Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[JOURNEE1125 0]

sonshyne you got me wanting to go back to JA right now, shoot i miss it.....LOL

I think everyone of us wants to go back, I know I do

This is beautiful~where is this at in JA.....

JOURNEE STANDING IN A CORNER DOING A PHATT GIRL DANCE<<< I'M GOIN AUG 25-SEPT 29>!!!! THANK YOU JESUS

Oh yeah <sounding very solem I wish all yall was going with me!

Edited August 6, 2008 by JOURNEE1125

[Sonshyne 2]

this party is poppin, i want my money back...LOL

Didn't you ready the party policy??

No in and out and no refunds

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

Bout time the rest of yall showed up for the party....Hope everyone has there lighters and red stripe????

lol yall got some milk for me no liquor till oct!

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Hey guys...don't mean to rain on everybody's parade, but I was reading back a few pages and a topic that is very real to me came up, and honestly, a lot of your answers have surprised me. The topic was what would you do if you were faced with a 3 year ban. I saw several folks say that they probably wouldn't do a LDR for 3 years...well...quite honestly, that puzzles me a bit. For this reason only: everyone up here is either wanting to marry or already married. We've all found people that we say we will pledge our love to forever. That we will stand by our SO's side in good times and bad, yadayadayada. I've definitely learned that life will definitely throw you curve balls, and no matter how well you plan your life and what kind of decisions you make, things may not always go as we would like. Does that mean that we abandon our dreams, our desires, what we believe to be ordained and blessed by God? In my opinion (and I stress, this is just my opinion), I would say I hope not. What happens when you'fre living together as man and wife and you go through a dfficult spell...as many marriages do...that can't be fixed in a month, or 2, or hell even 8? Do you leave, or do you fight for what you believe to be right and good? I feel so passionately about this because the 3 year ban was imposed upon us because my fiance (now my husband) admitted that he had smoked months earlier (his blood tests and drug tests came back clean). At that moment is seemed that our lives were over, and for a while, I'm not even going to lie, I felt like I wouldn't be able to do it. I went back and forth with what being in this relationship would mean from that moment foward, because the whole scope of it had changed. I made a deliberate, and prayerful decision to continue in this relationship because I truly believed that he was the man that God had created for me. And while I resented him for a long time, we eventually worked through it, and I promise you that I could not be happier. This time apart has truly given us time to grow as people and as a couple. We have truly had time to think about what it is we truly want from this each other, this relationship, for our lives. I think when we were doing the K1, we got swept up in everything that was going on==it occurred so quickly (6 months from start to finish). We married nearly a year later. Now, our time for re-filing will be coming up soon. And we are much more focused, and more prepared. I believe that God definitely had a plan for us, and trust me when I say that as a result of what happened to us, I definitely had to learn that I would learn to follow HIS plan--not my own. We have put everything in God's hands, and I believe that we will be blessed this time around. I originally considered moving down to JA after the denial first occurred, but after talking over everything and trying to plan for our future we decided that it would be better if I stayed here. So, we do our best, like everyone else, to make the most of our visits and phone calls. We're hopeful about our future, and we appreciate and feel so much better about one another as spouses. I pray that no one ever has to experience what we had to---but if it came to the worse, I hope that you all would not abandon the ones that you love so dearly because things did not occur as we hoped they would. I know this was a long post guys, but I had to speak what was on my heart. Everyone up here has given me so much strength and encouragement, whether you know it or not...that's why I have continued to come back. Now, I want 2 enjoy all of these videos, so talk to you soon!

Love you,

Tamisha

[JaHoney 3]

Mrs P,

I asked D, when was the last time he smoked he said a couple of months ago... so what are the options, tell the truth and face a ban, or lie and hope the tests comes up negative???

Im really sorry you had to go thru that, I can honestly say i am happier than i have been in a long time, would i be able to afford to go back and forth to JA for 3 years, i dont know, would i stop loving the man i met over something stupid, NAH...it aint that easy to get rid of me, it is a hard decision and a difficult one at best,i would definitely have to pray on that one and ask god to lead me and give me a discerning spirit.

