Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[kishmar 0]

Hi Kishmar! I'm happy to see you!

Hey Mrs. Scott how you doing girl!

You know i really a lurker on here but at times i just have to post when i see some comments about Jamaica....after all i live here you know

[kishmar 0]

Well, it still amazes me that when you get pulled over in JA, you can just get out the car and reason with the police. LMAO Then you give them a few dollars and your on your way..... I told Ray that will be totally different when he comes to the states. I told him you don't get out when your pulled over by the police here, you actually get yaked out the car and thrown on the ground.

So true Sunny! We got pulled over for speeding in Kingston (I was NOT driving ) and when A's friend (driving) got out my eyes bugged out. I said where's he going, why's he getting out --bullets are going to fly. You get out of your car here the guns get drawn. And he came back and said for x dollars, they will forget the whole thing. What rass....

There are still principled Jamaican police men and women here that serves the Jamaican people with pride and CANNOT and REFUSE to be pribed for a FEW dollars

Hi,

Are you ready for your Independent Day celebration? How is the weather today, is it still raining?

Roxcie

Hey Roxie if you are speaking to me the weather here is hot as usual especially here in the sunshine city of Portmore.

Lots happening for the indepence...Hellshire will be off the hook on Wednesday, lots of jankonoo street parades in downtown Kingston on the waterfront.

Independence gala in heroes circle....just to name a few

[*SunRay* 1]

Hey SunnyJA~

I know it is only Monday but I was wondering if you called the 202 number yet to see if you have your interview date? I feel you are going to get it this week.

Hey Dillon,

The friggin system has been down since 8:30am. Several people have told me the same thing. I'll see. You know my yardie crew will know as soon as I hear something.

[dillon 6]

Hey SunnyJA~

I know it is only Monday but I was wondering if you called the 202 number yet to see if you have your interview date? I feel you are going to get it this week.

Hey Dillon,

The friggin system has been down since 8:30am. Several people have told me the same thing. I'll see. You know my yardie crew will know as soon as I hear something.

Of course you have called what was I thinking? Can't wait for the good news.

Hey SunnyJA~

I know it is only Monday but I was wondering if you called the 202 number yet to see if you have your interview date? I feel you are going to get it this week.

Hey Dillon,

The friggin system has been down since 8:30am. Several people have told me the same thing. I'll see. You know my yardie crew will know as soon as I hear something.

Of course you have called what was I thinking? Can't wait for the good news.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Well, it still amazes me that when you get pulled over in JA, you can just get out the car and reason with the police. LMAO Then you give them a few dollars and your on your way..... I told Ray that will be totally different when he comes to the states. I told him you don't get out when your pulled over by the police here, you actually get yaked out the car and thrown on the ground.

So true Sunny! We got pulled over for speeding in Kingston (I was NOT driving ) and when A's friend (driving) got out my eyes bugged out. I said where's he going, why's he getting out --bullets are going to fly. You get out of your car here the guns get drawn. And he came back and said for x dollars, they will forget the whole thing. What rass....

There are still principled Jamaican police men and women here that serves the Jamaican people with pride and CANNOT and REFUSE to be pribed for a FEW dollars

Hi,

Are you ready for your Independent Day celebration? How is the weather today, is it still raining?

Roxcie

Hey Roxie if you are speaking to me the weather here is hot as usual especially here in the sunshine city of Portmore.

Lots happening for the indepence...Hellshire will be off the hook on Wednesday, lots of jankonoo street parades in downtown Kingston on the waterfront.

Independence gala in heroes circle....just to name a few

Kishmar, my grandmother-in-law lives over by the stadium in Kingston, and she keeps telling me I should be there for the festival. I told her I will make it a point to be there next year. Wish I could just surprise them and show up on Wednesday. It's may be God's will.

Be Bless

Roxcie

Edited August 4, 2008 by RoxcieJoe

[*SunRay* 1]

Hey SunnyJA~

I know it is only Monday but I was wondering if you called the 202 number yet to see if you have your interview date? I feel you are going to get it this week.

Hey Dillon,

The friggin system has been down since 8:30am. Several people have told me the same thing. I'll see. You know my yardie crew will know as soon as I hear something.

Of course you have called what was I thinking? Can't wait for the good news.

I have them on speed dial girl. I dial the 202#, press 1, press 0 and hold on forever. lol When it's my time, it's my time...

[Sonshyne 2]

Thanks Marlita. I'm still holding on to my tan from June. Ray hates when I lay out. He alway's says Mich you don't know when enough is enough. Yuh git to dark. I just laugh at him.

That JA tan is ever lasting!! Mi still wear mi tan fram April

Lita mi gwaan cook de red stripe chichken tonite!!

