Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[brownnskinn 0]

JG --

And, like I always say, if it happens to me, I have the right to say any damn thing I want about it.

Ain't that the TRUTH! Some people DO NOT UNDERSTAND UNTIL THEY'RE PLACED IN THE SITUATION.

I understand that. If it weren't happening to me, I would have a hard time believing it myself. Sometimes the words said are so surreal you think it must be some movie script.

Tre.....it's difficult. There are days I thought I would blow my freakin' head off from trying not to yell at someone. But, if you love Marcel.....and I know you do.....you will both figure out a way to make it all work for you. I always feel if there is really a need......and I do mean REALLY cause I have heard some stories......then, we will do what we can. I will never feel bad for how little it might be because we are giving from the heart and it is more then they would've had if we didn't give it. Once you reconcile it all in your own heads, it's easier to known when there is need and when you are being played and it's a lot easier to just say no.

Well said JG --

Marcel and we talked about it and how we're going to deal with it should it come up. His people, so far, are okay and I told him to talk to them before he leaves. Things are going to get very expensive and expensive really FAST!

I know his mom is going to need extensive care and physical therapy and that's going to cost and that's his main concern. He just wants to get here and start working, but I told him it's not going to happen right away. I even tried to talk him into staying a little longer since you have 6 months to travel after you get the visa and he said NO...he wants to be here with me, so the B#*CH of an AUNT he has his staring more problems. Because he refused to talk to his aunt, she's telling his family that I'm putting space between him and them and I'm like HELL YEAH...3000 miles! Girl, all I can say is I have my hands full. Do I want to throw my hands up in the air, sometimes, but I'm not giving up that easy.

My heart goes out to you. esp, cause when he gets here if he's like my hubby, He won't stop working! He has so many dreams, so many people need help. He's going to kill himself trying to help everyone. I keep telling him it's okay to say no when they ask you to come in.

I think I may love you, Sus. Beautifully said!

agreed.

[brownnskinn 0]

right now, here is my concern about j.a. building a house. I would at some point like me and mr jengs to build a house so we can retire but. I'm also concerned about my stuff being there when we return. Any thoughts on this. How do u guys handle this?

I agreed. Hubby suggested we hire someone to live in the house. A keeper so to speak?

[brownnskinn 0]

right now, here is my concern about j.a. building a house. I would at some point like me and mr jengs to build a house so we can retire but. I'm also concerned about my stuff being there when we return. Any thoughts on this. How do u guys handle this?

Hey JENGS; That was my parents concerns back in 1982. Let me give you the short version. My dad's house was suppose to be 2 levels with a wrap round varenda on each level. Because my dad was not there they stole a lot of his materials. It took another 4 years to get back what was stolen from him. My dad's advice to anyone who is trying to build there now, if you can be there at least for the 1st stages, BE THERE! For the last 15 years the dad is making constant repairs. We're now adding another level and my dad had to reinforce all the walls on the lower level, because it was not done properly the first time around.

Jengs -- if you can have someone look after your house (someone you trust) that will open the house up to get AIR every now and then, that would be great. With my dad's house we had one part of the house rented out and the other party we stayed in while we're there on vacation. That's always worked for us. CAUTION: Be careful who you rent to, if you choose to do that after you build or have a family member stay in the house.

Everyone I know who has done this sort of thing, had someone they knew and trusted living there while they couldn't be. That can bring it's own set of problems, even from family members; but is much safer then letting it sit empty.

Agreed. I could see using family, causing lots of problems.

[brownnskinn 0]

Hey Den...leave mi alone...

*disclaimer*

I AM PREGNANT AND I WANT IT TO BE OVER

lAWNY...u gwaan..mi a watch yuh..chu mi nah seh nuttin...

Awwh feel better. Are you showing?

I want to be preggers soon. There's this nurse at work, she looks about 35 years old. She's preggers. Looks great. Has not gained a pound (other than baby weight), she's all belly. Why can't this happen to me? Why I have to blow up all over the place, so not fair.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

Thank God. Well, wah u expect you eating for 3...opps my bad mi mean 2.

[Jengles 0]

Hey Den...leave mi alone...

*disclaimer*

I AM PREGNANT AND I WANT IT TO BE OVER

lAWNY...u gwaan..mi a watch yuh..chu mi nah seh nuttin...

