Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

[*JG* 2]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

Oh, HELL no!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

Oh, HELL no!

That's what about 20 plus people repeated. My cousin's dad got up and walked off. His brothers had to pull him aside and talked to him. He returned to the room and changed his shoes. He should have know better he's 38 years old. His excuse (he needs to be comfortable it's his day also)...I understand it's your day too, but come on. It was bad enough the tux he was wearing made him look like a damn PIMP...down to his hat with a big GREEN feather sticking out the side of it. It was damn near 100 degrees outside too.

[dancehallquana 5]

HOW FUnny are our men ...

i usually say something like "oh ok" when mi just no feel like thinking about what was said

EXACTLY! See I knew I wasn't crazy, it can't be THAT many meanings when someone says "oh......ok" LOL mi sey, "jus admit it baby, ya naa ear a word mi sey." LOL

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

DWLLLLLLLL At my cousins wedding last year...her husband (JAMAICAN) refused to wear dress shoes with his tux...instead he shows up on the beach with WHITE TIMBERLANDS (UNTIED) with the laces all over the place

Oh, HELL no!

i second that.. just cuz something is white don't make it formal!! LOL.. she coulda wore a white bathing suit then. Oh never mind.. he might have actually been ok w/ that

[dancehallquana 5]

My husband is actually the chattier of the two of us. I must use up all my words on here all day!

That's funny JG!! I am definitely the chattier of the two of us...but somedays when Ken is on a roll...I'm just like...DAMN!!!! Just Shhhh for a second!

Don't even get me started with catching bits and pieces of my words. Ok, example we are working hard to set a wedding date now...we BOTH sat down and came up with 6/8/08 or 6/14/08. Ken said he preferred 6/8/08..."It's a Sunday, bless-ed day... ray-tay-tay!" So the other day he was talking to his Aunt in the Bronx and told her to hold the 14th!!!!!

When I said ..."No, WE decided on th 8th 'Sunday...Blessed day'...yatayatayata...he was like "Oh, but yuh never really confirmed that date so I thought you were sticking with the 14th!"

I had to ask him...'So what were you expecting a wedding invitation to your own wedding!?" :lol:

Then he was talking to his brother on the phone in JA yesterday and was like "Yeah...we a get married pon deh 14th!!!!" Then looked at me and started laughing! "A joke....mi yute ah deh 7th we a git married!"

He was DEAD SERIOUS!!!!

Whatever!! I'll just have to drag his ### to the church on the right day

Gill

WHA!!!! the 7th??? gyal, u should ave lick'em pon him headtop.. MEN i swear.. I love them to death BUT..LOL

RG would do the same thing w/ my arrival dates when I would come see him.. I would be so excited and have the "23rd" marked down in 2 or 3 calendars, be telling everybody, and doing a countdown and EVERYTIME I would talk to him.." ya coming on the 25th right".. "a when ya come?? the 21st?" At first I would lovingly correct him, then I was like "I am starting to take this personal..Do u really want me to come at all???"

I am always telling him I am going to bring him some gingko biloba or whatever the herb is for your memory!!!

[shrewdgal 0]

guys....

the USCIS timelines were updated again and Vermont is STILL on July 30,2007 for I-130

They havent moved in three months and before that it was to just go BACKWARD.

Immigration is ruining my life.

I am almost at 7 months at Vermont with no news.

I HATE VERMONT

[*SunRay* 1]

Mawnin Yardies....

Safe travels to those of you going home (JA) lol

Sorry to hear about your friend Gill. I'll be praying for them..

I'm leaving for Ochi soon. June 2nd

Hopefully, you'll have some good news from the VSC by the time you leave. You're meez looks like she jumped the ship and is down there already...chillin' waiting for your arrival!

Gill

We'll see Gill. I haven't gotten any touches yet, but I'm patient. lol Maybe it's not my time yet.

My meez is chillin. I let her go early and I'll meet her down there on the 2nd. LMAO

[dancehallquana 5]

guys....

the USCIS timelines were updated again and Vermont is STILL on July 30,2007 for I-130

They havent moved in three months and before that it was to just go BACKWARD.

Immigration is ruining my life.

I am almost at 7 months at Vermont with no news.

I HATE VERMONT

I am so sorry babygirl.. try to stay up. one day this will all just be a memory..When u've done all u can do..STAND,

stand firm and wait for your breakthrough. U have all the yardies praying for u and your wonderful husband over there standing too.. God be your strength sweetie..

[Unruly Gal 0]

guys....

the USCIS timelines were updated again and Vermont is STILL on July 30,2007 for I-130

They havent moved in three months and before that it was to just go BACKWARD.

