Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[*JG* 2]

Good luck, IC.

I read LG's interview story. I hope she works it out.

[Forever Young 1]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

Oh, HELL no!

That's what about 20 plus people repeated. My cousin's dad got up and walked off. His brothers had to pull him aside and talked to him. He returned to the room and changed his shoes. He should have know better he's 38 years old. His excuse (he needs to be comfortable it's his day also)...I understand it's your day too, but come on. It was bad enough the tux he was wearing made him look like a damn PIMP...down to his hat with a big GREEN feather sticking out the side of it. It was damn near 100 degrees outside too.

Ohhhhhhh HELL NAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lawny, yuh cousin is bettah dan mi!!

[Forever Young 1]

I really dont' know what to say, Shrewdie. It hurts me to see you in so much pain. But, whatever comes to mind, just doesnt' seem enough to even say out loud.

Know that even when I dont' say anything, I read what you write and I say a little prayer for you.

Ditto!!! Have you bugged your congressman or senators again!!! Don't give up Shrewds...that's what they want you to do!! Just keep on plugging Chica...I agree wid UG...this too shall pass!!

Bless,

Gill

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

[Forever Young 1]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

DWLL...kikikikikikikikikikiki... ...AMEN Sistren...A-M-E-N!!!!

Good luck, IC.

I read LG's interview story. I hope she works it out.

Ditto Irie...Louis will be just fine! Just keep prepping and testing him!!

Bless,

Gill

[IrieCat 2]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

DWLL...kikikikikikikikikikiki... ...AMEN Sistren...A-M-E-N!!!!

Good luck, IC.

I read LG's interview story. I hope she works it out.

Ditto Irie...Louis will be just fine! Just keep prepping and testing him!!

Bless,

Gill

Thanks! He know EVERYTHING about me they could possibly ask him. birthday, where I was born, where I live now, when we met. My daughter's birthday. Mom's name, Dad's name ... favorite color, favorite food... I mean ANYTHING and EVERYTHING!

I dont know how much more we can prepare him! He is only nervous about flying to Barbados.. never flown before! He got his hair done all nice (all the Rastas downtown were envious! LOL) and he shaved.. has a nice outfit!

I had planned to spring clean all weekend but I have already started. I have to make closet space!! :-)

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

MS. P....I need you to do a DISCLAIMER when you type things like this. I've been laughing for 10mins. now and my SIDES are killing me not to mention the tears coming out my eyes. Now, I have to go wash my face ...lord HELP me........girl thanks I needed a good laugh.

[dancehallquana 5]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

DWLL...kikikikikikikikikikiki... ...AMEN Sistren...A-M-E-N!!!!

Good luck, IC.

I read LG's interview story. I hope she works it out.

Ditto Irie...Louis will be just fine! Just keep prepping and testing him!!

Bless,

Gill

Thanks! He know EVERYTHING about me they could possibly ask him. birthday, where I was born, where I live now, when we met. My daughter's birthday. Mom's name, Dad's name ... favorite color, favorite food... I mean ANYTHING and EVERYTHING!

I dont know how much more we can prepare him! He is only nervous about flying to Barbados.. never flown before! He got his hair done all nice (all the Rastas downtown were envious! LOL) and he shaved.. has a nice outfit!

I had planned to spring clean all weekend but I have already started. I have to make closet space!! :-)

He'll do great..Gosh much prayer going his way.. first time flying ON TOP of having his interview!! LOL THATS LOVE BABY

[dancehallquana 5]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

MS. P....I need you to do a DISCLAIMER when you type things like this. I've been laughing for 10mins. now and my SIDES are killing me not to mention the tears coming out my eyes. Now, I have to go wash my face ...lord HELP me........girl thanks I needed a good laugh.

mrs p..yah rob di man of him dream to walk down di beach fa him wedding barefoot w/ footsteps in di sand!! LMAO Ya should have told him to GREASE dem down REAL good for a month and put on cotton socks afterwards.. mi ear dey would have been soft as a baby's feet den gyal..HA

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

MS. P....I need you to do a DISCLAIMER when you type things like this. I've been laughing for 10mins. now and my SIDES are killing me not to mention the tears coming out my eyes. Now, I have to go wash my face ...lord HELP me........girl thanks I needed a good laugh.

Girrllll!! My bad!! But you know if 'dem crusty feet woulda been out...OMG!! And then the damn groomsmen were trying to jump on the bandwagon...I was like 'are yall crazy?'...have you seen your dawgs??!! For real, I only look at my husband's feet cuz the Bible tells me I have to....and you know...can't go against the Lord and all...but man.....oh yeah: DISCLAIMER

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

My husband threatened to do this because he claimed that dress shoes hurt is feet...I told him if he did not wear shoes, he could marry himself, cuz there was NO way he was going to be invited to MY wedding with his big, hard, crusty feet!!

