Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[clairern 0]

I called the Dept. Of State (202#) and they told me that a visa has not been issued yet and that our case is still being reviewed by the embassy and they are checking out all the information on our documents to see if they check out. Is this normal procedure? I was hoping Marla would get the visa by Thurs. so she could fly over on Fri.

It has been 12 days since interview.

Jason, I am sorry to hear that Marla's visa has not been issued yet. This happened recently to Ms. Chen whose hubby had his interview on 3/25 and still does not have his visa. When she emailed the embassy, they told her he was in AP and his visa should be issued within the week. Try to email the consulate and ask them why the visa has not been issued yet. They usually respond promptly. I emailed them today and they responded within 2 hours.

Good luck!!

[Tonya 0]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

[wakeywakeup 1]

Hello Ladies,

I hope everyone is well. It has been a while. I wanted to share that I just found out that I129 file has been approved finally. I am so excited.

Health and Wellness to all!!!

Congratulations!!!

[wakeywakeup 1]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

Lawny,

That is so funny. It seem like we have similar stories with the relatives. When I was visiting Dwayne his grandma asked me why I couldn't find a man out of all the 1600 in America. She also kept laughing say, Lawd God oonu big ooman. I'm smaller than her but she kept insisting I was bigger than her and laughing. She said and did quite a few other things but mostly calling me fat every second of every day. Had me checking the mirror to see if I'd gained so much weight I was delusional. Me laugh cause she old and set in her ways.

Wakey

[*JG* 2]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

Don't pay that old bitter woman and mind. She's just jealous cause you are so beautiful inside and out!!!!

Andre didn't tell anyone he worked with for a long time and then just his friends at the end. Until he had the visa in hand, he kept it under wraps because, as you said, people are jealous and can be so hateful.

[Forever Young 1]

Hello Ladies,

I hope everyone is well. It has been a while. I wanted to share that I just found out that I129 file has been approved finally. I am so excited.

Health and Wellness to all!!!

CONGRATS TYPES!!!!! THAT'S GREAT NEWS!!!!!! You're on your way now!

Bless-ed,

Gill

Edited May 7, 2008 by Deyoungting

[*JG* 2]

Has anyone seen this?

http://blog.oregonlive.com/breakingnews/20...rtsmanship.html

So much hate in the world. It is refreshing to see kindness.

[Tonya 0]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

Lawney,

Girl....you are so funny......when we were in Negril.....A lady at the beach park........she was very nice built....a nice shape for an older woman......Drew ordered my lunch.....and he ordered me pork.....and made the comment that I really liked pork......She looked at me......with a very pleasant attitude.....and says to me and Drew......thats why pudgy........I know Drew was about to die.....Not knowing if I was gonna lose it on this woman or what........

Tonya

[Forever Young 1]

Mawning Family,

I hope everyone had a good night!

Clariey...PLEASE THANK N.C. FOR ME FOR OUR HUGE VICTORY THERE LAST NIGHT!!!!!

:dance: Wooo-Hooo!!!

OBAMA-2008

Have a Bless-ed day,

Gill

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

Lawney,

Girl....you are so funny......when we were in Negril.....A lady at the beach park........she was very nice built....a nice shape for an older woman......Drew ordered my lunch.....and he ordered me pork.....and made the comment that I really liked pork......She looked at me......with a very pleasant attitude.....and says to me and Drew......thats why pudgy........I know Drew was about to die.....Not knowing if I was gonna lose it on this woman or what........

Tonya

Wakey -- Tonya, I been hearing lawddddd what a way u nice and FAT! or what a piece a BAXIDE...u ago mad di man dem. I never bothered me. It's the culture. Some of my friends think I'm INSANE, because I'll walk around NAKED at a beach. LOVE HEDONISM.... and there's another all adult resort in Ocho (can't remember the name). All I can say is LORD ave merci! I'll put on my 2 piece and say the hell with everyone else. To me, my body is perfeccccctttt, matter a fact it's the bomb! I want to get back to a size 16 though, because I was comfortable and found clothes that I liked easily. I'm in a 20 now. I want to also get back down to maybe 180. I can't be smaller than that I do't look right. I'm pushing 225lbs now. I was almost 300lbs when my son's father was stressing me. I remember when I was pregnant with my son, the first thing my doctor said was "YOU SHOULD HAVE CONSIDERED LOSING WEIGHT BEFORE YOU GOT PREGNANT, NOW YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND END UP WITH GESTATIONAL DIABETIES"...I ran out of his office crying, but not before CUSSING him out.

