Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[*SunRay* 1]

Your ok with me JG.... I don't have room to talk about anyone... lol

I have a project to finish that's due today. I'll check you guy's later.

[clairern 0]

okay i thought jamaican independance day was Friday, im confused is it today?

Friday was Emancipation Day, girl

[Amaya's Mommy 0]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

[clairern 0]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

Michelle, I am so sorry to hear that this has happened to you and wish you all the best that life has to offer. He is the loser for not wanting anything to do with your baby but you will be blessed by her birth and I am sure she will make you happy. Much love and happiness to you

Edited August 6, 2008 by clairern

[JaHoney 3]

Mommy im so sorry to hear that .... i will never understand how a man can go from loving you to all of a sudden nothing???

Be strong,( which i know is easier said than done) but think about the baby, and dont stress. Just put it in God's hands and ask him to lead you and direct your paths. It's gonna be ok, i will pray for you, cause i know what your going thru.

I was pregnant with my second child when me and my ex fell out, i was so stressed,i lost weight during the pregnancy, if that is possible, i drove myself to the hospital in labor, and when i got there they kept asking where is the father, should we call him.... I kept telling them nurses F- HIM, i dont need him here to do what i need to do, so i delivered by myself, my mom was watching my oldest who was 5 at the time, what im saying is sometimes we women dont know how strong we are, and when things seem they are falling apart around us, we have to dig deep within ourselves and find strength, sometimes strength we didnt know we had, so you keep your head up, you have your VJ sisters around you for support. And whenever your having a bad day, you dig deep, do it for you and for your baby.

[sus 70]

Mommy2b, I am so sorry to hear that - I will PM you with more info - Just stay strong and hold the belief that everything does happen for a reason, and your baby is a gift - you will make it through this, as hard as it seems now - been there, done it - you will survive.

[Amaya's Mommy 0]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

Michelle, I am so sorry to hear that this has happened to you and wish you all the best that life has to offer. He is the loser for not wanting anything to do with your baby but you will be blessed by her birth and I am sure she will make you happy. Much love and happiness to you

Thank you.

Mommy im so sorry to hear that .... i will never understand how a man can go from loving you to all of a sudden nothing???

Be strong,( which i know is easier said than done) but think about the baby, and dont stress. Just put it in God's hands and ask him to lead you and direct your paths. It's gonna be ok, i will pray for you, cause i know what your going thru.

I was pregnant with my second child when me and my ex fell out, i was so stressed,i lost weight during the pregnancy, if that is possible, i drove myself to the hospital in labor, and when i got there they kept asking where is the father, should we call him.... I kept telling them nurses F- HIM, i dont need him here to do what i need to do, so i delivered by myself, my mom was watching my oldest who was 5 at the time, what im saying is sometimes we women dont know how strong we are, and when things seem they are falling apart around us, we have to dig deep within ourselves and find strength, sometimes strength we didnt know we had, so you keep your head up, you have your VJ sisters around you for support. And whenever your having a bad day, you dig deep, do it for you and for your baby.

Honey, that is some story, I hope to be that strong.. but its hard..

Mommy2b, I am so sorry to hear that - I will PM you with more info - Just stay strong and hold the belief that everything does happen for a reason, and your baby is a gift - you will make it through this, as hard as it seems now - been there, done it - you will survive.

Ok, thanks.

[JaHoney 3]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

Michelle, I am so sorry to hear that this has happened to you and wish you all the best that life has to offer. He is the loser for not wanting anything to do with your baby but you will be blessed by her birth and I am sure she will make you happy. Much love and happiness to you

Thank you.

Mommy im so sorry to hear that .... i will never understand how a man can go from loving you to all of a sudden nothing???

Be strong,( which i know is easier said than done) but think about the baby, and dont stress. Just put it in God's hands and ask him to lead you and direct your paths. It's gonna be ok, i will pray for you, cause i know what your going thru.

I was pregnant with my second child when me and my ex fell out, i was so stressed,i lost weight during the pregnancy, if that is possible, i drove myself to the hospital in labor, and when i got there they kept asking where is the father, should we call him.... I kept telling them nurses F- HIM, i dont need him here to do what i need to do, so i delivered by myself, my mom was watching my oldest who was 5 at the time, what im saying is sometimes we women dont know how strong we are, and when things seem they are falling apart around us, we have to dig deep within ourselves and find strength, sometimes strength we didnt know we had, so you keep your head up, you have your VJ sisters around you for support. And whenever your having a bad day, you dig deep, do it for you and for your baby.

Honey, that is some story, I hope to be that strong.. but its hard..

Mommy2b, I am so sorry to hear that - I will PM you with more info - Just stay strong and hold the belief that everything does happen for a reason, and your baby is a gift - you will make it through this, as hard as it seems now - been there, done it - you will survive.

Ok, thanks.

Mommy...my friends think im a little nuts at times, especially when i get in one of my moods, but i was so emotionally tired of dealing, that when i went into labor, i was damned and determined i wasnt calling him... so i timed them, they were 15 minutes apart, the hospital was 15 minutes away, i waited till my contraction passed and hopped in the car, made it to the hospital, had another contraction, waited a few, waddled into the hospital and went from there...LOL. You will get thru this, not saying that you will stop loving him and of course you will have hard days, but your baby is a blessing and she will help you to get thru those days, everytime you look into her face.

[JOURNEE1125 0]

Just 5 min on some of the Ja forum boards could be a "Off the Hook" reality show.

Jounee, I have to ask......why do all your posts say you edited them?

Most of the time I dont proof read and I go back in and correct typos.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

Mommy;

You're young, STRONG and beautiful...time will heal. My advice is to take care of yourself and your beautiful baby.

[Sonshyne 2]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

Mommy my grandma once told me that some people come into your life for a reason, and some come for a season.

In your case it was a reason, and the reason is the blessing of that baby your carrying thats gonna love you always no matter what.

Sorry your going through this

[*JG* 2]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

I am so sorry, Michelle. Nothing I say this moment is going to make anything better, so I will refrain. Just know I am here to listen and help in any way that I can. I wish you all the best.

Just 5 min on some of the Ja forum boards could be a "Off the Hook" reality show.

Jounee, I have to ask......why do all your posts say you edited them?

Most of the time I dont proof read and I go back in and correct typos.

OK. I figured out I can't spell or even talk right most of the time. I just let it go.

Besides Sus ( ) no one else here worries about spell check.

[Sonshyne 2]

Hey Lovelyjodie

Long time no see!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Good morning ladies,

I am trying to muster up the strength to write this as it is a very difficult thing to admit to anyone let alone myself. Whatever was left of my relationship after my SO had a huge fallout two months ago is completely done. We are through and it seems he doesn't want anything to do with my baby either. There isn't much left to say other than I am devastated, I thought there might be a chance that we could work things out.

In any case, my question is since my petition is still at VSC and has not been approved yet, is there anything I should do to cancel it, or should I just let it run its course and let it expire after it is approved (if its ever approved)?

I was reading a previous post where someone mentioned that maybe these delays happen for a reason, like God is trying to tell you something and I guess in my case it seems to be that way. It has been almost 4 1/2 months since I applied and no approval nor an RFE, so I guess maybe God is trying to tell me something.

Michelle

Michelle, I am sorry this has happen at this moment and time, but you are a strong BLACK woman who will weather this strom.

BUt I will say, I will award your SO the JERK AWARD of THE YEAR. Some men are destine to win this.

Lots of Love and HUGs.

BE Bless

Roxcie

[*JG* 2]

Hey, Sus........

why the firemen in the meez?