Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[wakeywakeup 1]

Ok ladies, here I am again with one of those questions that make you go "huh?" I am at work and my patients are sleeping so here goes my wondering mind again. lol

Have you ever discussed your past relationships in detail with your SO and has your SO been curious enough to get detail info about your past? I know some people go into specific detail about everything that happened in their past and to me that tends to be a little tricky.

I told my ex-husband about an incident that happened to me in high school that I never told anyone else and it was used against me in ways you cannot even imagine when I least expected it. Until this day I am in shock about what he did but life goes on and I have dealt with it.

Mike has never questioned me about my past and I tell him what I choose to and what is significant for him to know. I feel that if it does not directly affect our current relationship, it is not necessary for him to know.

Your thoughts?????

I was thinking the same thing last week. To share it all or share a little. So far it's been enough for him to know me but I've decided some stuff is meant to be taken to the grave.

He has told me stuff too but I must admit in my low points when self-esteem isn't at the highest I will play scenarios in my mind that I know I shouldn't. I really don't want to know honestly.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Anyways guys, thanks for entertaining me. I am about to go get some sleep as I worked a 23-hour shift last night. Not very busy but the night shift takes a toll on me and I won't recover till tomorrow.

Later, y'all.

Good Day Claire, I will be working from home today, so I will be here for awhile. I won't be having those all day interruptions.

Roxcie

[KIMCORENE 0]

Morning all, hope at least some of you have had some progress on your case. Just wanted to say that I have returned to my old, calm and resolute self and have decided to face whatever comes. i can't believe I was stressing like that the other day,lol. Thank you all for your presence on here, it helps so many people in so many unnoticed way.

[wakeywakeup 1]

I know how you feel, Tre. I worked the day of my wedding. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

I think you should name her Summer Wynter.

How about Summer Dawn Wynter

Roxcie

JG/Roxie;

My sister also suggested Summer Wynter...I was like heck no. He wants a girl child sooooo BAD. I have a pregnancy book in the house from when I was pregnant with my son. Yesterday when I got home he HIGHLIGHTS in bright PINK the sections to shows what position to have sex in if you want to get a girl...I was and LMAO! I told him I'm going to start sleeping in my son's room during my peak OVULATION days (like that's fool proof).

OMG..I want a girl can I gets some pictures??!!

[wakeywakeup 1]

Morning all, hope at least some of you have had some progress on your case. Just wanted to say that I have returned to my old, calm and resolute self and have decided to face whatever comes. i can't believe I was stressing like that the other day,lol. Thank you all for your presence on here, it helps so many people in so many unnoticed way.

Hi KimCorene I'm being nosey but what is this F-1 petion you have in your timeline.

Wakey

Morning all, hope at least some of you have had some progress on your case. Just wanted to say that I have returned to my old, calm and resolute self and have decided to face whatever comes. i can't believe I was stressing like that the other day,lol. Thank you all for your presence on here, it helps so many people in so many unnoticed way.

Hi KimCorene I'm being nosey but what is this F-1 petion you have in your timeline.

Wakey

I meant J-1

[Sonshyne 2]

I know how you feel, Tre. I worked the day of my wedding. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

I think you should name her Summer Wynter.

I worked on my wedding day too, well half the day.

Congrats Lawny

Edited July 22, 2008 by Sonshyne

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Morning all, hope at least some of you have had some progress on your case. Just wanted to say that I have returned to my old, calm and resolute self and have decided to face whatever comes. i can't believe I was stressing like that the other day,lol. Thank you all for your presence on here, it helps so many people in so many unnoticed way.

Hello KIMCORENE,

Yes, this can be very stressful at times, but it is good to be able to vent or cry with those who have gone before you down this road, or thise who are on the same visa bus you are on. I was thinking the other day, we ladies have this venue here to assist us on dbad/good days. What do our SO have for those good/bad days. I personally think we ( all VJ participates) should all use one long distance carrier, buy their stock and pay ourselves back.

Roxcie

[sus 70]

I meant J-1

Wakey, a J1 is an exchange worker visa - there is a requirement that someone who has held a J1 has to be out of the country for a certain period before filing for a different visa to adjust status.

[wakeywakeup 1]

I meant J-1

Wakey, a J1 is an exchange worker visa - there is a requirement that someone who has held a J1 has to be out of the country for a certain period before filing for a different visa to adjust status.

Oh..thanks

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

I know how you feel, Tre. I worked the day of my wedding. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

I think you should name her Summer Wynter.

I worked on my wedding day too, well half the day.

Congrats Lawny

Shyne I was going to come to work after the ceremony and my SO was like, "HECK no, we have work to do" I just laughed.

[wakeywakeup 1]

I know how you feel, Tre. I worked the day of my wedding. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

I think you should name her Summer Wynter.

I worked on my wedding day too, well half the day.

Congrats Lawny

Shyne I was going to come to work after the ceremony and my SO was like, "HECK no, we have work to do" I just laughed.

I know that's right you need to be hanging from a chandelier after the ceremony not be stressed by butt heads at work!

[Sonshyne 2]

Ok ladies, here I am again with one of those questions that make you go "huh?" I am at work and my patients are sleeping so here goes my wondering mind again. lol

Have you ever discussed your past relationships in detail with your SO and has your SO been curious enough to get detail info about your past? I know some people go into specific detail about everything that happened in their past and to me that tends to be a little tricky.

I told my ex-husband about an incident that happened to me in high school that I never told anyone else and it was used against me in ways you cannot even imagine when I least expected it. Until this day I am in shock about what he did but life goes on and I have dealt with it.

Mike has never questioned me about my past and I tell him what I choose to and what is significant for him to know. I feel that if it does not directly affect our current relationship, it is not necessary for him to know.

Your thoughts?????

There are some things that need to be left "in" the past. I told a ex something as well and a few months later we were in a heated arguement and he threw it in my face You talk about a stab to the heart and a slap to the face!! That hurt more than the inifo I shared with him. That was a lesson learnt the hard way. Some things are just better left un-said.

[Sonshyne 2]

I know how you feel, Tre. I worked the day of my wedding. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

I think you should name her Summer Wynter.

I worked on my wedding day too, well half the day.

Congrats Lawny

Shyne I was going to come to work after the ceremony and my SO was like, "HECK no, we have work to do" I just laughed.

I know that's right you need to be hanging from a chandelier after the ceremony not be stressed by butt heads at work!

Thats what I'm talking about

Lawny I came to work before the ceremony only because I started work at 400am. We got married at 10am and by 12....

[*JG* 2]

I went to work the day after too. I'm still waiting for the honeymoon!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

I went to work the day after too. I'm still waiting for the honeymoon!

JG -- it will come ... I wan to go to St. Barts for our honeymoon (but that's nowhere in the future).