[JOURNEE1125 0]

Hey guys...don't mean to rain on everybody's parade, but I was reading back a few pages and a topic that is very real to me came up, and honestly, a lot of your answers have surprised me. The topic was what would you do if you were faced with a 3 year ban. I saw several folks say that they probably wouldn't do a LDR for 3 years...well...quite honestly, that puzzles me a bit. For this reason only: everyone up here is either wanting to marry or already married. We've all found people that we say we will pledge our love to forever. That we will stand by our SO's side in good times and bad, yadayadayada. I've definitely learned that life will definitely throw you curve balls, and no matter how well you plan your life and what kind of decisions you make, things may not always go as we would like. Does that mean that we abandon our dreams, our desires, what we believe to be ordained and blessed by God? In my opinion (and I stress, this is just my opinion), I would say I hope not. What happens when you'fre living together as man and wife and you go through a dfficult spell...as many marriages do...that can't be fixed in a month, or 2, or hell even 8? Do you leave, or do you fight for what you believe to be right and good? I feel so passionately about this because the 3 year ban was imposed upon us because my fiance (now my husband) admitted that he had smoked months earlier (his blood tests and drug tests came back clean). At that moment is seemed that our lives were over, and for a while, I'm not even going to lie, I felt like I wouldn't be able to do it. I went back and forth with what being in this relationship would mean from that moment foward, because the whole scope of it had changed. I made a deliberate, and prayerful decision to continue in this relationship because I truly believed that he was the man that God had created for me. And while I resented him for a long time, we eventually worked through it, and I promise you that I could not be happier. This time apart has truly given us time to grow as people and as a couple. We have truly had time to think about what it is we truly want from this each other, this relationship, for our lives. I think when we were doing the K1, we got swept up in everything that was going on==it occurred so quickly (6 months from start to finish). We married nearly a year later. Now, our time for re-filing will be coming up soon. And we are much more focused, and more prepared. I believe that God definitely had a plan for us, and trust me when I say that as a result of what happened to us, I definitely had to learn that I would learn to follow HIS plan--not my own. We have put everything in God's hands, and I believe that we will be blessed this time around. I originally considered moving down to JA after the denial first occurred, but after talking over everything and trying to plan for our future we decided that it would be better if I stayed here. So, we do our best, like everyone else, to make the most of our visits and phone calls. We're hopeful about our future, and we appreciate and feel so much better about one another as spouses. I pray that no one ever has to experience what we had to---but if it came to the worse, I hope that you all would not abandon the ones that you love so dearly because things did not occur as we hoped they would. I know this was a long post guys, but I had to speak what was on my heart. Everyone up here has given me so much strength and encouragement, whether you know it or not...that's why I have continued to come back. Now, I want 2 enjoy all of these videos, so talk to you soon!

Love you,

Tamisha

I dont know exactly a LDRis. But if it means giving up. Aint no dayum way! Dont you all know they want us to give up. I have had some really good relationships. Never had 1 bad break up and I am not bragging I am TESTIFYING!!! But this relationship is the best one yet. He is so sincere all of the time! Even when he tells me to go hell <Im a bit spoiled and I do need to hear it > But I ASKED MY GO FOR THIS MAN the day I lost my best friend who was taking me to Jamaica <and I met Noel>! And I am going to stick it out with him and SHOW H.I.M, I have faith and I appreciate all that he has done for me.

AND FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO GET GET DISCOURAGED. i CHALLANGE YOU TO TAKE A MINIUTE AND TALK TO MY GOD. And you will see why I am truly "2 Blessed 2 Be depressed. What did you think, this was gonna be all Mangos and Waterfalls. This #### is the real world and there are no promises or guarantees in fantasyland.

Thats why some of yall need to stop living in in Black, white, red, gold and green and tune in to HD Technicolor! This is someones life and come what may THIS IS WHAT WE SIGNED UP FOR!!!Sorry I had a "Mother Love Moment" but I think some of yall needed to hear this!! Na lets get back to the party, hell I was feelin pretty dayum good !!!

Edited August 6, 2008 by JOURNEE1125

[Marlita 0]

Hey guys...don't mean to rain on everybody's parade, but I was reading back a few pages and a topic that is very real to me came up, and honestly, a lot of your answers have surprised me. The topic was what would you do if you were faced with a 3 year ban. I saw several folks say that they probably wouldn't do a LDR for 3 years...well...quite honestly, that puzzles me a bit. For this reason only: everyone up here is either wanting to marry or already married. We've all found people that we say we will pledge our love to forever. That we will stand by our SO's side in good times and bad, yadayadayada. I've definitely learned that life will definitely throw you curve balls, and no matter how well you plan your life and what kind of decisions you make, things may not always go as we would like. Does that mean that we abandon our dreams, our desires, what we believe to be ordained and blessed by God? In my opinion (and I stress, this is just my opinion), I would say I hope not. What happens when you'fre living together as man and wife and you go through a dfficult spell...as many marriages do...that can't be fixed in a month, or 2, or hell even 8? Do you leave, or do you fight for what you believe to be right and good? I feel so passionately about this because the 3 year ban was imposed upon us because my fiance (now my husband) admitted that he had smoked months earlier (his blood tests and drug tests came back clean). At that moment is seemed that our lives were over, and for a while, I'm not even going to lie, I felt like I wouldn't be able to do it. I went back and forth with what being in this relationship would mean from that moment foward, because the whole scope of it had changed. I made a deliberate, and prayerful decision to continue in this relationship because I truly believed that he was the man that God had created for me. And while I resented him for a long time, we eventually worked through it, and I promise you that I could not be happier. This time apart has truly given us time to grow as people and as a couple. We have truly had time to think about what it is we truly want from this each other, this relationship, for our lives. I think when we were doing the K1, we got swept up in everything that was going on==it occurred so quickly (6 months from start to finish). We married nearly a year later. Now, our time for re-filing will be coming up soon. And we are much more focused, and more prepared. I believe that God definitely had a plan for us, and trust me when I say that as a result of what happened to us, I definitely had to learn that I would learn to follow HIS plan--not my own. We have put everything in God's hands, and I believe that we will be blessed this time around. I originally considered moving down to JA after the denial first occurred, but after talking over everything and trying to plan for our future we decided that it would be better if I stayed here. So, we do our best, like everyone else, to make the most of our visits and phone calls. We're hopeful about our future, and we appreciate and feel so much better about one another as spouses. I pray that no one ever has to experience what we had to---but if it came to the worse, I hope that you all would not abandon the ones that you love so dearly because things did not occur as we hoped they would. I know this was a long post guys, but I had to speak what was on my heart. Everyone up here has given me so much strength and encouragement, whether you know it or not...that's why I have continued to come back. Now, I want 2 enjoy all of these videos, so talk to you soon!

Love you,

Tamisha

Hey Tamisha,

I thought about you when the question arose earlier. I think most people just said how they truly feel. Lets face it. Not everyone here is in the strongest of relationships and we are all just human. Being faced with something like a 3 year ban can be quite difficult for some. It could also be a sign from God to LEAVE. I know we all love our mates but things like this would cause anyone to question what their next move could be. Not everyone has the time or money to continue a 3 year LDR. Some may not be married and when faced with something as serious as this in your LDR, and then not knowing your fiance for more than a year (maybe a month of that face to face time) the 3 year ban can be very detrimental. The relationship is too fresh and young to withstand something like this. And honestly in some cases maybe thats a good thing.

[JaHoney 3]

Im still waiting for someone to give me whine/headstand lessons, since LAWNY has left the building !

Lita, guess you gon have to get the camcorder out and get to recording, cause i need to practice between now and October.

[JOURNEE1125 0]

Okay I sent my "Mother Love" evangelist home! The Queen Biotch is back

Come Down Selector Rewind!!

[Sonshyne 2]

Mrs P, Journee and Lita

Very well said

[JaHoney 3]

You all know i couldnt leave this one off, i love this song. I want this as one of my songs at my commitment ceremony.

[JOURNEE1125 0]

You all know i couldnt leave this one off, i love this song. I want this as one of my songs at my commitment ceremony.

Gurl you just gave me a "Phat Girls" Tunde' Moment!!!! I was singing this song I met Noel jumping off his jet ski on 7mile beach!!!

[JOURNEE1125 0]

Okay yall. I am going to the Casino for Crab Leg Buffet! I will check ya when mi re turn,

MI SOON COME

WIT 2 FINGAS IN DE AIR SMILIN AND HUMMIN "WE JAMMIN "

[JaHoney 3]

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You all know i couldnt leave this one off, i love this song. I want this as one of my songs at my commitment ceremony.

Gurl you just gave me a "Phat Girls" Tunde' Moment!!!! I was singing this song I met Noel jumping off his jet ski on 7mile beach!!!

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They played this song at a club one night when me and D were out in JA and i was surprised all the lighters went up, it was kinda sweet everyone was kind of slow grooving.

[JaHoney 3]

Sonny you sure the policy is no refunds at the door??? we have a full house,but everyone is holding up the walls>>> and the party moderator isnt even here!

dagnabit