MS. P....I need you to do a DISCLAIMER when you type things like this. I've been laughing for 10mins. now and my SIDES are killing me not to mention the tears coming out my eyes. Now, I have to go wash my face ...lord HELP me........girl thanks I needed a good laugh.

mrs p..yah rob di man of him dream to walk down di beach fa him wedding barefoot w/ footsteps in di sand!! LMAO Ya should have told him to GREASE dem down REAL good for a month and put on cotton socks afterwards.. mi ear dey would have been soft as a baby's feet den gyal..HA

You know what...there ain't grease in the world short of Crisco that could help my baby's feet...God bless 'im...I love him SOOOOO much!! lol

[Marlita 0]

guys....

the USCIS timelines were updated again and Vermont is STILL on July 30,2007 for I-130

They havent moved in three months and before that it was to just go BACKWARD.

Immigration is ruining my life.

I am almost at 7 months at Vermont with no news.

I HATE VERMONT

Aw, Shrewdie. Don't look at those dates, to mean anything. I've been noticing alot more Sept/Oct VSC filers getting approval lately. It seems that they are in that pile of applications now. You'll be hearing something soon, Iknow it. Just realx and get prepared for your trip. I'm so jealous. Wish I was going.

[shrewdgal 0]

I really dont' know what to say, Shrewdie. It hurts me to see you in so much pain. But, whatever comes to mind, just doesnt' seem enough to even say out loud.

Know that even when I dont' say anything, I read what you write and I say a little prayer for you.

thank you.

I just dont know what to do guys. My marriage is really suffering from this. ya know? we just didnt think we would be 7 months into this without ANY light in sight..7 months isnt that long..but we have no hope in it being over anytime soon.

I mean, I dont know about yall..but this long distance stuff is hard... I think marriage is hard enough (first marriage..so not sure..haha) without all this added stuff...right???

Maybe that is more it..that we are having problems and theyjust cant be dealt with properly living like this.

anyway.. I didnt mean to spill out all that on you guys but its so hard to be transparent with people about all this because they dont understand like my yardie family.

Thanks so much for the prayers guys. they mean so much.

I really dont' know what to say, Shrewdie. It hurts me to see you in so much pain. But, whatever comes to mind, just doesnt' seem enough to even say out loud.

Know that even when I dont' say anything, I read what you write and I say a little prayer for you.

SHREWIE;

I feel the same way. I'm always thinking about you.

thank you!

now if we could just get those vermont pple to think about me... hahah

[shrewdgal 0]

guys....

the USCIS timelines were updated again and Vermont is STILL on July 30,2007 for I-130

They havent moved in three months and before that it was to just go BACKWARD.

Immigration is ruining my life.

I am almost at 7 months at Vermont with no news.

I HATE VERMONT

Aw, Shrewdie. Don't look at those dates, to mean anything. I've been noticing alot more Sept/Oct VSC filers getting approval lately. It seems that they are in that pile of applications now. You'll be hearing something soon, Iknow it. Just realx and get prepared for your trip. I'm so jealous. Wish I was going.

Lita...are you not coming down? I thought you and your sis might be working it out?

hey woman...dont be jealous... Im sure youll be down for an INTERVIEW this summer!!! Im praying that for you anyway!

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

I really dont' know what to say, Shrewdie. It hurts me to see you in so much pain. But, whatever comes to mind, just doesnt' seem enough to even say out loud.

Know that even when I dont' say anything, I read what you write and I say a little prayer for you.

thank you.

I just dont know what to do guys. My marriage is really suffering from this. ya know? we just didnt think we would be 7 months into this without ANY light in sight..7 months isnt that long..but we have no hope in it being over anytime soon.

I mean, I dont know about yall..but this long distance stuff is hard... I think marriage is hard enough (first marriage..so not sure..haha) without all this added stuff...right???

Maybe that is more it..that we are having problems and theyjust cant be dealt with properly living like this.

anyway.. I didnt mean to spill out all that on you guys but its so hard to be transparent with people about all this because they dont understand like my yardie family.

Thanks so much for the prayers guys. they mean so much.

I really dont' know what to say, Shrewdie. It hurts me to see you in so much pain. But, whatever comes to mind, just doesnt' seem enough to even say out loud.

Know that even when I dont' say anything, I read what you write and I say a little prayer for you.

SHREWIE;

I feel the same way. I'm always thinking about you.

Shrewdie, I know you've heard it so many times before and I know it seems like you just can't continue to do it anymore, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE hang in there. I know what it's like to wait...my husband and I have been apart for a long time, and won't even file until next year, and I know how difficult the waiting and agonizing can be from firsthand experience...but know this...as long as you two are wholly committed to one another, and commited to sticking through the GOOD AND BAD, then you will get through this...even when your tunnel seems pitch black...let him be your eyes, and you can be the same for him...you all have to SEE yourselves that one day this too shall pass...You can PM me if you ever want/need to vent, talk, whatever...I'm here...Remember why you married him, and what being together means to you two...and go down there and enjoy every minute with your man when your time comes...I know you need it! Love ya mami!

thank you!

now if we could just get those vermont pple to think about me... hahah