Tanks mi gyal

[Marlita 0]

Thanks Marlita. I'm still holding on to my tan from June. Ray hates when I lay out. He alway's says Mich you don't know when enough is enough. Yuh git to dark. I just laugh at him.

haha, Evan is the same way. Ok normally i think people who lay out in the sun are crazy too, but I was so pale when I went out there I could not handle it anymore. So I wanted some sun on my skin. So while there I am not trying to tan, but not not trying either. I'll be on a lounger in the sun not really caring, and here goes Evan moving his lounger completely in the shade. he says he likes the "buttermilk", but sometimes a girl wants a little caramel in her mix, haha

[TYMOORE 0]

Thank goodness! Just want to get over this obstacle. Then on to the next.... At least he will be here for phase 2 of this whole crazy process.

[Marlita 0]

sus, sorry about the rough road w/ D, sometimes the hard times help ground me and I look back and smile, cuz it makes the fantasy of the LDR feel that much more REAL. Sometimes things can be going so well, its like "COULD this be all a dream or God forbid a lie??" Esp since u don't have to "BE" w/ that person everyday so sometimes a reality check is in order. The disagreement, or confusion or misunderstanding reaffirms that we are REAL and just like any old couple that have to deal w/ problems. But i know its still frustrating all the same so be blessed and encouraged..

Thanks for that - Unfortunately, this problem is his and I am kinda in limbo until I hear from him - It's not a problem between us, just a situation of his - That could become a big problem between us.

I know what you mean about the hard times grounding you - I had this conversation with a friend a while back, and she was wondering how it could be real when you are so far apart - She didn't get that we fight just like normal couples, but the difference is that we really and truly talk out our problems - with the physical distance, you can't just kiss and make up - I think it makes the relationship stronger in that issues are truly resolved and hashed out instead of swept aside.

u are sooo right.. talking is the ONLY means of intimacy at times. I know I probably could not have had this kind of relationship w/ my ex..he is not a good communicator.. However I think even DURING the relationship u grow to be better communicators than u already were (if it is to last anyway) u learn to say what u mean and mean what u say, cuz u don't have your facial expressions or body language to make things more clear. You learn your mate sooo much more too.. RG and I both can tell from each other's tones what kind of day we are having or if the other is tired or annoyed. and we may even be trying to hide it, but it seeps out and they catch it

Like u say a lil smile, kiss and the universal "heal all" is not an option so u have to find some sort of resolution b4 u are able to move forward. RG and I have "agreed to disagree" so many times cuz we WANT to keep talking on the phone and we don't want the disagreement to be the cause for any wasted minutes.. Now this doesnt mean lets move on to something else cuz I am tired of talking to u about it..no it means talking it out, recognizing the others point of view.Once finding out its not a winning battle but also not a deal breaker, then moving on.. I don't know if I am successfully describing the difference, but those of u that have it know there is a MAJOR difference . Its so refreshing to be w/ someone that can do this...

Man! Me an Evan are the exact same. You know we even know the tone from text message?!! Thats craziness.

[Marlita 0]

Lita, that chicken sounds good, i cant wait to try it , though im with JG, i probably wont be inserting my hand into any cavities...

I remember when i was with my ex, we were young ...early 20's or so and i was all excited about our first thanksgiving. We were broke and young, well anyway my job passed out turkeys to all of the employees,as a gift. I was all excited i was planning on going home and just making the biggest fanciest dinner you had ever seen, long story short, i made the side dishes and seasoned up my bird and put him in the oven, after X amount of hours, it was time to eat and i was beaming, we went to carve our turkey and he still had a pulse, then we noticed something sticking out of one of his orifices, so my Ex reached into the opening of the turkey and pulled out this bag, he asked me didnt you take out the neck and the giblets!!!!! Im like the wha??? hell the bird doesnt have a head so why would i assume he still has a neck!!!! no one told me , that stuff was inside, and i was so busy trying to play house i didnt think to call anyone and ask, so thanksgiving was a bust and we wind up going over to his condescending a$$ mothers house for dinner, while she laughed at me.

Yall dont stuff your turkeys with Stuffing, or take out the kidneys and stuff from the chicken when you first get it?

...edit:

Ok I just read...haha, i guess you dont clean the chick out first. Girl you are crazy!! This was a funny story.

Edited August 4, 2008 by Marlita

[Marlita 0]

Lita, that chicken sounds good, i cant wait to try it , though im with JG, i probably wont be inserting my hand into any cavities...

