Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[Forever Young 1]

JA English...you have the cutest baby ever....LOL

Thank you lol!

I went to 2 SS offices and called. If they say no, even after you argue with everyone and their brother, there is little you can do.

There's a printout on a link here on VJ that you can print and take with you to the SS office if you are running into problems.

So far they've not been able to refute that....

Been there, done that. Did not make a difference.

Go armed with a baseball bat if all else fails

JAenglish,

Girl looking at your baby makes me want another one and my boys are 15 and 10, i figured i was shut down for business after that last one. Mista keeps talking about dont yu want to try for a gyal, im like hell no, you have one boy, i got 2 that is enough...but yours is just adorable, maybe im feeling that maternal thing again...SOMEBODY HELP!!!!LOL

Honey, I HEAR YOU!!! Missa Young still insisting that we haffi try for a Girl! We have THREE boys between the 2 of us! I told him if he can ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY GUARANTEE and Girl...sure let's go for it...if not..."NO!" All em seh is ..."We'll see bout yuh 'NO'!!

MEN!!

Gill

[IrieCat 2]

Oh mY! I went on the the USCIS website and found "civil surgeons" and called a dr's office.

Told her what I need "vaccination records transcribed for AOS on my fiancee's visa" .. they HAD NO IDEA WHAT I WAS TALKING ABOUT!!!

She made me spell "civil surgeon"!!!

Then transferred me to nowhereland!!!

[JaHoney 3]

Lord, Irie....it is never ending all the ####### you have to do, it seems....but hang in there! How is louis doing? adjusting? i know your happy as hell, and i am happy for you.

Gill,

That's what i said to mista. I am 36 years old, what would i look like with kids sixteen or seventeen years apart...LOL...him gonna say, we can have fun trying...LOL....im like yeah right...

[IrieCat 2]

Lord, Irie....it is never ending all the ####### you have to do, it seems....but hang in there! How is louis doing? adjusting? i know your happy as hell, and i am happy for you.

Gill,

That's what i said to mista. I am 36 years old, what would i look like with kids sixteen or seventeen years apart...LOL...him gonna say, we can have fun trying...LOL....im like yeah right...

I called another Dr's office... she knew exactly what I was talking about! Phew...

But ####### $450 for the service. Yuck! I need a 2nd and 3rd job!

I think its funny that according to the poverty line chart I should be able to support a family of 8 or something!!!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Lord, Irie....it is never ending all the ####### you have to do, it seems....but hang in there! How is louis doing? adjusting? i know your happy as hell, and i am happy for you.

Gill,

That's what i said to mista. I am 36 years old, what would i look like with kids sixteen or seventeen years apart...LOL...him gonna say, we can have fun trying...LOL....im like yeah right...

I called another Dr's office... she knew exactly what I was talking about! Phew...

But ####### $450 for the service. Yuck! I need a 2nd and 3rd job!

I think its funny that according to the poverty line chart I should be able to support a family of 8 or something!!!

Girl, keep calling around.

To make it easier, just tell them that you want your records transcribed for immigration.

If you will be coming to DC/MD before AOS, I can give you the info for the surgeon I used who cost $50.

Also, if you do a search in the AOS forum for DR Arnold, he charges $20 (I think!) for doing it via mail.

Lord, Irie....it is never ending all the ####### you have to do, it seems....but hang in there! How is louis doing? adjusting? i know your happy as hell, and i am happy for you.

Gill,

That's what i said to mista. I am 36 years old, what would i look like with kids sixteen or seventeen years apart...LOL...him gonna say, we can have fun trying...LOL....im like yeah right...

I'm 33, I have a 7 year gap between kids. Told the Mr that if he really wants another, he'll have to wait another 7 years lol!

He wants a girl too...

[JaHoney 3]

Lord, Irie....it is never ending all the ####### you have to do, it seems....but hang in there! How is louis doing? adjusting? i know your happy as hell, and i am happy for you.

Gill,

That's what i said to mista. I am 36 years old, what would i look like with kids sixteen or seventeen years apart...LOL...him gonna say, we can have fun trying...LOL....im like yeah right...

I called another Dr's office... she knew exactly what I was talking about! Phew...

But ####### $450 for the service. Yuck! I need a 2nd and 3rd job!

I think its funny that according to the poverty line chart I should be able to support a family of 8 or something!!!

Girl, keep calling around.

To make it easier, just tell them that you want your records transcribed for immigration.

If you will be coming to DC/MD before AOS, I can give you the info for the surgeon I used who cost $50.

Also, if you do a search in the AOS forum for DR Arnold, he charges $20 (I think!) for doing it via mail.

Lord, Irie....it is never ending all the ####### you have to do, it seems....but hang in there! How is louis doing? adjusting? i know your happy as hell, and i am happy for you.

Gill,

That's what i said to mista. I am 36 years old, what would i look like with kids sixteen or seventeen years apart...LOL...him gonna say, we can have fun trying...LOL....im like yeah right...

