Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[JaHoney 3]

Im glad to hear it Sus, how are u feeling today?

[dancehallquana 5]

Sorry to hear that you all have the blues - I finally feel like a weight is starting to lift that has been on me for the past 3 weeks - hopefully by this time tomorrow it will be gone and I can breathe easy, so please say a prayer for me.

I just had a 30 minute conversation with DJ's mom - I know that I am family now, I heard all about her hemmoroids

OKAY!! Too much info Mommy in law. i like to be close to inlaws but not that close LOL

Honey don't be sad.. Girl get into a hobby or something to "distract" you from missing him maybe?? To tell u the truth I am fine until I start talking to RG.. We talk like 3 or 4 times a day and I look so forward to the calls, but feel kind of down after..

[JaHoney 3]

Quana, i have been a vegetarian for about 3 1/2 years, initially when i became one i went cold turkey everything...BAD Mood, i hadnt conditioned myself how to eat correctly and couldnt find a way to be satisfied with no meat in my diet, i gradually learned how to offset meats, with protein shakes and supplements, whole grains, brown rice, lots of veggies and fruits, I gradually added back chicken and fish, because sometimes i need variety. You would think eating the way i do i would be stick thin, WRONG, i occassional go overboard on the carbs and sugars, but since i have gotten a handle on it, and figured out what amount of carbs i can eat, i have started losing again. I dont know how that is going to work with D, because i cant even stomach the smell of red meat being cooked, no hamburgers, no steaks, no nothing...it turns my stomach. I have learned to get the same satisfaction from a turkey burger.

[dancehallquana 5]

Honey we were both senior members now we a gold members.. mi swear ya chat WAYYYYYYY more den me, but mi guess mi a chatting machine too!!! Lets see who can get platinum first..READY, SET GO!!!

[JaHoney 3]

i meant to say bad move....lol

[sus 70]

Im glad to hear it Sus, how are u feeling today?

Except for the fact that I constantly want to pick my nose and feel like I have goobers hanging from it, much better, thanks!

[JaHoney 3]

your on quana, is that how you earn status, from posting???

Im trying not to be sad, cause D can hear it in my voice, and then he gets all upset... somedays i just get up feeling like this LDR thing sucks!!!! LOL

Im glad to hear it Sus, how are u feeling today?

Except for the fact that I constantly want to pick my nose and feel like I have goobers hanging from it, much better, thanks!

Im feeling ill behind that one Sus....LOL

[sus 70]

your on quana, is that how you earn status, from posting???

Im trying not to be sad, cause D can hear it in my voice, and then he gets all upset... somedays i just get up feeling like this LDR thing sucks!!!! LOL

Im glad to hear it Sus, how are u feeling today?

Except for the fact that I constantly want to pick my nose and feel like I have goobers hanging from it, much better, thanks!

Im feeling ill behind that one Sus....LOL

LOL - You asked -- I am honest, if nothing else -

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana, i have been a vegetarian for about 3 1/2 years, initially when i became one i went cold turkey everything...BAD Mood, i hadnt conditioned myself how to eat correctly and couldnt find a way to be satisfied with no meat in my diet, i gradually learned how to offset meats, with protein shakes and supplements, whole grains, brown rice, lots of veggies and fruits, I gradually added back chicken and fish, because sometimes i need variety. You would think eating the way i do i would be stick thin, WRONG, i occassional go overboard on the carbs and sugars, but since i have gotten a handle on it, and figured out what amount of carbs i can eat, i have started losing again. I dont know how that is going to work with D, because i cant even stomach the smell of red meat being cooked, no hamburgers, no steaks, no nothing...it turns my stomach. I have learned to get the same satisfaction from a turkey burger.

i am trying to stick to chicken and fish and just eat more healthier..its something in this food I swear..

