Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[Sonshyne 2]

I wish this song had been out when was with my Ex, i probably would have played it for him every morning, till he got the hint!!!!

Ok you had to go there...

Well this was the song for my Ex and my national anthem LoL!!

[JaHoney 3]

...... Im going to bed!

[Sonshyne 2]

sonshyne you got me wanting to go back to JA right now, shoot i miss it.....LOL

I think everyone of us wants to go back, I know I do

This is beautiful~where is this at in JA.....

Hey JaLove!!

I don't no where that is I pulled it off of photo bucket

Maybe someone fram yaad will know

I would like to go see it in person

...... Im going to bed!

Wha yuh chat about bed??!!

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Mrs P,

I asked D, when was the last time he smoked he said a couple of months ago... so what are the options, tell the truth and face a ban, or lie and hope the tests comes up negative???

Im really sorry you had to go thru that, I can honestly say i am happier than i have been in a long time, would i be able to afford to go back and forth to JA for 3 years, i dont know, would i stop loving the man i met over something stupid, NAH...it aint that easy to get rid of me, it is a hard decision and a difficult one at best,i would definitely have to pray on that one and ask god to lead me and give me a discerning spirit.

Hate to say it...but the best option would be for him to STOP smoking NOW...and LIE LIE LIE!!!! But most importantly, he should STOP smoking now...avoid the trouble...

My girl Journee...LDR= Long Distance Relationship

[Sonshyne 2]

Sonny you sure the ??? we have a full house,but everyone is holding up the walls>>> and the party moderator isnt even here!

dagnabit

Not many people party on Tuesday night..

But the sign said... Policy is no refunds

Sorry no refund for you

Edited August 6, 2008 by Sonshyne

[sus 70]

something bought beenie man, just make me think his thang is probably dragging the ground...LMAO

sorry yall....mind is in the gutter right now...lol

I have a reliable source that says its not - sorry to burst your bubble, but he would burst it with a tiny pin #######

[Sonshyne 2]

Mrs P,

I asked D, when was the last time he smoked he said a couple of months ago... so what are the options, tell the truth and face a ban, or lie and hope the tests comes up negative???

Im really sorry you had to go thru that, I can honestly say i am happier than i have been in a long time, would i be able to afford to go back and forth to JA for 3 years, i dont know, would i stop loving the man i met over something stupid, NAH...it aint that easy to get rid of me, it is a hard decision and a difficult one at best,i would definitely have to pray on that one and ask god to lead me and give me a discerning spirit.

Hate to say it...but the best option would be for him to STOP smoking NOW...and LIE LIE LIE!!!! But most importantly, he should STOP smoking now...avoid the trouble...

My girl Journee...LDR= Long Distance Relationship

Never ever ever admit to smoking, no matter how many days, weeks, months, or years has gone by since he/she last smoked.

[JaHoney 3]

something bought beenie man, just make me think his thang is probably dragging the ground...LMAO

sorry yall....mind is in the gutter right now...lol

I have a reliable source that says its not - sorry to burst your bubble, but he would burst it with a tiny pin #######

AWWW SUS, dont spoil mi beenie man fantasies....LOL

Mrs. P....dont they have the stuff in here to clean out the system in JA as they do so readily in the states????? Im telling you im going to set up a booth outside the embassy and make a killing....LOL ( just kidding)

[*SunRay* 1]

Mavado "Barack Song"

[*SunRay* 1]

