Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[wakeywakeup 1]

more Jamaican gossip then I know about my own city....even after I read all the papers and watch the news. Everyone we know in Jamaica knows everything about everyone else.

Yuh dyam right...Ken came bolting upstairs last night after speaking to Marcel all in a teather about someone they both knew. After he told me I was like..."Alrighty then..." and started walking away... and then he shouts... "and don't tell yuh VisaJourney Sistren dem bout dis!!" I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him that ya'll (like myself) probably wouldn't give a rat's batty about his foo-foo gossip! Cho! :lol:

Gill;

I wish it was gossip, but it's the truth. The boy (not man) is a damn EDIAT. Mi a tell u...mi nevah know seh punny can mek a man tun inah ediat.

Tidanemu I'm sorry to hear you are going through this.

Gill, that is too cute. I think many men love to talk as much as we do. They just call ours gossip because we get into hair, nails, and clothes.

WAKEY;

Are you ready? Are you ready?

Lawd yes!! His flight gets in tommorow at 830pm. I estimate it may take an hour before I get to hug and kiss him!!

He is at home packing now. He went out Saturday with all the friends and then Sunday they partied more at the Jerk fesitival.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Thanks Chica! Always stick with the truth, that's what I tell him.

U freed from you budget meeting?

They had another party for me this afternoon. I was about to walk out of the hearing and here they come with another cake. The look on my face was priceless.

LADIES...help me to help my coworker. New person, very nice, well dress and pretty girl, but her UNDERARMS were buring a HOLE in my nose at the meeting.

[dancehallquana 5]

hmm..i wonder too Quana....they live with u and visit with him right ? there is no order nothing..u keep ur kids mek him go sit down..talking bout he wants kids on 1st day of school...i hate to see when some men and women put the kids in the middle of the foolishness for no reason come on !

Except that he is the father, Kimmy. He does have rights. Should he chose to exercise those rights, it may not be pleasant. I've seen men demand all kinds of things that were never right for the children just because nothing legal was in place. Some men use their children as pawns in the game they are playing.

You and I both know she is taking on the burden of the care of the children and should be able to make ALL the decsions. But, until things are in writing, it's all about equality.

no, that's not what I'm saying I could never tell her to not have him see his kids or anything otherwise. What i'm saying is they live with her, my kids will never be a burden even if me and my husband separate. It is "her week" there were no arrangements to say he needs them earlier or she needs them later whatever. What RIGHT does he have more than what she has...what RIGHT is he gonna EXERCISE other than being malicious and selfish? And as long as he play a part in their lives..No, I don't think she should EVER make ALL the decisions that surrounds them. And it just so happens that school falls on "her week" with him acting like that where is the equality in that? what if it fell on "his week" ?

ok, it seems like the applications are processed towards the end of the month..take note guys..all u guys go emails at the same time..lets see how the interviews are going to be assigned

Humm sounds tricky. Can you all both take her to the school?

I see we are both women of reason.. I told him "fine, what time will u be dropping them off since I usually like to be there.." he said not to worry about that, he can take care of his kids by himself

HA.. I will just do what I can, and let the Lord handle the rest, he will get his in the end. Nobody can stop me from being joyful.. i may not be happy all the time, but I got my JOY, thank God...

Wakey my girl.. do ya'll have any special plans besides the obvious .. has your family met Dwayne, well I know jawi has but what about the others??

[*JG* 2]

Anyone know what part of California Marlita lives in? North or South?

I think around LA... I think...

Earthquake rattles Los Angeles

That's why I was asking.

I hope she's okay.

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Yeah, I didn't write anything to them.

Make sure he is overly loaded down with evidence and let it speak for itself.

[dancehallquana 5]

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Yeah mon, everyting will be fine.. WHEN u get that approval, your sweetie will be here soon!!

[Marlita 0]

more Jamaican gossip then I know about my own city....even after I read all the papers and watch the news. Everyone we know in Jamaica knows everything about everyone else.

Yuh dyam right...Ken came bolting upstairs last night after speaking to Marcel all in a teather about someone they both knew. After he told me I was like..."Alrighty then..." and started walking away... and then he shouts... "and don't tell yuh VisaJourney Sistren dem bout dis!!" I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him that ya'll (like myself) probably wouldn't give a rat's batty about his foo-foo gossip! Cho!

Gill;

I wish it was gossip, but it's the truth. The boy (not man) is a damn EDIAT. Mi a tell u...mi nevah know seh punny can mek a man tun inah ediat.

Tidanemu I'm sorry to hear you are going through this.

Gill, that is too cute. I think many men love to talk as much as we do. They just call ours gossip because we get into hair, nails, and clothes.

WAKEY;

Are you ready? Are you ready?

Lawd yes!! His flight gets in tommorow at 830pm. I estimate it may take an hour before I get to hug and kiss him!!