in my immediate circle of friends and family 5 have had gall stones and surgeries to remove them and their gall bladders just within the last 6 mnths.. one is RG's niece in JA so I don't know what's up w/ that.. Also, my 11 yr old can almost fit in my clothes and shoes...she is THICK ya'll, hips and everything.. its CRAZY. It has got to be the food

[JaHoney 3]

i bought this book called " the idiots guide to becoming vegetarian' and read it, it was helpful and then i just decided i needed to change up my eating habits. I need to be around to see my kids grow up, and i dont want to be an old outta shape, diabetic, with high blood pressure. Plus it takes our body, like 3 days just to process and break down red meat, chicken is all hopped up on chemicals, really there is nothing safe to eat anymore, other than

Chicken foot stew, gizzards and oxtails... i guess....LMAO

[dancehallquana 5]

your on quana, is that how you earn status, from posting???

Im trying not to be sad, cause D can hear it in my voice, and then he gets all upset... somedays i just get up feeling like this LDR thing sucks!!!! LOL

Im glad to hear it Sus, how are u feeling today?

Except for the fact that I constantly want to pick my nose and feel like I have goobers hanging from it, much better, thanks!

Im feeling ill behind that one Sus....LOL

LOL - You asked -- I am honest, if nothing else -

han ya ave the nerve fi chat bout ya mommy in law.. ya sure ya not har daughter from bawn??

[Marlita 0]

So Roxie,

I thought we were going to go shoe shopping, I need some new ones for fall so start posting!

I will start my posting soon.

Roxcie

Ladies here one for you.

This can't be for real!

Date: 08/06/2008

Subject: Am I Doing Right By Her?

Hi Shirley, Steve, and Tommy im a 35 year old manager of a company and im having issues with my relationship. My girlfriend has been complaining about my sexual performance and earlier last year on my 35th birthday (9/22) i came home early from work to see my girlfriend having sex with another man..However, i was not suprized because around June i overherd my girlfriend and her friends joking about my sexual length, width, and performance. I had thoughts of leaving her sometimes. I only think she stays with me for my money. She has an 8 year old son whom i get along with great she often tells me im a waste of a good looking brother. Since December we both agreed i cannot satisfy her and I?ve been paying the man she has been cheating on me with 300 dollars a week to sleep with her and keep her satisfied. I give an extra 100 dollars if she wants him to spend the night. I?m going out of my mind right now while she is sleeping with another man. As I write this, I?m in her sons room playing video games with him while she?s with this man. More than once I have found myself sleeping in his room. . . he sleeps at the foot of the bed while i sleep at the head of the bed. I often cry myself to sleep and recently she has been talking to me with attitudes and disrespecting me and telling her friends. Her friends now call me Norbit and think its funny....i hate my life. I am a 35 year old man sleeping in a small bed with an 8 year old with super hero bedsheets. Is there anyway my relationship could get any worse than this? ps. Shirley does size really matter? sincerly Am I Doing Right By Her?

hahaI heard this one this morning on my way to work. I was like WHAT?!! I didnt get to hear Mr. harvey response so I'll go online to hear it later. I thought it was crazy!!

[JaHoney 3]

So Roxie,

I thought we were going to go shoe shopping, I need some new ones for fall so start posting!

I will start my posting soon.

Roxcie

Ladies here one for you.

This can't be for real!

Date: 08/06/2008

Subject: Am I Doing Right By Her?

Hi Shirley, Steve, and Tommy im a 35 year old manager of a company and im having issues with my relationship. My girlfriend has been complaining about my sexual performance and earlier last year on my 35th birthday (9/22) i came home early from work to see my girlfriend having sex with another man..However, i was not suprized because around June i overherd my girlfriend and her friends joking about my sexual length, width, and performance. I had thoughts of leaving her sometimes. I only think she stays with me for my money. She has an 8 year old son whom i get along with great she often tells me im a waste of a good looking brother. Since December we both agreed i cannot satisfy her and I?ve been paying the man she has been cheating on me with 300 dollars a week to sleep with her and keep her satisfied. I give an extra 100 dollars if she wants him to spend the night. I?m going out of my mind right now while she is sleeping with another man. As I write this, I?m in her sons room playing video games with him while she?s with this man. More than once I have found myself sleeping in his room. . . he sleeps at the foot of the bed while i sleep at the head of the bed. I often cry myself to sleep and recently she has been talking to me with attitudes and disrespecting me and telling her friends. Her friends now call me Norbit and think its funny....i hate my life. I am a 35 year old man sleeping in a small bed with an 8 year old with super hero bedsheets. Is there anyway my relationship could get any worse than this? ps. Shirley does size really matter? sincerly Am I Doing Right By Her?

