Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[TYMOORE 0]

I have to admit I've used both carrot and olive oil and I like the effects I get with Olive oil better. I'm another who can't use grease or heavy oil in the hair...

[Sonshyne 2]

I wonder if my computer here at work is running really slow today

Or is it that we are slowing down the site

when I post it's taking a loonnngggg time to come up.

[Forever Young 1]

Hey guys...don't mean to rain on everybody's parade, but I was reading back a few pages and a topic that is very real to me came up, and honestly, a lot of your answers have surprised me. The topic was what would you do if you were faced with a 3 year ban. I saw several folks say that they probably wouldn't do a LDR for 3 years...well...quite honestly, that puzzles me a bit. For this reason only: everyone up here is either wanting to marry or already married. We've all found people that we say we will pledge our love to forever. That we will stand by our SO's side in good times and bad, yadayadayada. I've definitely learned that life will definitely throw you curve balls, and no matter how well you plan your life and what kind of decisions you make, things may not always go as we would like. Does that mean that we abandon our dreams, our desires, what we believe to be ordained and blessed by God? In my opinion (and I stress, this is just my opinion), I would say I hope not. What happens when you'fre living together as man and wife and you go through a dfficult spell...as many marriages do...that can't be fixed in a month, or 2, or hell even 8? Do you leave, or do you fight for what you believe to be right and good? I feel so passionately about this because the 3 year ban was imposed upon us because my fiance (now my husband) admitted that he had smoked months earlier (his blood tests and drug tests came back clean). At that moment is seemed that our lives were over, and for a while, I'm not even going to lie, I felt like I wouldn't be able to do it. I went back and forth with what being in this relationship would mean from that moment foward, because the whole scope of it had changed. I made a deliberate, and prayerful decision to continue in this relationship because I truly believed that he was the man that God had created for me. And while I resented him for a long time, we eventually worked through it, and I promise you that I could not be happier. This time apart has truly given us time to grow as people and as a couple. We have truly had time to think about what it is we truly want from this each other, this relationship, for our lives. I think when we were doing the K1, we got swept up in everything that was going on==it occurred so quickly (6 months from start to finish). We married nearly a year later. Now, our time for re-filing will be coming up soon. And we are much more focused, and more prepared. I believe that God definitely had a plan for us, and trust me when I say that as a result of what happened to us, I definitely had to learn that I would learn to follow HIS plan--not my own. We have put everything in God's hands, and I believe that we will be blessed this time around. I originally considered moving down to JA after the denial first occurred, but after talking over everything and trying to plan for our future we decided that it would be better if I stayed here. So, we do our best, like everyone else, to make the most of our visits and phone calls. We're hopeful about our future, and we appreciate and feel so much better about one another as spouses. I pray that no one ever has to experience what we had to---but if it came to the worse, I hope that you all would not abandon the ones that you love so dearly because things did not occur as we hoped they would. I know this was a long post guys, but I had to speak what was on my heart. Everyone up here has given me so much strength and encouragement, whether you know it or not...that's why I have continued to come back. Now, I want 2 enjoy all of these videos, so talk to you soon!

Love you,

Tamisha

Mrs. P.,

I appreciate your honesty and determination on this. I always said that I would have moved on if Ken had been positive...but in all honesty ...I probably wouldn't have.

Your SO's test came back clean, but his conscience dictated that he tell the truth...I respect that.

Look Girl, when I first came to the Yardie thread I was determined not to judge, but to support other Sistrens (and Brethrens) going through this crazy process. The decision whether to stay or go was yours to make... supporting your decision is ours to give.

You have mine! Gwaan through Gurl...your time soon come!

Thanks again for the share. That's what I hope this thread is about... sharing and learning...not judging and hurting!

Bless-ed love,

Gill

Edited August 7, 2008 by Forever Young

[*SunRay* 1]

Thanks AM, it worked.

YARDIES...

Here is a picture of Tnw (tonisha) and her fiance Dave. Soon to be husband on Aug 11th.

She asked me to post it some time ago, but I couldn't figure out how to do it. I have the actual pictures.

[Forever Young 1]

I wonder if my computer here at work is running really slow today

Or is it that we are slowing down the site

when I post it's taking a loonnngggg time to come up.