[Tonya 0]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

Lawney,

Girl....you are so funny......when we were in Negril.....A lady at the beach park........she was very nice built....a nice shape for an older woman......Drew ordered my lunch.....and he ordered me pork.....and made the comment that I really liked pork......She looked at me......with a very pleasant attitude.....and says to me and Drew......thats why pudgy........I know Drew was about to die.....Not knowing if I was gonna lose it on this woman or what........

Tonya

Wakey -- Tonya, I been hearing lawddddd what a way u nice and FAT! or what a piece a BAXIDE...u ago mad di man dem. I never bothered me. It's the culture. Some of my friends think I'm INSANE, because I'll walk around NAKED at a beach. LOVE HEDONISM.... and there's another all adult resort in Ocho (can't remember the name). All I can say is LORD ave merci! I'll put on my 2 piece and say the hell with everyone else. To me, my body is perfeccccctttt, matter a fact it's the bomb! I want to get back to a size 16 though, because I was comfortable and found clothes that I liked easily. I'm in a 20 now. I want to also get back down to maybe 180. I can't be smaller than that I do't look right. I'm pushing 225lbs now. I was almost 300lbs when my son's father was stressing me. I remember when I was pregnant with my son, the first thing my doctor said was "YOU SHOULD HAVE CONSIDERED LOSING WEIGHT BEFORE YOU GOT PREGNANT, NOW YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND END UP WITH GESTATIONAL DIABETIES"...I ran out of his office crying, but not before CUSSING him out.

Lawney...

You are such an inspiration......It sounds like you and I have some likeness.......I am almost 6ft tall......can wear anywhere between 18-20.......I am around the 200 mark......but would like to be around 160.......anyway.....I am who I am........PUDGY!!!!

[wakeywakeup 1]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

Lawney,

Girl....you are so funny......when we were in Negril.....A lady at the beach park........she was very nice built....a nice shape for an older woman......Drew ordered my lunch.....and he ordered me pork.....and made the comment that I really liked pork......She looked at me......with a very pleasant attitude.....and says to me and Drew......thats why pudgy........I know Drew was about to die.....Not knowing if I was gonna lose it on this woman or what........

Tonya

Wakey -- Tonya, I been hearing lawddddd what a way u nice and FAT! or what a piece a BAXIDE...u ago mad di man dem. I never bothered me. It's the culture. Some of my friends think I'm INSANE, because I'll walk around NAKED at a beach. LOVE HEDONISM.... and there's another all adult resort in Ocho (can't remember the name). All I can say is LORD ave merci! I'll put on my 2 piece and say the hell with everyone else. To me, my body is perfeccccctttt, matter a fact it's the bomb! I want to get back to a size 16 though, because I was comfortable and found clothes that I liked easily. I'm in a 20 now. I want to also get back down to maybe 180. I can't be smaller than that I do't look right. I'm pushing 225lbs now. I was almost 300lbs when my son's father was stressing me. I remember when I was pregnant with my son, the first thing my doctor said was "YOU SHOULD HAVE CONSIDERED LOSING WEIGHT BEFORE YOU GOT PREGNANT, NOW YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND END UP WITH GESTATIONAL DIABETIES"...I ran out of his office crying, but not before CUSSING him out.

I know what you mean. When I first heard "Strong body gal" I was like what in the world do I look like a line backer. Now I know that just their way. The smiles on their faces let me know it's a compliment.

As far as nude bathing. I'm a 16 and can't even imagine showing all this to the world. You are brave. I'm going to try it one day!!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

GILL --

Lef Ken alone. I too have an early morning man. When I was in Jamaica last month I was like where are you going. He's says, I'm going to make breakfast. It was 5:30am...mi just drag im back inna di bed...bout u a wake mi up earli mawnin.

