Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

....u need fi find a way LEGALLY fi deal wid ur EX..that is soooo not nice what he's doing..he thinks he's hurting you but him a hurt the poor baby..dyam fool..

Mi figet fi address dat pawt.....

My son's dad did the SAME thing, told my son that I wasn't coming back. My son was three at the time, was the first time I'd left him, actually I had left my son with my ex's MOTHER, not him. I was soooooo hurt and angry I just started crying, his mother FLIPPED on him......It is designed to hurt you, these men suh darn chupid dem nuh si a dem PICKNEY it a hurt!!

But hear wah, God willing, this is one of the LAST times you'll ever have to leave him wid him puppa....

[Amaya's Mommy 0]

Congrats Nanny on the birth of your child, that's wonderful news!

Lawny,

Thanks for your beautiful prayer this morning and congrats on your interview dates! Even though you are going through some things right now and you had a bad experience at the embassy, things are looking up for you!

[sus 70]

LOL, