Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[Sonshyne 2]

Lawny,

I ain't even finish reading your post yet,...get an order of proctection that says she can't come within ex-number of feet within your house. i'm sure she threanted you...and even if she didn't call her and leave some bad wud pon her phone and when she call u back don't pick up, let it go into voicemail and take it down to the police station....and i don't even think u need a voicemail....while he may have the right to be there...she doesn't...Go to the police station...there has to be some sort of trespassing law for her....she's in your house...and you never invite her...he is part owner but he doesn't live there, I really can't believe he has free access to the whole house...now let me see what else u had to say...

He owns half the house...we live in MD, so law says, I can't put him out or lock him out (unless he HURTS me). Girl, this is just FRIGGIN fustrating. I told that gyal no come back a mi yard. I told her to get the hell out and when she refused, I took her purse and threw it outside. She start cussing, neighbors were outside working in their yards and I was so embrassed. I told her I'm calling the police, so they left.

Yuh see wah mi seh... Mi haffi shawt shawt tempa, wen she refused mi wodda had deh green light and license to WOOP HER A$$!! Mi nuh wan fe mek yuh no more upset but dis ere really mek mi angry. Ah who she tink she is??

Bwoy mi tell yuh mi haffi calm dung nuh

I feel the same way...go the police station and file a police report...i'm sure somewhere in the cussing yesterday there was a threat, if not make one up...think about it this way...say Marcel does get his NOA2 in weeks and is able to come up here before the 4 months...what would happen when your ex come in the house like he live there...Marcel would kick his ###..then he would have a police record and no AOS...U NUH WANT THAT...so you have to start setting up shop the right way from now and secure you and your man's future...

Shyne/Jengs,

Trust mi...I've thought about doing all sorts of stuff. I went to the police 6 months ago and was told there's really nothing that can be done in obtaining an order of protection, since he hasn't done anything. Then they told me about the law and locking him out or changing the locks. If I change the locks, all he has to do is call and locksmith and have them open the door. Marcel and I won't be living at that house. I hope (and ladies, please pray for me) that I'll close on this house April 30th. Everything is in place so far; and Jengs, Marcel will kick him down.

Hear the gyal...she ago call police cause mi destroy her property (cause mi fling her purse outside)...mi stand up a mi front step and fling it into the street. I didn't care. I told her to get out and she was refusing to leave. What hurts me the most, is that my son was there and the BURNED me. You have no idea. I'm telling you right now, if she's there today. Ya'll will not see me on line for a while. I hate to say that, but that's how I'm feeling now.

Just got of the phone with local police and was told I can get a no-treprass order against her since she's harrasing me. So, back to the Courts tomorrow. That I will not be able to get for 6-8 weeks. Now, if mi BAX her down...they'll lock me up right away. I just don't get it.

excellent,

Your going about it right, the legal way.

[*JG* 2]

Agreed! For me the most deciding factor in a man is ambition...and not just the kind you talk about but the ones who are are doing something. Talked to a lot of guys who wanted to do this or do that..but never did anything..

Morning.

Ditto....ambition, better yet goals setting ability. 'Where do you see us in five, ten, 15 years?....that's my kind of man!

I can't even think that far ahead. So that's how I look at life.....one day at a time.

Agreed! For me the most deciding factor in a man is ambition...and not just the kind you talk about but the ones who are are doing something. Talked to a lot of guys who wanted to do this or do that..but never did anything..

Morning.

Ditto....ambition, better yet goals setting ability. 'Where do you see us in five, ten, 15 years?....that's my kind of man!

Also, my criteria is that he works just as hard as I do at everything he does.

[*JG* 2]

Don't know. It took 16 months before Damien got his 2 year green card.

I thought that it was some truth to the fact, if they take longer than two years from the date you both were married(or some date) they would issue a 10 years green card?

Yup, I believe over two years.

That's it. She didn't say how long...

They have not been married 2 years. She did all this early last year and they took a very long time to process her AOS. I asked her if she's sure it's a ten year and it is. I saw the card on Saturday. I just thought it was strange. Because as I understand it, you get a CONDITIONAL card for 2 years, right? Now, her sister is wondering the same thing.

Jax - the first time is sooooooooo exciting. When is he going? Are you going?

It's been two years since Damien been home.