hahaI heard this one this morning on my way to work. I was like WHAT?!! I didnt get to hear Mr. harvey response so I'll go online to hear it later. I thought it was crazy!!

I cant see any self respecting man, writing that let alone paying another man to sex his woman??? #######

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Waagwan yaardies! Mi vexed cause mi cyaan chat pon di computer dem all day!! I hate that everyone is feeling low right now....remember ladies, it won't be 4ever...your time will soon come! In the meantime, like somebody else said, keep busy. I know when I first started this, I was working full time, in grad school full time, and practicing tai chi. Now I'm just working, and I've picked the tai chi back up and I picked up a kung fu program as well. It keeps me busy 2-3 evenings a week, AND I've started hanging out more with my friends. Socializing with others really does help to take your mind off of things, if even for a likkle bit. Just my 2 cents...Love yall

[Marlita 0]

Alright Ty 2 weeks til your approval!!

Dillon I know you are psyched about them cashing your check. Try not to obsess on checking for the touches but look forward to those emails!

Welcome Journee and momto2 this site will definitely help you past the time while you wait on your love to get home or vice versa. Don't forget to read the guides and when in doubt do a specific word search of the site. It is soo helpful

JG where did you say we can get this orgasmic tea in a cup? Did you post a website a while back?

Lawny I'm sorry to hear about your mail coming back. Remember trouble don't last always and this will soon pass.

WAKEY.. wha gwaan?? how is Dwayne.. u know some of us have to live vicariously through u when it comes to a SO at home..u gonna hate to come on VJ in a min w/ all my questions LOL

Hey Everyone!

I miss you guys. Adjustment is work like all the Vets said. I'm consumed with trying to get the wedding all set for 8/30. We will be having a small ceremony at the house.

We are having so much fun. We are watching movies and taking long walks with the dog and just talking and laughing. The other stuff is also the bomb too.

So yesterday we were talking about the air conditioner again! He said the comforter (not thick at all mind you) is too heavy and he likes to just sleep with a sheet like back home. Well, I like to sleep cold as a polar bear under the comforter. So we compromised and turned the air down to 78-79. I get up this morning sweating like I'd been running on the tread mill in my dreams. It turns out while I'm asleep Dwayne turned the air down to 85! WTH. That is heat inna di heat!

VETS, I need some advise on the cooking and introduction to American food. What did your husband's like when they first came over? I've tried meatloaf and spagetti, my fish was too garlicy, and an omelet for breakfast. He has cooked every other meal for us traditional Jamaican. I'm not complaining but there is only so much boiled dumplings and rice and peas meals I can take. I want to add variety to the menu.

Hey wakey,

Sounds like you 2 are having fun.

Well on the AC note:

I hate AC too! I cannot stand it. How hot is it at night there that you keep your Ac at 75? Remember that it is hard for someone to go from warm weather all the time to manufactered air. Its not just cold air, but its artificial. It can be hard to breathe and very hard on the skin, an lungs for some. So maybe you guys get a fan and leave the AC a bit higher. 74 is low.

On the Food issue:

Well my husband loves "American" (whatever that is) food so we're all good. How bout your try Asian food dishes with rice and gravys or chopped meats with potatoes and carrots and such. I find many JA foods very heavy and hard to eat. But if your use to that some American meals can feel really light and non-filling.