Hey guys...don't mean to rain on everybody's parade, but I was reading back a few pages and a topic that is very real to me came up, and honestly, a lot of your answers have surprised me. The topic was what would you do if you were faced with a 3 year ban. I saw several folks say that they probably wouldn't do a LDR for 3 years...well...quite honestly, that puzzles me a bit. For this reason only: everyone up here is either wanting to marry or already married. We've all found people that we say we will pledge our love to forever. That we will stand by our SO's side in good times and bad, yadayadayada. I've definitely learned that life will definitely throw you curve balls, and no matter how well you plan your life and what kind of decisions you make, things may not always go as we would like. Does that mean that we abandon our dreams, our desires, what we believe to be ordained and blessed by God? In my opinion (and I stress, this is just my opinion), I would say I hope not. What happens when you'fre living together as man and wife and you go through a dfficult spell...as many marriages do...that can't be fixed in a month, or 2, or hell even 8? Do you leave, or do you fight for what you believe to be right and good? I feel so passionately about this because the 3 year ban was imposed upon us because my fiance (now my husband) admitted that he had smoked months earlier (his blood tests and drug tests came back clean). At that moment is seemed that our lives were over, and for a while, I'm not even going to lie, I felt like I wouldn't be able to do it. I went back and forth with what being in this relationship would mean from that moment foward, because the whole scope of it had changed. I made a deliberate, and prayerful decision to continue in this relationship because I truly believed that he was the man that God had created for me. And while I resented him for a long time, we eventually worked through it, and I promise you that I could not be happier. This time apart has truly given us time to grow as people and as a couple. We have truly had time to think about what it is we truly want from this each other, this relationship, for our lives. I think when we were doing the K1, we got swept up in everything that was going on==it occurred so quickly (6 months from start to finish). We married nearly a year later. Now, our time for re-filing will be coming up soon. And we are much more focused, and more prepared. I believe that God definitely had a plan for us, and trust me when I say that as a result of what happened to us, I definitely had to learn that I would learn to follow HIS plan--not my own. We have put everything in God's hands, and I believe that we will be blessed this time around. I originally considered moving down to JA after the denial first occurred, but after talking over everything and trying to plan for our future we decided that it would be better if I stayed here. So, we do our best, like everyone else, to make the most of our visits and phone calls. We're hopeful about our future, and we appreciate and feel so much better about one another as spouses. I pray that no one ever has to experience what we had to---but if it came to the worse, I hope that you all would not abandon the ones that you love so dearly because things did not occur as we hoped they would. I know this was a long post guys, but I had to speak what was on my heart. Everyone up here has given me so much strength and encouragement, whether you know it or not...that's why I have continued to come back. Now, I want 2 enjoy all of these videos, so talk to you soon!

Love you,

Tamisha

Tamisha, I know what it's like to wait. It's worth it in the end and does make you a stronger person. I waited years to be with my ex. He was jailed for 7 years for selling drugs and I was there for him while and when he came home. Things didn't work, but I have no regrets.

[JaHoney 3]

Mavado "Barack Song"

How Movado , gonna take the music from the Mission by the Marleys and makes his own song....LOL

[sus 70]

Well, I am saying night all - I took pain pills and need to shut the laptop down before I shut down.

Mrs. P - you raised a good point, but it's not an easy decision to make - I commend you on sticking it through - Not every relationship is strong enough to do that - For me, personally, I can't answer - DJ and I are having issues right now - I know I am dedicated enough to stick it through - not so sure he is at the moment. And it can't be one sided - if both parties aren't equally vested, it won't work -

[*SunRay* 1]

Well, I am saying night all - I took pain pills and need to shut the laptop down before I shut down.

Mrs. P - you raised a good point, but it's not an easy decision to make - I commend you on sticking it through - Not every relationship is strong enough to do that - For me, personally, I can't answer - DJ and I are having issues right now - I know I am dedicated enough to stick it through - not so sure he is at the moment. And it can't be one sided - if both parties aren't equally vested, it won't work -

That's so true.... Amen to dat!

Mavado "Barack Song"

How Movado , gonna take the music from the Mission by the Marleys and makes his own song....LOL

I don't know girl....I just found it. lol

Edited August 6, 2008 by sunnyja21

[*SunRay* 1]

Sumfest 2008 "Mavado"

Is the par-ta' ova.....

[JaHoney 3]

sunny i dont know that the party ever got started and Sonshyne wont give me a refund

guess im going to bed fi real this time