We are going when he is done with summer school. Thinking the end of July start of August. He is going the first week alone and then Jaylyn and I will be traveling down the next week. So he is staying 2 weeks and I am staying one week. I wish we could afford the El Greco but we will be staying away from the beach. I forgot the name of the hotel. Yeah we will see if we go next year with the baby and everything. We thought Grandma should see the baby. She has no family left in Jamaica so it will be nice to visit her. I am hoping she will take Jaylyn for the weekend so I can go to the beach and hang out. I am excited to hangout with my friends too. This will be also the longest time for me away from my friends. I am use to going once a year and it will be a little over a year. I am hoping we can go other places beside Jamaica someday. Maybe Disney World in the next couple of years.

Did you go when he went done for the first time? Does he not want to go back now?

My mother, aunt and I went back with him the first trip March 2006. That was the first time our families met. It was nice but a short trip.

We went back that July for Sumfest. 13 of our friends went with us...they stayed 4 nights. We toured JA while Damien was visiting his friends and family during the day and we all partied every night. I stayed two extra nights...just me and him....no interruptions. He end up staying for extra 4-5 nights with his brothers.

I went back with some friends last July but he did not want to go. Too many pressures from his family. We're going the first week in August. He's now excited.

It sounds like everyone is going back the first week of August. Mindy is also going that week. I am glad we have a small family. Hubby is just bring down dog chains for his Kaos family group. Boys

Try having 3 brothers who wears the same size as you Damien came home almost naked the first trip. He learned his lesson the 2nd trip. Let's see what will happen this August...

Yeah, we're landing the same time as Mindy. Maybe we'll have a quick group hug before they leave for Kingston.

Girl, I hate that. Back in the day, my brother would go down with all his clothing and would come back with NOTHING! They now not to ask me that now. I also told my fiance, he better get his family straight. The amount of MONEY that is spent on the immgration process is STRESSFUL enough, so, they better not ask you for nothing.

Still didn't hear about the football team yet.

Good morning. MOST times his brothers aren't too bad. I call all of them "Pretty Ricky" because they like stylish clothes. They always look nice.

Football....whenever you have time. Last spring he played on some guys from all over the Caribbean on Andews Air Force base but I'm sure it's not the same.

I think I was at that game. My ex, his team was playing

Have her call on that and double check. There was a thread on here where someone asked the very same question because they got a 10 year green card after filing AOS. Turned out it was a mistake. They mailed them the 10 year GC; but had only a 2 year GC on the record. This person would've been out of status had they not checked and then filed for the 10 year.

[Yaads 0]

Good Morning Yardies Thanks for all the well wishes for my gma. She is doing alright now thank goodness.

Major good luck vibes going out to all those at the embassy today!!!

Ok guys in 15 mins I am off to the Comcast office to see about getting myself a home phone and internet Hope and pray it goes well and I can get something in my area (remember it is bush ) and that I can get a good deal and they set it up soon! Gosh I really hope I can get something!

Yards any luck with Comcast??

YES!!!

As of Friday between 12-4pm I will be hooked up with internet and phone!!! Woohoo! So you all better be ready to put me on speed dial. I have had a sucky cell phone plan for so long that I really need to catch up with a ton of people...at normal hours...not after 9pm only

[Yaads 0]

hey guys...whassuppp??? just checkin in....but by the time i log on, everyone is off I thought about Gill this last weekend and beleive her interview is anyday now so I will keep her and all others in my prayers... Everything is going well on my end.. I am now an official Reggae/rasta wear vendor...and hopefully in the next couple of months..a caribbean food vendor!!!!... I have done my first reggae show selling crafts and it was really successful...but the festival season in kicking into gear in the next few months. On the man front...well, I am very very very happily in a relationship with a jamaican man here in the states. Oh, but my journey may not be over as far as this board goes because he has some immigration issues of his own!! BUT, That is not something I am worring about///at least not now. If any of you plan on being on the west coast for reggae festivals...let me know because I may be a vendor and you'll have to come by. I know for sure we will be at Sierra Nevada and a few Hemp Festivals in Washington state.

Sorry to be so wordy but I feel like it has been so long since checking in....anyone want to give me a rundown of whats been happening??? What happened with the stella story???? I never did get to the wedding......