Sonny,

I think it's the length of the thread! It's so big it slows everything down...almost 900 pages WOW...we can chat!

Gill

[wakeywakeup 1]

Lawny,

I posted this for a friend in the Sub-Saharan and I thought I'd post it here as well in hopes of putting a smile on your face

I'm sure all of you guys can appreciate this pic

2005

Honey, I haven't forgotten you.

Hi Hotlegz...hows the baby doing?

Hi Sonshyne

I love the picture Asante!

How do you all load pictures and it not come out in the little bitty size?

Wakey

[Forever Young 1]

Thanks AM, it worked.

YARDIES...

Here is a picture of Tnw (tonisha) and her fiance Dave. Soon to be husband on Aug 11th.

She asked me to post it some time ago, but I couldn't figure out how to do it. I have the actual pictures.

Ahhhhhh Ton-Ton...what a cute couple!! I love the hair Nish!!!

VERY CUTE!!!

Bless,

Gill

Edited August 7, 2008 by Forever Young

[Jonesie 1]

Jeeeezas Lawd uunu love chat so? Dem a pay di whole a unnu fi chat pon VJ? Mi need fi happy fi wan work whe unnu deh

Mi cyaan go back an read thru all a di suss so

fi all a unnu whe breed, bring forth pickney, file di paypaz dem, lack down di visa, ray tay tay

fi all a unnu who fall pon rough time

[JaHoney 3]

HEy Ladies wha a gwaan???

Did i miss the boat to JA??? y'all didnt leave without me did you!!!!!???

Well i got offered the second job, ....YAY...which means i will be working 60 hours a week, lord dont know how long that is gonna last, but hopefully i can do some things, i need to do prior to D getting here.

Hello GIll, Quana, Ty, Roxcie, Wakey and Mrs Scott!!!!

Where is sonshyne and Sunny???

ANyhoo, i left off at 892, so i have to go back and catch up to where you all are now.

Oh yeah if i missed anyone , wha gwaan!!!!

[Asante Maroon 0]

anytime Sunny

nice pic

[wakeywakeup 1]

So, do ya'll like my hair style. I was trying to post it bigger, but I don't know how to.

Sus; TL where you at. Show me how to do this.

OMG.......You are the Acid Queen from Tommy. Love it, Tre.

I want to post it so that ya'll can see it better...but mi no know how fi do dat.

LOL, Lawny -

You have to make the picture bigger - do you have image editing software? Then upload it to photobucket and paste it in the forum -

Goodmorning Mrsladyd!

If I would have kept readying I see you already give out instruction manual. lol. Thanks

[Forever Young 1]

Jeeeezas Lawd uunu love chat so? Dem a pay di whole a unnu fi chat pon VJ? Mi need fi happy fi wan work whe unnu deh

Mi cyaan go back an read thru all a di suss so

fi all a unnu whe breed, bring forth pickney, file di paypaz dem, lack down di visa, ray tay tay

fi all a unnu who fall pon rough time

Jonesie,

Ow yuh ah duh mi love!

Mi waan fi see new pictures of Gavin...em mussi big now fuh true! Onnuh a wuk pon #2 now?

Bless,

Gill

[Asante Maroon 0]

Lawny,

I posted this for a friend in the Sub-Saharan and I thought I'd post it here as well in hopes of putting a smile on your face

I'm sure all of you guys can appreciate this pic

2005

Honey, I haven't forgotten you.

Hi Hotlegz...hows the baby doing?

Hi Sonshyne

I love the picture Asante!

How do you all load pictures and it not come out in the little bitty size?

Wakey

thanks Wakey

go to tinypic.com and upload your pic, copy the code from the message board codes and then paste the code to your post and walla!

[Jonesie 1]

We deh yah - leavin for JA next Thurs

Mi soon come back - haffi sneak pon VJ (dem wickid roun yesso *kissteet*)

[Sonshyne 2]

Jeeeezas Lawd uunu love chat so? Dem a pay di whole a unnu fi chat pon VJ? Mi need fi happy fi wan work whe unnu deh

Mi cyaan go back an read thru all a di suss so

fi all a unnu whe breed, bring forth pickney, file di paypaz dem, lack down di visa, ray tay tay

fi all a unnu who fall pon rough time

Hey Jonesie nuh see yuh lang time!!