Immigration is ruining my life.

I am almost at 7 months at Vermont with no news.

I HATE VERMONT

SG -- You are definitely in my prayers... stand strong and remember everything works out for God's will.

This too shall pass.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Mawnin Yardies....

Safe travels to those of you going home (JA) lol

Sorry to hear about your friend Gill. I'll be praying for them..

I'm leaving for Ochi soon. June 2nd

Hopefully, you'll have some good news from the VSC by the time you leave. You're meez looks like she jumped the ship and is down there already...chillin' waiting for your arrival!

Gill

We'll see Gill. I haven't gotten any touches yet, but I'm patient. lol Maybe it's not my time yet.

My meez is chillin. I let her go early and I'll meet her down there on the 2nd. LMAO

SUNNY......... did you back yet. Dang June rolled up FAST! I remember when you made your reservations.

[shrewdgal 0]

guys....

the USCIS timelines were updated again and Vermont is STILL on July 30,2007 for I-130

They havent moved in three months and before that it was to just go BACKWARD.

Immigration is ruining my life.

I am almost at 7 months at Vermont with no news.

I HATE VERMONT

I am so sorry babygirl.. try to stay up. one day this will all just be a memory..When u've done all u can do..STAND,

stand firm and wait for your breakthrough. U have all the yardies praying for u and your wonderful husband over there standing too.. God be your strength sweetie..

Thanks..and thanks unruly. That means more than yall know.

[*JG* 2]

I really dont' know what to say, Shrewdie. It hurts me to see you in so much pain. But, whatever comes to mind, just doesnt' seem enough to even say out loud.

Know that even when I dont' say anything, I read what you write and I say a little prayer for you.

[Unruly Gal 0]

guys....

the USCIS timelines were updated again and Vermont is STILL on July 30,2007 for I-130

They havent moved in three months and before that it was to just go BACKWARD.

Immigration is ruining my life.

I am almost at 7 months at Vermont with no news.

I HATE VERMONT

I am so sorry babygirl.. try to stay up. one day this will all just be a memory..When u've done all u can do..STAND,

stand firm and wait for your breakthrough. U have all the yardies praying for u and your wonderful husband over there standing too.. God be your strength sweetie..

Thanks..and thanks unruly. That means more than yall know.

No problem... look forward to spending time with your husband this summer and I bet you everthing will work out before you are even back in the States.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

I really dont' know what to say, Shrewdie. It hurts me to see you in so much pain. But, whatever comes to mind, just doesnt' seem enough to even say out loud.

Know that even when I dont' say anything, I read what you write and I say a little prayer for you.

SHREWIE;

I feel the same way. I'm always thinking about you.

[IrieCat 2]

HELLLLLOOOOOOOOOO Everyone!

I hope everyone is doing great. I haven't been on in so long! I went to St Lucia for 16 days in April/May and when I got back I got so busy doing other things and then couldnt log into VJ for the life of me!

The 16 days were heaven! I love my Louis so much. My daughter and I had a great time. In fact when we were leaving I think my daughter may have made a tear fall from Louis' eyes! She wanted to stay with him so she could take care of him until he could fly to Maine! :-)

Louis flies to Barbados tomorrow, goes for his medical on Friday morning and then INTERVIEW ON TUESDAY!!! I am excited, nervous anxious and everything else. My fellow Lucian lover (Luciansgirl) is going through a tough time right now. Her fiance was not given his visa (not flat out denied but rather confusing) after his interview this past Tuesday.

The CO told her SO there was a lack of proof of relationship...so I have been making sure Louis has as much as possible.

Hundreds of $$ of phone card bills/records

E-mails

pictures

wedding bands and an e-mail from my mom to louis explaining where they came from (her mother and late husband) and how she hopes they will make us as happy as they made her and how she can't wait for a son-in-law. (BTW - she has met Louis)

There is also a letter from a mutual US friend living in SLU explaining how we met and how she introduced us and stayed with her during my last visit.

Letters my daughter and I wrote to Louis/including pictures my daughter drew of all 3 of us **Very cute*** LOL

I also included a letter as to why I am not with him. I had planned the trip down in April thinking it would be 1/2 way through the process and he got interview date while I was there. Also it was during daughter's spring break and don't want to pull her out of school while testing for the next grade level.... etc. I think it is a pretty good explaination.

Of course Louis has a binder with all the paperwork, forms etc.

I am just concerned about this relationship proof. I guess I do have the fact I was initially in St Lucia for 6 months.

Anyhow - sorry about the long story - the short story is I need all the prayers, luck and blessings I can get!

Thanks EVERYONE!!!!!

IRIE

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