Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[Marlita 0]

We are forever searching for something to combat the hair bumps. Nothing works for very long.

He doesn't shave with a razor right? Just the clippers? Hmmm...I know this is a hard one, but its fixable he just literally has to treat his face the way we treat the...pum.haha I know that sounds crazy but its the truth.

1. He cannot shave with a razor for one....if he does he needs to exfoliate his face everyday. I suggest Apricot scrub.
2. Also try a hair conditioner as mix with his shave cream...I reccommend Motions.
3. Get an exfiliating brush...they sell good ones at Body Shop and brush the scalp and face.
4. Always moisturize the face with a face cream. The scalp should be fine with the conditioner ,and then like a baby oil gel every now and then...trust me his skin will likely soak it up in a couple hours

After awhile his skin will become softer and more conditioned which eliminates the breeding ground of bumps. Now if he already has bad skin scars from the bumps you may have a bigger problem....and I am not really sure how to go about that.

[Marlita 0]

All this talk of Lush I had to look them up. Well there are 10 in Cali and wouldnt you know not a one actually close to me.....poo!

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

We haven't really broached the toy topic yet - flavored lotions, etc... yes - the other just hasn't come up! I bought this stuff called coochie cream at a girl's adult party - it is actually a shaving lotion, but it is the best thing in the world for your legs, as well as other areas - The look on DJ's face when he picked up the bottle was priceless, lol - cause you all know, he had to try all my lotions!

Hey...is that Pure Romance? My best friend works for them, and I know that is one of their products--she SWEARS by it! The part I like about it is she gives me good deals on stuff, in exchange for my testimonials at some of her parties!! She told me that after I gave my testimony about one of her products in particular, she sold $300 worth of that product alone at that party!! Anywhoo, I just laugh when my husband gets all riled up about the whole subject...you know, it surprises me that I married a man so conservative in his thinking with regards to sex, and I'm so adventurous--but I plan to sway him...one way or the other!!

Ok. let me tell you what my husband said after I read him your original post and wanted his thoughts. he said he was not into "dils", but if a woman wanted to have a vibrator it was fine. I asked...what was the difference. He said the dils are like a replacement to him, and that men are threatend by this thing that can essentially please his woman with out him. So what the difference is with a vibrator I dont know. He said vibes are the little small things and dils can be really big and make a man feel inadequate. He also said that the dils "mess stuff up down there...the woman stuff gets messed up and worn out if she use that all the time" So he basically was not for them. Then he calls me this morning saying he thought about it and now thinks its a turn on and interesting to try....LAWD!! What is wrong with this man. I never even told him i wanted to try it with him, i just read the post. His reasons for not liking them somewhat made sense...at least I see where he's coming from.

Hey 'Lita--what would your hubby think about the "dils" that have the vibrators attached to them? You talk about being scared of being replaced...he might be right about that one!! LOL

[shrewdgal 0]

Hey everybody!!

I feel like I havent been on to chat in forever. Things are looking up in my life..but STILL no word from VSC. I am going on 8 months there. I leave for JA Friday and I just dont knwo what we will do if I have to come back ANOTHER summer with no idea when we will be joined again.

Prayers are still needed!

Your talks today were a much needed entertainment to begin summer

Everyone okay?

Any interview news Lita??????

[BelwinMills 0]

Does anyone know any thing about work visas? We would like to bring DH's mom over her on a work visa to babysit our daughter and to clean our house and my mom and dads house. Any information would be great. Having a baby it is so hard now to keep up with this board. Congrats to all who are moving along with process and visas.

God Bless

J

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Does anyone know any thing about work visas? We would like to bring DH's mom over her on a work visa to babysit our daughter and to clean our house and my mom and dads house. Any information would be great. Having a baby it is so hard now to keep up with this board. Congrats to all who are moving along with process and visas.

God Bless

J

That won't work

Only way is for him to file for her once he's got citizenship.

[BelwinMills 0]

Does anyone know any thing about work visas? We would like to bring DH's mom over her on a work visa to babysit our daughter and to clean our house and my mom and dads house. Any information would be great. Having a baby it is so hard now to keep up with this board. Congrats to all who are moving along with process and visas.

God Bless

J

That won't work

Only way is for him to file for her once he's got citizenship.

She is his aunt. She never officially adopted him.

[Marlita 0]

We haven't really broached the toy topic yet - flavored lotions, etc... yes - the other just hasn't come up! I bought this stuff called coochie cream at a girl's adult party - it is actually a shaving lotion, but it is the best thing in the world for your legs, as well as other areas - The look on DJ's face when he picked up the bottle was priceless, lol - cause you all know, he had to try all my lotions!

