Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[jawi876 2]

4.11)...My alien fiancee has been issued a K-1 visa. Can we get married abroad and then come back together to the US with the K-1?

A...No. The alien must NOT be married when s/he enters the US on a K-1 visa. Also, if using the K-1, the couple must marry in the US within 90 days of the alien entering on the K-1.

(FAQ Note: Some couples arrange to have a non legal ceremony prior to the fiance(e) leaving their home country, in order to satisfy the wishes of family, or to have a celebration if the family is unable to travel to the US for a wedding.

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FROM THIS SITE ITSELF

http://www.visajourney.com/faq/k1k2visa-ap...ation.html#4.12

I was thinking the same thing too...no marrige til US arrival..but then again u have prooved ur case as fiance and fiancee now why does it matter where u marry ? mi just a ask a qustion...the visa is a fiance was granted now ur free to marry...mi no know

Well, mi nuh know WHY it matters, mi juss know IT MATTERS!!!!

MI GYAL WALK HOUT!!!! Big up yuhself...man big up yuhself!

Yuh see why de pastor dem tell yuh fe study fe show yuhself approved? Nuff badminded ting and people hout dere fe mash yuh hup wid pure phockery!

Honeychild lissen tuh de advice from de yaadie dem (not tuh many around yereso fe steer yuh wrong)...den research ie fe yuhself...bwoy mi get vex agen. CHA!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Oh My!!! lita i dont think im going to cut them out, but hell usually i will set myself a hair appt for a saturday and then start on Monday taking them down bit by bit, so by Friday im good and my nerves arent stretched, im just having trouble finding the motivation to start.

Mi gyal ow yuh gwan so cheap? Mek yuh pay de same people fe tek dem hout? Mi go and pay $25 hennyday...mi nuh have time fe dem sitten dere...mi do ie wan time and kiss mi neckback...CHA! Mi hown hair mat like wan mongrel dawg!

Thanks Jawi;

My laptop is now covered with brownstew chicken and rice.

EEEhhhhnn. Henny time. kikikikiki

Tru ting...mi gyal, mi neva have nuh cream inna ie...and mi pretty pretty curls and ringlet dem decide fe lack like wan old BC rastaman trap inna de bush! Mi neva have nuff dreads...just wan dutty dread inna mi headtop. Mi call Jonesie and bawl...LAWD GAWD! Mi try everyting fe undread ie...conditiona...baby oil...LARD... Yuh tink har elp mi? Nuh sar! Har let hoff wan dutty laff and piss up harself...CHA! Mi still vex bout ie! Den har wan fe hask mi wan fool-fool question bout why mi cream ie! Chat bout! Raaaasssclot!

CHHHHAAAAAA....rasstafari!

Jawi tap eeh...mi ribs dem a kill mi fram laughin. I WILL NEVER EVER GO TO A BRAID SHOP TO HAVE THEM TAKE OUT MY BRAIDS..nevah...aftah wah mi see dem to mi friend dem head...mi baxide...dats why more time mi a walk round like MAD MAVIS. In may Nissan refused to refund my warranty since I no longer owned my truck, well, I went up to the dealership with half my head in braids and half out with my house dress (YES mi mad) and they cut me a check the same day.

[jawi876 2]

Oh My!!! lita i dont think im going to cut them out, but hell usually i will set myself a hair appt for a saturday and then start on Monday taking them down bit by bit, so by Friday im good and my nerves arent stretched, im just having trouble finding the motivation to start.

Mi gyal ow yuh gwan so cheap? Mek yuh pay de same people fe tek dem hout? Mi go and pay $25 hennyday...mi nuh have time fe dem sitten dere...mi do ie wan time and kiss mi neckback...CHA! Mi hown hair mat like wan mongrel dawg!

Jawi, no disrespect to my african sistren, but i let them take my braids out one time !!!! never again in life, do u hear me... true enough she got all my braids out in about 1 hours time, but she was a-combing and a pulling, i was worried she was thinning my hair out, but i couldnt tell since it was so nappy, i then went to my beautician to get my hair done and i swear to god it looked like i had a bad case of MALE PATTERN BALDNESS! she had snatched all my little hair out my head, so now i just set aside 4- days and take them down bit by bit and camouflage my styles with hats until it is all out

Eeehhnnn! Mi have a good wan...and mi nuh let NOONE else touch mi head. Sorry bout dat.

[Marlita 0]

You can still get married in JA even when file a K1. Upon visa Approval, You can travel down to JA, have your wedding and then travel back to the US together. Many people do that. There is a girl on the Sub-Saharan forum who filed a K1 and is in Ghana right now preparing for her wedding in a few days. If you have anyone in JA that can help you with the planning, you can start collecting all the materials you need. It is very possible! I say go for your dream wedding

Please refrain from peddling mis-information.

YOU CANNOT marry BEFORE arriving in the States on a K1.

I would advise you to go and do some RESEARCH before ADVISING people. Do you have any idea how much your INCORRECT advice could set someone back????

A'rite...mi glad seh smadi else seet. My friend is sitting next to me and giving me an earful. She won't tell me details, but honey she say no dweet.

I understand that information given to others is very important here because people can very well get sent back as you have put it.

I am giving her information as I have been told by several people who have done just that. They have their ceremony in their SO's home country upon visa approval and when they both arrive in the US they do a civil service marriage. You can however have the ceremony in your SO's country first. Its semantics.... some people choose to do a civil service wedding in the US and then go back to their country for a ceremony (which you can call a party or or an engagement or whatever) or they do it the other way around.

I apologize if I was not clear in my other postings so I will be clear now: Yes you still have to be "officially" married here in the US.

I was not offering information with the intention to mislead anyone.

I also said

If you need a second opinion, you can post the question in a new thread in order to get other VJ member's opinions and experience.

It will only take a second of your time and people are really quick to respond.

Good luck! star_smile.gif

If you disagree with something that someone says, it is better to address the disagreement in a more diplomatic fashion. We are all here to help each other.

Sorry for the confusion for the rest of you...Trelawny, I did not see your other post...had I seen it b4 I would have went back and made myself more clear. Thank you for being respectful even though you did not agree with me.

Oh, I didnt see this. JAE, a wha appen tuh yuh?! Yuh gwaan yell at di gyal suh?

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

I apologize if I was not clear in my other postings so I will be clear now: Yes you still have to be "officially" married here in the US.

I was not offering information with the intention to mislead anyone.

I also said

If you need a second opinion, you can post the question in a new thread in order to get other VJ member's opinions and experience.

It will only take a second of your time and people are really quick to respond.

Good luck! star_smile.gif

If you disagree with something that someone says, it is better to address the disagreement in a more diplomatic fashion. We are all here to help each other.

Sorry for the confusion for the rest of you...Trelawny, I did not see your other post...had I seen it b4 I would have went back and made myself more clear. Thank you for being respectful even though you did not agree with me.

If my NON DIPLOMATIC answer set RIGHT what you through your admittedly POOR CHOICE of words implied, I would say the same thing in the SAME way, time and time again.

I am really not concerned with your feelings, but with the WELFARE of people who rely on advice here.

Please don't tell me how to address a disagreement.

We are here to help, but spreading mis-information is not by any means help.

You said

You can still get married in JA even when file a K1. Upon visa Approval, You can travel down to JA, have your wedding and then travel back to the US together.

WHAT part of that implies or says CIVIL???????

Edited July 30, 2008 by JaEnglishGirl

[*SunRay* 1]

Sunny this is for you not calling me back

I know Lawny, you see I was MIA for a while. I'll take the beating. I had to sneak out early and go pick my car up from the shop in Annapolis by 6pm. Sorry girlie, Mi still yuh.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Hey Lita;

I'm not sure if it was you that provided the information, but it was on natural haircare products. My friend is in a biracial relationship and his poor wife cannot manage the girls hair. He has 4 girls and she never combs there hair out. All she does is wash it and it'a dangeled mess. It took me 3 hours to comb out his oldest daugther's hair and he had no idea her hair was that long. Any suggestions on products.\?

[Marlita 0]

I apologize if I was not clear in my other postings so I will be clear now: Yes you still have to be "officially" married here in the US.

I was not offering information with the intention to mislead anyone.

I also said

If you need a second opinion, you can post the question in a new thread in order to get other VJ member's opinions and experience.

It will only take a second of your time and people are really quick to respond.

Good luck! star_smile.gif

If you disagree with something that someone says, it is better to address the disagreement in a more diplomatic fashion. We are all here to help each other.