I remember when i was with my ex, we were young ...early 20's or so and i was all excited about our first thanksgiving. We were broke and young, well anyway my job passed out turkeys to all of the employees,as a gift. I was all excited i was planning on going home and just making the biggest fanciest dinner you had ever seen, long story short, i made the side dishes and seasoned up my bird and put him in the oven, after X amount of hours, it was time to eat and i was beaming, we went to carve our turkey and he still had a pulse, then we noticed something sticking out of one of his orifices, so my Ex reached into the opening of the turkey and pulled out this bag, he asked me didnt you take out the neck and the giblets!!!!! Im like the wha??? hell the bird doesnt have a head so why would i assume he still has a neck!!!! no one told me , that stuff was inside, and i was so busy trying to play house i didnt think to call anyone and ask, so thanksgiving was a bust and we wind up going over to his condescending a$$ mothers house for dinner, while she laughed at me.

Don't sweat it Honey...we all have done that.

Lita, that chicken sounds good, i cant wait to try it , though im with JG, i probably wont be inserting my hand into any cavities...

I remember when i was with my ex, we were young ...early 20's or so and i was all excited about our first thanksgiving. We were broke and young, well anyway my job passed out turkeys to all of the employees,as a gift. I was all excited i was planning on going home and just making the biggest fanciest dinner you had ever seen, long story short, i made the side dishes and seasoned up my bird and put him in the oven, after X amount of hours, it was time to eat and i was beaming, we went to carve our turkey and he still had a pulse, then we noticed something sticking out of one of his orifices, so my Ex reached into the opening of the turkey and pulled out this bag, he asked me didnt you take out the neck and the giblets!!!!! Im like the wha??? hell the bird doesnt have a head so why would i assume he still has a neck!!!! no one told me , that stuff was inside, and i was so busy trying to play house i didnt think to call anyone and ask, so thanksgiving was a bust and we wind up going over to his condescending a$$ mothers house for dinner, while she laughed at me.

Don't sweat it Honey...we all have done that.

And I use a spoon and tongs to scrape that stuff out of there.....

TL;

NOT ME! Grandmother always tell me make sure you wash out the bird back, belly and gut.

Yuh see it! I have to get all up in there and clean it out.

[TYMOORE 0]

SunnyJa,

I think you will find out your interview date this week as well..

[dancehallquana 5]

sus, sorry about the rough road w/ D, sometimes the hard times help ground me and I look back and smile, cuz it makes the fantasy of the LDR feel that much more REAL. Sometimes things can be going so well, its like "COULD this be all a dream or God forbid a lie??" Esp since u don't have to "BE" w/ that person everyday so sometimes a reality check is in order. The disagreement, or confusion or misunderstanding reaffirms that we are REAL and just like any old couple that have to deal w/ problems. But i know its still frustrating all the same so be blessed and encouraged..

Thanks for that - Unfortunately, this problem is his and I am kinda in limbo until I hear from him - It's not a problem between us, just a situation of his - That could become a big problem between us.

I know what you mean about the hard times grounding you - I had this conversation with a friend a while back, and she was wondering how it could be real when you are so far apart - She didn't get that we fight just like normal couples, but the difference is that we really and truly talk out our problems - with the physical distance, you can't just kiss and make up - I think it makes the relationship stronger in that issues are truly resolved and hashed out instead of swept aside.

u are sooo right.. talking is the ONLY means of intimacy at times. I know I probably could not have had this kind of relationship w/ my ex..he is not a good communicator.. However I think even DURING the relationship u grow to be better communicators than u already were (if it is to last anyway) u learn to say what u mean and mean what u say, cuz u don't have your facial expressions or body language to make things more clear. You learn your mate sooo much more too.. RG and I both can tell from each other's tones what kind of day we are having or if the other is tired or annoyed. and we may even be trying to hide it, but it seeps out and they catch it

Like u say a lil smile, kiss and the universal "heal all" is not an option so u have to find some sort of resolution b4 u are able to move forward. RG and I have "agreed to disagree" so many times cuz we WANT to keep talking on the phone and we don't want the disagreement to be the cause for any wasted minutes.. Now this doesnt mean lets move on to something else cuz I am tired of talking to u about it..no it means talking it out, recognizing the others point of view.Once finding out its not a winning battle but also not a deal breaker, then moving on.. I don't know if I am successfully describing the difference, but those of u that have it know there is a MAJOR difference . Its so refreshing to be w/ someone that can do this...

Man! Me an Evan are the exact same. You know we even know the tone from text message?!! Thats craziness.

text msg?? ya'll the bomb lita..hey mi gyal, whatever happened to your website??

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

SUNNY;

Don't feel no way. I love to FEEL-UP and molest the bird too.

Ladies I want to thank you for all the ideas. We spoke about videotaping.

Update on my friend and her cheating husband***

She had a beautiful baby girl about a hour a go. I think the name is Tiara Rose 6oz 13inchs. Her husband's mother and father will be here tomorrow to help with the baby and the rest of the in-laws will be here later in the week. Her ex's family is very supportive. She's happy, but not 100%.