He is at home packing now. He went out Saturday with all the friends and then Sunday they partied more at the Jerk fesitival.

There was another Jerk Festival? Where was this one?

[*JG* 2]

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Thanks Chica! Always stick with the truth, that's what I tell him.

U freed from you budget meeting?

They had another party for me this afternoon. I was about to walk out of the hearing and here they come with another cake. The look on my face was priceless.

LADIES...help me to help my coworker. New person, very nice, well dress and pretty girl, but her UNDERARMS were buring a HOLE in my nose at the meeting.

You could go buy a travel size deoderant and tell her you got a bunch of free samples yesterday and ask if she'd like one.

LUSH has a cool deoderant that is unique. Maybe get a free sample for her and do the same as I said above. Aromoco is what I suggest.

Marlita.........I was just asking about you. Are you okay in Cali?

[Marlita 0]

Anyone know what part of California Marlita lives in? North or South?

I think around LA... I think...

Earthquake rattles Los Angeles

That's why I was asking.

I hope she's okay.

I'm fine. It wasn't a bad EQ. The media will make it sound worse than it is. It was a rolling one so it just felt very swayie. I was at work and just sitting here like "is that an EQ?" Then we all just left the building and went ot lunch.

[Islandwoman 0]

Lawd yes!! His flight gets in tommorow at 830pm. I estimate it may take an hour before I get to hug and kiss him!!

He is at home packing now. He went out Saturday with all the friends and then Sunday they partied more at the Jerk fesitival.

Does he say how he is feeling? I'm not sure how I would feel...excited for sure but nervous as well.

[dancehallquana 5]

oh no..Earthquake?? Lita babygirl.. I pray the angels are watching over u sweetie, keeping u from any harm, hurt or danger..

[Islandwoman 0]

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Thanks Chica! Always stick with the truth, that's what I tell him.

U freed from you budget meeting?

They had another party for me this afternoon. I was about to walk out of the hearing and here they come with another cake. The look on my face was priceless.

LADIES...help me to help my coworker. New person, very nice, well dress and pretty girl, but her UNDERARMS were buring a HOLE in my nose at the meeting.

Oh no - is this the same one as before?!?!

[wakeywakeup 1]

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Thanks Chica! Always stick with the truth, that's what I tell him.

U freed from you budget meeting?

They had another party for me this afternoon. I was about to walk out of the hearing and here they come with another cake. The look on my face was priceless.

LADIES...help me to help my coworker. New person, very nice, well dress and pretty girl, but her UNDERARMS were buring a HOLE in my nose at the meeting.

Lawny you are a fool. I think I just peed on myself laughing at you.

Talk about co-workers the lady sitting next to me has some kind of foot condition. The kind that require thm fish to munch away at the dead skin. My problem is she takes here shoes off as soon as she gets here and walks around with that mess all on the floors.

Nasty thang!

[*JG* 2]

You all work with some nasty women.

[Islandwoman 0]

Lawny you are a fool. I think I just peed on myself laughing at you.

Talk about co-workers the lady sitting next to me has some kind of foot condition. The kind that require thm fish to munch away at the dead skin. My problem is she takes here shoes off as soon as she gets here and walks around with that mess all on the floors.

Nasty thang!

Wakey, I just snorted at you!!

[dancehallquana 5]

are u going down to JA for the interview??

Not unless I can make my pine tree in the backyard grow $$ instead of pine cones!! No, he is going to have to fly solo. My kids start school the very next day (don't need to go there again ) so there is no way I can be gone that weekend. Not to mention the price of a flight....I'm just going to write a mushy letter about why I can't be there and stick it in with our evidence. He is the calmer one of the two of us anyway. I'd be there pacing the floor and will bust into tears when it's over, no doubt. I definitely will be going into work late that day though! I will be totally useless until I get the call.

Hey TL;

If they ask your SO why you're not there, tell him to tell them that "her children starts school this week"...they shouldn't ask anything else about you're absence.

Thanks Chica! Always stick with the truth, that's what I tell him.

U freed from you budget meeting?

They had another party for me this afternoon. I was about to walk out of the hearing and here they come with another cake. The look on my face was priceless.

LADIES...help me to help my coworker. New person, very nice, well dress and pretty girl, but her UNDERARMS were buring a HOLE in my nose at the meeting.

You could go buy a travel size deoderant and tell her you got a bunch of free samples yesterday and ask if she'd like one.

LUSH has a cool deoderant that is unique. Maybe get a free sample for her and do the same as I said above. Aromoco is what I suggest.

Marlita.........I was just asking about you. Are you okay in Cali?

Mann JG..that is smooth!!!.. I think it will work Lawny and give one to at least one other person so she will not suspect LOL.. maybe she was just in a hurry this morning.. U can take a shower in the morning and w/ this TX heat if u forget?? BABAY u will be wishing u hadn't by the time u get to work LOL that is y I keep one at my desk