Hey glad to see you around Congrats on your new relationship and on your business Let me know when you are in Washington...maybe we can meet up. I don't usually go to anything in WA I usually head up to Vancouver BC. Are you doing any of the festivals up there?

[Yaads 0]

Saying all that to get to my question. I hope you all are not saying "get to the question already"

How do you all feel about that statement? Do you guys think that you should try to get with a man that meets you on that professional or educational level? Or is it more important to be with a man who loves you and treats you with respect? My thoughts on this are that as long as you are both compatable and you both love and respect each other, what he does for a living should not matter. Love has no boundaries. If you go out there looking for only that "professional" are you sure he will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I feel that some of these professoinals are so into themselves and their profession that they might not give you what you deserve.

Opinions?

I think many different people have many different wonderful qualities to add to a relationship.

I also think money isn't everything. How many people do you know who are very comfortable in the money department, yet miserable in their relationships?

I too believe as long as there is love and respect in your relationship, you can work all the rest of it out to suit your own individual needs.

I think love and respect should outweigh everything...along with trust. I can see going for someone who is on a similar professional/education level as you just because you probably have more in common but don't necessarily believe it would make the relationship better...it is all about preference.

[*JG* 2]

Does anyone else see the problems in this or am I just being overly pessimistic?

WTH are they going to come up with the money to pay for all these free treatments..........

http://www.jamaica-gleaner.com/gleaner/200...lead/lead6.html

[IrieCat 2]

Hi Everyone, Hope everyone had a great weekend and made it through Monday ok.

I have a question - need some opinions.

I am putting together all the papers for Louis to bring to interview. I went through all my tax papers and have from 2002 - 2007 with 2005 gone missing!!?? I can't imagine where it has gone to (the W2). I have moved several times so it could be in a box in storage somewhere - who knows!!??

So I asked my employer for a new one and they say "it could take some time to get a copy" ...

What would you do? I have the paperwork from H&R Block - its just the actual W2 that I am missing. I have been working for the same company for over 10 years and have a letter from them saying that. (The affidavit letter).

Do you think this W2 is something I absolutey have to have?

Thanks!

Cat

[Yaads 0]

Have her call on that and double check. There was a thread on here where someone asked the very same question because they got a 10 year green card after filing AOS. Turned out it was a mistake. They mailed them the 10 year GC; but had only a 2 year GC on the record. This person would've been out of status had they not checked and then filed for the 10 year.

That is exactly what I was thinking...probably read the same thread She definitely needs to look into it and make sure it wasn't a mistake...cause you all know the good old USCIS. Even if the mistake is on their end you are the one who will pay the consequences.

Jengles hope you grandma gets to go home today and she feels better

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Have her call on that and double check. There was a thread on here where someone asked the very same question because they got a 10 year green card after filing AOS. Turned out it was a mistake. They mailed them the 10 year GC; but had only a 2 year GC on the record. This person would've been out of status had they not checked and then filed for the 10 year.

That is exactly what I was thinking...probably read the same thread She definitely needs to look into it and make sure it wasn't a mistake...cause you all know the good old USCIS. Even if the mistake is on their end you are the one who will pay the consequences.

Jengles hope you grandma gets to go home today and she feels better

I'll have her call them.

[jamerican 2]

hey guys...whassuppp??? just checkin in....but by the time i log on, everyone is off I thought about Gill this last weekend and beleive her interview is anyday now so I will keep her and all others in my prayers... Everything is going well on my end.. I am now an official Reggae/rasta wear vendor...and hopefully in the next couple of months..a caribbean food vendor!!!!... I have done my first reggae show selling crafts and it was really successful...but the festival season in kicking into gear in the next few months. On the man front...well, I am very very very happily in a relationship with a jamaican man here in the states. Oh, but my journey may not be over as far as this board goes because he has some immigration issues of his own!! BUT, That is not something I am worring about///at least not now. If any of you plan on being on the west coast for reggae festivals...let me know because I may be a vendor and you'll have to come by. I know for sure we will be at Sierra Nevada and a few Hemp Festivals in Washington state.

Sorry to be so wordy but I feel like it has been so long since checking in....anyone want to give me a rundown of whats been happening??? What happened with the stella story???? I never did get to the wedding......

