Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[wakeywakeup 1]

Lawny you are a fool. I think I just peed on myself laughing at you.

Talk about co-workers the lady sitting next to me has some kind of foot condition. The kind that require thm fish to munch away at the dead skin. My problem is she takes here shoes off as soon as she gets here and walks around with that mess all on the floors.

Nasty thang!

Wakey, I just snorted at you!!

Island I snort everytime I see her feet. I would mortified to come to work in sandals if my feet looked like that. I'd be in tow pair of socks with my feet soaked in vaseline or something.

[JaHoney 3]

Tell her to put her crusty a$$ feet back in her dyam shoes!...LOL...or your calling the health department

[wakeywakeup 1]

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Thanks Chica! Always stick with the truth, that's what I tell him.

U freed from you budget meeting?

They had another party for me this afternoon. I was about to walk out of the hearing and here they come with another cake. The look on my face was priceless.

LADIES...help me to help my coworker. New person, very nice, well dress and pretty girl, but her UNDERARMS were buring a HOLE in my nose at the meeting.

Lawny you are a fool. I think I just peed on myself laughing at you.

Talk about co-workers the lady sitting next to me has some kind of foot condition. The kind that require thm fish to munch away at the dead skin. My problem is she takes here shoes off as soon as she gets here and walks around with that mess all on the floors.

Nasty thang!

JG..dey got sum'n at LUSH fa dis ere??? eidda dat or some cooking grease..slather her foot dem really good!! dey will be shiny fi tru, but no skin pieces all of di work floor dem!!!!

dat funny to Rass! I'm screaming

[dancehallquana 5]

hmm..i wonder too Quana....they live with u and visit with him right ? there is no order nothing..u keep ur kids mek him go sit down..talking bout he wants kids on 1st day of school...i hate to see when some men and women put the kids in the middle of the foolishness for no reason come on !

Except that he is the father, Kimmy. He does have rights. Should he chose to exercise those rights, it may not be pleasant. I've seen men demand all kinds of things that were never right for the children just because nothing legal was in place. Some men use their children as pawns in the game they are playing.

You and I both know she is taking on the burden of the care of the children and should be able to make ALL the decsions. But, until things are in writing, it's all about equality.

no, that's not what I'm saying I could never tell her to not have him see his kids or anything otherwise. What i'm saying is they live with her, my kids will never be a burden even if me and my husband separate. It is "her week" there were no arrangements to say he needs them earlier or she needs them later whatever. What RIGHT does he have more than what she has...what RIGHT is he gonna EXERCISE other than being malicious and selfish? And as long as he play a part in their lives..No, I don't think she should EVER make ALL the decisions that surrounds them. And it just so happens that school falls on "her week" with him acting like that where is the equality in that? what if it fell on "his week" ?

ok, it seems like the applications are processed towards the end of the month..take note guys..all u guys go emails at the same time..lets see how the interviews are going to be assigned

Humm sounds tricky. Can you all both take her to the school?

I see we are both women of reason.. I told him "fine, what time will u be dropping them off since I usually like to be there.." he said not to worry about that, he can take care of his kids by himself

HA.. I will just do what I can, and let the Lord handle the rest, he will get his in the end. Nobody can stop me from being joyful.. i may not be happy all the time, but I got my JOY, thank God...

Wakey my girl.. do ya'll have any special plans besides the obvious .. has your family met Dwayne, well I know jawi has but what about the others??

I figured Thursday we would go for SSN and marriage license. From what I've read it takes 30 days in Ga to get it back. Of course the rest will be put in order for sho!

Only my siter has met him. My brother talked to him on the phone and so have most of my close friends. I'm nervous about mama she doesn't approve of anyone. Dwayne said he will win her over though!

that JA charm will do it i am sure..anyway mom, he is coming now, might as well love him!!

[wakeywakeup 1]

Lawd yes!! His flight gets in tommorow at 830pm. I estimate it may take an hour before I get to hug and kiss him!!

He is at home packing now. He went out Saturday with all the friends and then Sunday they partied more at the Jerk fesitival.

Does he say how he is feeling? I'm not sure how I would feel...excited for sure but nervous as well.

He said he is a little nervous about the flight and getting lost in the airport. I coached him on where to go and how to follow the signs and the crowds. He said he will work it out. That's my man!

WAKEY;

Make sure he fills out the I-94 and the customs form. My friend fiance came up last week and they were yelling at him at Hartford for not filling it out.

Ok thanks I will be sure to tell him

Tell her to put her crusty a$$ feet back in her dyam shoes!...LOL...or your calling the health department

OH OH OH I'm still screaming and bouncing in my seat laughing. I'm going to snap a picture with my camera phone tomorrow when she gets in and let ya'll enjoy!

[*JG* 2]

Wakey, Make sure they take the brown envelope from him and take him to secondary interview. They just let Andre pass through. He comes walking to where I was all smiles....with the dang envelope in his hand. I had to throw a fit with the security guard to get him to let us go back and give it to them. That is a very important thing.

Oh, and tell him no machette in his carryon!

