labor was so long that I'd be afraid to try it that way again. It's too fresh in my mind. I am hoping "time heals all wounds" and I will be up for going through it again in a couple years. If not, there is always adoption but it's not an easy thing to go through either.

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