I'm 33, I have a 7 year gap between kids. Told the Mr that if he really wants another, he'll have to wait another 7 years lol!

He wants a girl too...

Irie,

What exactly is it that they are transcribing? and whatever the hell it is im sure it isnt $450 worth of work...#######!!!!! yeah initially i was all stressed out about the AOS poverty guidelines thing too, until i looked at it, im like #######? they can be serious, once Mista arrives, i will be supporting a family of 4, until he works, there are days when i feel like i cant support a family of 1...lol....anyhoo, im sure you will find someone much cheaper, i will keep my fingers crossed for you.

[*JG* 2]

I always suggest waiting to see if you actually even need to see a civil surgeon. We copied Andre's shot records and sent them along with AOS. Worse case, we got a RFE. Then, I'd deal. Went through without a hitch and no interview. I know many who have waited and not needed to spend the money or the hassle.

[IrieCat 2]

I always suggest waiting to see if you actually even need to see a civil surgeon. We copied Andre's shot records and sent them along with AOS. Worse case, we got a RFE. Then, I'd deal. Went through without a hitch and no interview. I know many who have waited and not needed to spend the money or the hassle.

That sounds like a good idea too. I am looking at this form the Embassy gave Louis. It is DS-2053. The only thing is Louis had to get 3 shots and I see nothing about the shots.

[Ms. Hellwig 0]

In reference to work authorization I want to throw this out. Check out this link. Specifically look at section "C":

https://s044a90.ssa.gov/apps10/poms.nsf/lnx...33;opendocument

Apparently K-1 immigrants are authorized to work upon entering the US - with or without the EAD stamp - is the gist I got from this.

So I asked the HR person of my company awhile ago what would happen, hypothetically speaking, if we hired someone who didn't have a SS# yet. There is a procedure for her to set up a temporary tax id number and then the new employee would have a certain amount of time to get the SS# or provide proof that it has been applied for.

What does everyone think? I guess you would have to find an employer willing to accept this understanding of the rules and also be willing to go through the extra paper work of a new employee not yet having a SS#.

Just curious.....mostly confused by it all but curious what you all think.

[IrieCat 2]

Louis is so lucky I love him! He sees me sitting here trying to figure out all this transcription stuff, I am asking him about papers the Embassy/Clinic gave him... He is like "I don't know", "I think they gave me something"!! So he calls back to SLU asking his brother to search for the papers.. getting all irritated with him cause he can't find... meanwhile I go in his suitcase and VOILA! I find it!

I swear he fell on his head as a baby! LOL

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Gilli..YES ! dem work..we have 3yrs under our belt....no easy road but they do work....hooraay for the anniversaries

[*JG* 2]

In reference to work authorization I want to throw this out. Check out this link. Specifically look at section "C":

https://s044a90.ssa.gov/apps10/poms.nsf/lnx...33;opendocument

Apparently K-1 immigrants are authorized to work upon entering the US - with or without the EAD stamp - is the gist I got from this.

So I asked the HR person of my company awhile ago what would happen, hypothetically speaking, if we hired someone who didn't have a SS# yet. There is a procedure for her to set up a temporary tax id number and then the new employee would have a certain amount of time to get the SS# or provide proof that it has been applied for.

What does everyone think? I guess you would have to find an employer willing to accept this understanding of the rules and also be willing to go through the extra paper work of a new employee not yet having a SS#.

Just curious.....mostly confused by it all but curious what you all think.

That is true. But, many are reluctant to take that on.

Gilli..YES ! dem work..we have 3yrs under our belt....no easy road but they do work....hooraay for the anniversaries

What is this in reference to, Kimmy? I completely agree with you; but can't find what you are talking about exactly.

Well, ladies, I am over and out of here for today. Going home at noon to run over to my Church and set up for tomorrow's auction.

Have a good weekend.

See you all later.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

JG..Gill made a statement about VJ marriages and that she's happy for the anniversaries and that goes to prove that they do work..and I agreed

[jason&Marla 0]

Hello Ladies,

I have'nt been on here in a few, but wanted to share what happened to us lastnight. Marla was cooking and turned the oven eye off but really she turned it on high. Next thing I knew my kithcen was on fire. Probbaly done about $3000 in damage and luckily ins. will cover it. Marla was very upset and more embarressed than anything. But after confirming to her that it happens to alot of people she was fine.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Hello Ladies,

I have'nt been on here in a few, but wanted to share what happened to us lastnight. Marla was cooking and turned the oven eye off but really she turned it on high. Next thing I knew my kithcen was on fire. Probbaly done about $3000 in damage and luckily ins. will cover it. Marla was very upset and more embarressed than anything. But after confirming to her that it happens to alot of people she was fine.

Jason, may I make a suggestion to you, right about now Marla needs some friends she can communicate with, since the ladies on this site are so wonderful, why don't you show her how to log on under her own screen name, and she can share, vent, or cry with us about her feelings. I assure you she would truly appreciate this since right about now she is feeling very home sick. This is just a suggestion.

Be Bless

Roxcie