Awwh feel better. Are you showing?

I want to be preggers soon. There's this nurse at work, she looks about 35 years old. She's preggers. Looks great. Has not gained a pound (other than baby weight), she's all belly. Why can't this happen to me? Why I have to blow up all over the place, so not fair.

Are u practicing??

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

Thank God. Well, wah u expect you eating for 3...opps my bad mi mean 2.

keep it up, u soon post how many u ah eat for soon

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Hey Den...leave mi alone...

*disclaimer*

I AM PREGNANT AND I WANT IT TO BE OVER

lAWNY...u gwaan..mi a watch yuh..chu mi nah seh nuttin...

Awwh feel better. Are you showing?

I want to be preggers soon. There's this nurse at work, she looks about 35 years old. She's preggers. Looks great. Has not gained a pound (other than baby weight), she's all belly. Why can't this happen to me? Why I have to blow up all over the place, so not fair.

Are u practicing??

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

Thank God. Well, wah u expect you eating for 3...opps my bad mi mean 2.

keep it up, u soon post how many u ah eat for soon

Mi know...mek mi shut mi mout fram now.......

[brownnskinn 0]

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

I'm sure it will. A few weeks back hubby said he dreamed about fish three nights in a row, He's like you know what that means? I said no. Then made the comment, "I'm the only one around here waisting time, getting his wife pregnant." ( his bestfriend's wife is pregnant with twins) I'm like are you really ready to have a baby now? His reply was no, not now, but sometime early???OK. Now what does that mean? All I heard was the no part.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

hahaha..Lawny galang..Jengs good looks

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

I'm sure it will. A few weeks back hubby said he dreamed about fish three nights in a row, He's like you know what that means? I said no. Then made the comment, "I'm the only one around here waisting time, getting his wife pregnant." ( his bestfriend's wife is pregnant with twins) I'm like are you really ready to have a baby now? His reply was no, not now, but sometime early???OK. Now what does that mean? All I heard was the no part.

they r never ready brownie...just jump pon it and ride..that's all

[brownnskinn 0]

Are u practicing??

Disclaimer....soon= 1/2 year to 1 year away.....Yes, of course I practice.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

hahaha..Lawny galang..Jengs good looks

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

I'm sure it will. A few weeks back hubby said he dreamed about fish three nights in a row, He's like you know what that means? I said no. Then made the comment, "I'm the only one around here waisting time, getting his wife pregnant." ( his bestfriend's wife is pregnant with twins) I'm like are you really ready to have a baby now? His reply was no, not now, but sometime early???OK. Now what does that mean? All I heard was the no part.

they r never ready brownie...just jump pon it and ride..that's all

[Shemmy 4]

hahaha..Lawny galang..Jengs good looks

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

I'm sure it will. A few weeks back hubby said he dreamed about fish three nights in a row, He's like you know what that means? I said no. Then made the comment, "I'm the only one around here waisting time, getting his wife pregnant." ( his bestfriend's wife is pregnant with twins) I'm like are you really ready to have a baby now? His reply was no, not now, but sometime early???OK. Now what does that mean? All I heard was the no part.

they r never ready brownie...just jump pon it and ride..that's all

...going back to my hole.

[Shemmy 4]

Are u practicing??

Disclaimer....soon= 1/2 year to 1 year away.....Yes, of course I practice.

We'll be preggers together

[brownnskinn 0]

hahaha..Lawny galang..Jengs good looks

Brownie..it soon happen..soon..yes I am showing....gaining weight

thanks

I'm sure it will. A few weeks back hubby said he dreamed about fish three nights in a row, He's like you know what that means? I said no. Then made the comment, "I'm the only one around here waisting time, getting his wife pregnant." ( his bestfriend's wife is pregnant with twins) I'm like are you really ready to have a baby now? His reply was no, not now, but sometime early???OK. Now what does that mean? All I heard was the no part.

they r never ready brownie...just jump pon it and ride..that's all

Sometimes I wonder if he thinks all this riddin will actually cause some sperm to get past my IUD? He must understand that he will have to actually tell me to take the thing out. I am willing. As much as I know it will be great to have this child fathered by someone -finally responsible. I am scared to have a child this late in life.

Are u practicing??

Disclaimer....soon= 1/2 year to 1 year away.....Yes, of course I practice.

We'll be preggers together

U practicing?