[wakeywakeup 1]

Y'all got me over here cracking up today.I got off work early today...YAY...but now i need to sit down and take my braids down, at the rate im going, i estimate i will have them down by Friday...anyone wanna help...LOL

Haha. I HATE taking out braids. Last time I started literally crying at all the tangles that I almost just cut all my hair out. I think I'll cut them out this time. I want the cut like the girl on The Game. I love her hair.

Good luck with the braids. The last time I had them I cut my own hair in many different spots. It is still trying to grow back.

[JaHoney 3]

Y'all today my mom gave me her seal of approval on D, i was like the WTH? normally my mother has something to say about everything but she sees that D makes me happy, and she feels like he is a good man. I am taking her to JA in february to meet him in person( lawd, that will probably be another whole thread in itself, but my mom is fast, she will be over there flirting). I was kind of shocked, when she gave her spiel, basically she told me that nothing in life is guaranteed, that she hoped D was on the up and up and not on some BS, and that even if it wound up being a mistake, that i was allowed to make that mistake and to just let God lead me... and with that im going to have me a SIP of appleton, because tomorrow she will be talking about how illegal immigrants are going to take all of the healthcare benefits from senior citizens or something along those lines.

Momma's you gotta love em!

[tnw 0]

Finally today I call State Dept and Ray is good to go. Just waiting on the interview now. Can the church say "AMEN"

Glad ur case is finally complete! I'm pulling for you to have an August/ Sept. interview girlie.......

[wakeywakeup 1]

Wakey, Make sure they take the brown envelope from him and take him to secondary interview. They just let Andre pass through. He comes walking to where I was all smiles....with the dang envelope in his hand. I had to throw a fit with the security guard to get him to let us go back and give it to them. That is a very important thing.

Oh, and tell him no machette in his carryon!

Really..he was able to get buy with out giving them the envelope. That is crazy. I will be sure to tell him.

No machette's allowed

[dancehallquana 5]

Wakey...you must be through the roof right about now!! I remember how that felt...like in what will Thursday be like...what we friday be like...trust me Chica...it's ALL GOOD!!!

Congrats to you and Dwayne and enjoy each other!!

Hey Lita,

Thank G-d you are OK! I was a worried cause the media will mek a 1.2 sound like an 7.0 EQ!!!!

Jawi...Chica,

it is so good to see you posting and see you around...I ALWAYS say this... I MISSED YOU!!! As well as our Girls Phatty, Jonesie and Yardie! We were a CRAZY bunch back in the day! But now we have a whole new CRAZY bunch!!!! :lol: Including Roxie, Sunny, Isles, Quannie and Honey!!! I love ALL of my Yardie Fam!!

Bless,

Gill

P.S I just spoke to Missa Young he was like "Did you chat bout wat mi tell yuh nuh fi chat bout wid yuh VJ Girlfriend dem?"

... and then... ('What you talking bout Willis' look)

oh no Gil.. LOL i was hoping he would forget.. OH WELL.. him married to us too dan him know???

[wakeywakeup 1]

Y'all today my mom gave me her seal of approval on D, i was like the WTH? normally my mother has something to say about everything but she sees that D makes me happy, and she feels like he is a good man. I am taking her to JA in february to meet him in person( lawd, that will probably be another whole thread in itself, but my mom is fast, she will be over there flirting). I was kind of shocked, when she gave her spiel, basically she told me that nothing in life is guaranteed, that she hoped D was on the up and up and not on some BS, and that even if it wound up being a mistake, that i was allowed to make that mistake and to just let God lead me... and with that im going to have me a SIP of appleton, because tomorrow she will be talking about how illegal immigrants are going to take all of the healthcare benefits from senior citizens or something along those lines.

Momma's you gotta love em!

I know that felt amazing to hear.

[dillon 6]

I just got back from mailing in my packet to the CSC! Let the wait begin!

Islandwoman~ Congrats on the interview date! I bet you were shocked when you got that email!

SunnyJA~ I am sure your date isn't too far behind!!!!

Congrats Dillion! Good luck on your journey.

Thanks - I was shocked. I never knew I could get so damn excited from an e-mail. Looks like Kingston just woke up from their month long nap.

Way to Go Dillon! Don't forget to research everything on this site to get prepared and help pass time during your wait!

Ditto! Best Wishes to you on your journey.

Thanks all for the well wishes...I am sure I will keep you posted.

And yes JA English it was a big relief just to get that in the mail!

[*JG* 2]

Wakey, Make sure they take the brown envelope from him and take him to secondary interview. They just let Andre pass through. He comes walking to where I was all smiles....with the dang envelope in his hand. I had to throw a fit with the security guard to get him to let us go back and give it to them. That is a very important thing.

Oh, and tell him no machette in his carryon!

Really..he was able to get buy with out giving them the envelope. That is crazy. I will be sure to tell him.

No machette's allowed

Yes. And, then, they had the nerve to tell me we couldn't come back into the immigration area. I was so mad. It finally came down to the supervisor asking who let him through and then that guy getting in trouble.

I shudder to think what would've happened at AOS time if they hadn't done the processing. And, that was Miami....you would think they see enough immigrants every single day to have that shyt down by now.

[wakeywakeup 1]

later ladies. talk to you soon.