Hey...is that Pure Romance? My best friend works for them, and I know that is one of their products--she SWEARS by it! The part I like about it is she gives me good deals on stuff, in exchange for my testimonials at some of her parties!! She told me that after I gave my testimony about one of her products in particular, she sold $300 worth of that product alone at that party!! Anywhoo, I just laugh when my husband gets all riled up about the whole subject...you know, it surprises me that I married a man so conservative in his thinking with regards to sex, and I'm so adventurous--but I plan to sway him...one way or the other!!

Ok. let me tell you what my husband said after I read him your original post and wanted his thoughts. he said he was not into "dils", but if a woman wanted to have a vibrator it was fine. I asked...what was the difference. He said the dils are like a replacement to him, and that men are threatend by this thing that can essentially please his woman with out him. So what the difference is with a vibrator I dont know. He said vibes are the little small things and dils can be really big and make a man feel inadequate. He also said that the dils "mess stuff up down there...the woman stuff gets messed up and worn out if she use that all the time" So he basically was not for them. Then he calls me this morning saying he thought about it and now thinks its a turn on and interesting to try....LAWD!! What is wrong with this man. I never even told him i wanted to try it with him, i just read the post. His reasons for not liking them somewhat made sense...at least I see where he's coming from.

Hey 'Lita--what would your hubby think about the "dils" that have the vibrators attached to them? You talk about being scared of being replaced...he might be right about that one!! LOL

haha, I don't know what he'll think. I actually personally wouldnt want one so I guess he dont have to worry, haha.

[Marie876 0]

Jax,

Here's some more info about the work visas. I'm not sure what category a babysitter/nanny would fall under, but you file a I-129 with the associated fee.

HTH!

- Marie

Work Visas - USCIS

Work Visas - US Embassy in Kingston

We haven't really broached the toy topic yet - flavored lotions, etc... yes - the other just hasn't come up! I bought this stuff called coochie cream at a girl's adult party - it is actually a shaving lotion, but it is the best thing in the world for your legs, as well as other areas - The look on DJ's face when he picked up the bottle was priceless, lol - cause you all know, he had to try all my lotions!

Sus, Where can I find coochie chream?

Edited June 4, 2008 by Marie87

[Marlita 0]

Hey everybody!!

I feel like I havent been on to chat in forever. Things are looking up in my life..but STILL no word from VSC. I am going on 8 months there. I leave for JA Friday and I just dont knwo what we will do if I have to come back ANOTHER summer with no idea when we will be joined again.

Prayers are still needed!

Your talks today were a much needed entertainment to begin summer

Everyone okay?

Any interview news Lita??????

Nope no news yet. i'm not stressing it no more. I am guessing for a August date, so if July comes that will be better. I haven't been to JA since Feb and that was only 4 days....ugh!! I miss him so much, this is all too ridiculous.

Does anyone know any thing about work visas? We would like to bring DH's mom over her on a work visa to babysit our daughter and to clean our house and my mom and dads house. Any information would be great. Having a baby it is so hard now to keep up with this board. Congrats to all who are moving along with process and visas.

God Bless

J

I don't think you can sponser her on a work visa to be your nanny.

[BelwinMills 0]

Thanks ladies,

I am not sponsoring her. My parents or granny would.

Another question can his mom set up a bank account in JA were we can transfer money to her?

I am tired of paying $11.95 to send money threw Western Union.

[Marlita 0]

Thanks ladies,

I am not sponsoring her. My parents or granny would.

Another question can his mom set up a bank account in JA were we can transfer money to her?

I am tired of paying $11.95 to send money threw Western Union.

I mean, I thought you cant sponser someone to do the job that someone here in the US could do.

Thanks ladies,

I am not sponsoring her. My parents or granny would.

Another question can his mom set up a bank account in JA were we can transfer money to her?

I am tired of paying $11.95 to send money threw Western Union.

You could open up an account with Scotia Bank. I know they have that option and you just add money to it online.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

yeah Jax ..i think there r a couple of banks...try jn money transfer or vmbs

[BelwinMills 0]

thanks again ladies

[BelwinMills 0]

How can I go about getting her here? She is the only family member Dwain has. His step dad died a year 1/2 ago and he was the provider for the family. Then DH left for USA in the same year. She has had many jobs but taxi fair is to expensive. Plus she is lonely in the bush and has no family to take care of her.

I might see what a immigration lawyer says for this situation and our senators office.