Sorry for the confusion for the rest of you...Trelawny, I did not see your other post...had I seen it b4 I would have went back and made myself more clear. Thank you for being respectful even though you did not agree with me.

If my NON DIPLOMATIC answer set RIGHT what you through your admittedly POOR CHOICE of words implied, I would say the same thing in the SAME way, time and time again.

I am really not concerned with your feelings, but with the WELFARE of people who rely on advice here.

Please don't tell me how to address a disagreement.

We are here to help, but spreading mis-information is not by any means help.

You said

You can still get married in JA even when file a K1. Upon visa Approval, You can travel down to JA, have your wedding and then travel back to the US together.

WHAT part of that implies or says CIVIL???????

Come on JAE. You were a little harsh in your delivery. I think thats all she was saying. It seemed like you were yelling at her, and I think it was just a mis understanding of reading that she meant a religious ceremony and not a legal one.

[jawi876 2]

whats the cream?

Perm...relaxer. Yes I destroyed my naturally curly hair. Come wid de comment and mek mi bax yuh dung like mi bax Jonesie inna har neckback.

Yuh neva see how mi love yuh hup and yuh nuh say a ting? *kiss teet*

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Oh, I didnt see this. JAE, a wha appen tuh yuh?! Yuh gwaan yell at di gyal suh?

This HURT me to the CORE....imagine if someone took her advice???????

After PAYING for a K1, WAITING for MONTHS, SPENDING MONEY, they then got married and THEN had to file for a K3????????????

And then she says 'oh I meant CIVIL'?????

WHAT part of that says or even IMPLIES a CIVIL ceremony????????

[Marlita 0]

Hey Lita;

I'm not sure if it was you that provided the information, but it was on natural haircare products. My friend is in a biracial relationship and his poor wife cannot manage the girls hair. He has 4 girls and she never combs there hair out. All she does is wash it and it'a dangeled mess. It took me 3 hours to comb out his oldest daugther's hair and he had no idea her hair was that long. Any suggestions on products.\?

Yea that was me, its called BiracialHair

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Come on JAE. You were a little harsh in your delivery. I think thats all she was saying. It seemed like you were yelling at her, and I think it was just a mis understanding of reading that she meant a religious ceremony and not a legal one.

I was most definitely yelling, to make sure EVERYONE reading it realized that you CANNOT get married before coming up.

For me, it's playing with people's LIVES to suggest otherwise.

[Marlita 0]

whats the cream?

Perm...relaxer. Yes I destroyed my naturally curly hair. Come wid de comment and mek mi bax yuh dung like mi bax Jonesie inna har neckback.

Yuh neva see how mi love yuh hup and yuh nuh say a ting? *kiss teet*

Lawd God!! Mi nuh wan fi ramp wit yuh. Too much fiyah inna dis thread tiddeh!

whats the cream?

Perm...relaxer. Yes I destroyed my naturally curly hair. Come wid de comment and mek mi bax yuh dung like mi bax Jonesie inna har neckback.

Yuh neva see how mi love yuh hup and yuh nuh say a ting? *kiss teet*

Wha yuh chat bout? mi nuh knoa wha yuh seh.

[jawi876 2]

I agree with JaEnglish. I mean we and she come from some of the worse countries to try and get a legit visa. There is SO MUCH fraud...and people following bad advice (no matter how well intentioned the person giving the advice). We have families that will be separated from their loved ones for LIFE in Jamaica because they thought they could pay for expedited interview dates...now they face LIFETIME BANS.

The information on VJ is a luxury...the MAJORITY of people filing never come here...and don't realize this type of resource exists. If you make a statement about breaking a well known rule in the process...you should be capable of making it with the law or legal loophole that will make it so.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Lita/JAE/Honey/Ashante;

This is what happened to my friend;

She was given bad advice. She got married after her visa was approved and in hand. She had a large religious ceremony. Noone told her about a civil ceremony in Jamaica and I had no idea she had done this until after the fact. When she came to the states with her fiance (against better advice) they were told to register their overseas marriage at the local courthouse where they lived (which is what they did)...well, guess what marriage certificate they turned in with the AOS...the one from Jamaica. The courthouse gave them something, but they were told not to submit that. That was 2006. She still waiting on AOS.