Hey glad to see you around Congrats on your new relationship and on your business Let me know when you are in Washington...maybe we can meet up. I don't usually go to anything in WA I usually head up to Vancouver BC. Are you doing any of the festivals up there?

yardie...so far we have a couple hemp fests in aug...one in seattle and one in olympia. Looking into other festivals up that way but my partner isn't able to leave the states so that rules out the Vancouver ones.

[*JG* 2]

Hi Everyone, Hope everyone had a great weekend and made it through Monday ok.

I have a question - need some opinions.

I am putting together all the papers for Louis to bring to interview. I went through all my tax papers and have from 2002 - 2007 with 2005 gone missing!!?? I can't imagine where it has gone to (the W2). I have moved several times so it could be in a box in storage somewhere - who knows!!??

So I asked my employer for a new one and they say "it could take some time to get a copy" ...

What would you do? I have the paperwork from H&R Block - its just the actual W2 that I am missing. I have been working for the same company for over 10 years and have a letter from them saying that. (The affidavit letter).

Do you think this W2 is something I absolutey have to have?

Thanks!

Cat

You are going to have to call and get the tax transcript from the IRS. You especially need '05, '06, and '07.

Have her call on that and double check. There was a thread on here where someone asked the very same question because they got a 10 year green card after filing AOS. Turned out it was a mistake. They mailed them the 10 year GC; but had only a 2 year GC on the record. This person would've been out of status had they not checked and then filed for the 10 year.

That is exactly what I was thinking...probably read the same thread She definitely needs to look into it and make sure it wasn't a mistake...cause you all know the good old USCIS. Even if the mistake is on their end you are the one who will pay the consequences.

Jengles hope you grandma gets to go home today and she feels better

Stalking me, Yardie?

[IrieCat 2]

Hi Everyone, Hope everyone had a great weekend and made it through Monday ok.

I have a question - need some opinions.

I am putting together all the papers for Louis to bring to interview. I went through all my tax papers and have from 2002 - 2007 with 2005 gone missing!!?? I can't imagine where it has gone to (the W2). I have moved several times so it could be in a box in storage somewhere - who knows!!??

So I asked my employer for a new one and they say "it could take some time to get a copy" ...

What would you do? I have the paperwork from H&R Block - its just the actual W2 that I am missing. I have been working for the same company for over 10 years and have a letter from them saying that. (The affidavit letter).

Do you think this W2 is something I absolutey have to have?

Thanks!

Cat

You are going to have to call and get the tax transcript from the IRS. You especially need '05, '06, and '07.

Have her call on that and double check. There was a thread on here where someone asked the very same question because they got a 10 year green card after filing AOS. Turned out it was a mistake. They mailed them the 10 year GC; but had only a 2 year GC on the record. This person would've been out of status had they not checked and then filed for the 10 year.

That is exactly what I was thinking...probably read the same thread She definitely needs to look into it and make sure it wasn't a mistake...cause you all know the good old USCIS. Even if the mistake is on their end you are the one who will pay the consequences.

Jengles hope you grandma gets to go home today and she feels better

Stalking me, Yardie?

Sorry for the dumb question.. what do you mean by transcripts. I have all the tax prep papers from H&R Block..

Thanks!

[Yaads 0]

Official tax transcripts from the IRS:

The transcript can be ordered by completing a Form 4506-T (PDF) or calling (800) 829-1040 and following the prompts in the recorded message. There is no charge for the transcript and you should receive it in 10 business days from the time we receive your request. Tax return transcripts are generally available for the current and past three years. ... Tax return and account transcripts are generally available for the current and past 3 years.

http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq1-6.html

I recommend calling the 800 number. You should get the copies pretty quickly.

Edited March 11, 2008 by Yardiewife

[IrieCat 2]

Official tax transcripts from the IRS:

The transcript can be ordered by completing a Form 4506-T (PDF) or calling (800) 829-1040 and following the prompts in the recorded message. There is no charge for the transcript and you should receive it in 10 business days from the time we receive your request. Tax return transcripts are generally available for the current and past three years. ... Tax return and account transcripts are generally available for the current and past 3 years.

http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq1-6.html

I recommend calling the 800 number. You should get the copies pretty quickly.

Thanks for the info! I called and requested!