Need some help in the Russian language

[mox 298]

No, I did not send her flowers. I sent her what she wanted. She gets mad when I send flowers. It's not the fact of the holiday, she used it as an excuse. She is doing strange things when I ask certain questions she has previously answered. I am not sure that she wants to fill out the paperwork. This has been happening for weeks now. She has started not eating, she lives with her parents now and they have food. There are some strange things going on and all together is causing me to question our relationship. She received her gift on Wednesday and afterwards, it was like sometimes, I did not exist. Whatever is going on, I cannot help if I don't know.

Hmmmm. Sorry to hear this. Sounds like you've got some bigger things to work out than paperwork right now. Not sure what I can say, but I hope you and her can get it worked out.

[slim 1,525]

It sounds to me like you guys talk (or message or Skype or whatever) way too much.

If you're trying to get in touch with her and she's busy doing stuff in her normal life, it may seem like she's blowing you off, but in reality, she's just going on with her normal life. When she's ready to talk to your or do the papers or whatever, maybe then she'll make it seem like you exist.

In the mean time, don't take it personally, just be patient. She'll get it done. She'll make time.

And if she doesn't..... well, then you're saving yourself a whole bunch of time because you'll know before getting further along in this VJ process whether or not she's as serious about this whole thing as you are.

Try not calling her for a few days. Don't send any messages. Nothing. Let her come back to you and then tell her the seriousness of getting this $#!T done. Her actions will let you know.