Gurl,

Mi seh mi a ear em a knock round inna deh room hearly dis mawning...Mi haffi hask "Babes, is wah yuh a duh?" Em seh..."Ow yuh mean...mi a guh tuh wuk now yuh knoa...mi haffi git ready!"

Bless-ed,

Gill

Now, that's a good man. Be blessed. Girl, I'm hoping Marcel will get packet 4 soon and will not need to take off work to go to Kingston again. I met his boss last time and he was all in my face wid im TINKIN mout. Keep asking Marcel a wah im do fi get mi and dem way deh! So, since Marcel don't ansah im...he showing Marcel different face. I told him to get some letters of recommendation and then walk. The other co-workers telling the boss that he soon left cause he had to go to Kingston last month. I told him not to tell anyone what he was doing. You know how people can be badmind.

Lawney,

That is the same thing Drew said about people.....He did not want this one boss of his knowing his plans......He said sometimes people do bad things to prevent others from getting what the Good Lord has in store for them.....

Tonya

Tonya,

Good morning -- as much as I hate to admit it, it is very true. That's why I told him don't tell anyone. His friends don't ask because they think we're married and since I'm Jamaican they assume I'm moving back home soon. His immediate family don't really know everything 100% yet. His older brother knows, but I choose to leave everyone else out. Although his family is nice, some of them I don't get good vibes from. Especially his aunt from queens, who is still bad mouthing me and has since move to Maryland. She will never know where I live. I forgot to tell ya'll when I was in Jamaica last month she asked me if I was pregnant in front of about 30 people...then replied, oh, it's just the heavy weight She doesn't like me because she feels that I'm too old for her nephew. Always saying, look how much young women in Jamaica, why u go pick up di old ooman wid pickney. I've cussed her out before and if she comes that way to me again, ya'll may see me on the 6 o'clock news

Lawney,

Girl....you are so funny......when we were in Negril.....A lady at the beach park........she was very nice built....a nice shape for an older woman......Drew ordered my lunch.....and he ordered me pork.....and made the comment that I really liked pork......She looked at me......with a very pleasant attitude.....and says to me and Drew......thats why pudgy........I know Drew was about to die.....Not knowing if I was gonna lose it on this woman or what........

Tonya

Wakey -- Tonya, I been hearing lawddddd what a way u nice and FAT! or what a piece a BAXIDE...u ago mad di man dem. I never bothered me. It's the culture. Some of my friends think I'm INSANE, because I'll walk around NAKED at a beach. LOVE HEDONISM.... and there's another all adult resort in Ocho (can't remember the name). All I can say is LORD ave merci! I'll put on my 2 piece and say the hell with everyone else. To me, my body is perfeccccctttt, matter a fact it's the bomb! I want to get back to a size 16 though, because I was comfortable and found clothes that I liked easily. I'm in a 20 now. I want to also get back down to maybe 180. I can't be smaller than that I do't look right. I'm pushing 225lbs now. I was almost 300lbs when my son's father was stressing me. I remember when I was pregnant with my son, the first thing my doctor said was "YOU SHOULD HAVE CONSIDERED LOSING WEIGHT BEFORE YOU GOT PREGNANT, NOW YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND END UP WITH GESTATIONAL DIABETIES"...I ran out of his office crying, but not before CUSSING him out.

Lawney...

You are such an inspiration......It sounds like you and I have some likeness.......I am almost 6ft tall......can wear anywhere between 18-20.......I am around the 200 mark......but would like to be around 160.......anyway.....I am who I am........PUDGY!!!!

DWL I hear you.

[Islandwoman 0]

I remember there was some chat about this "the other day", but I can't remember the outcome. If you are permanent resident with a social security number but not a U.S. Citizen, do you get a stimulus check?

Yes!

Thanks!! Just so the permanent residents are on the look out - my brother's wife is filipino and a permanent resident. They have held their stimulus refund to review his file because she is not a US citizen. I told him that was pure bullstuff and he had better be getting on the phone!!!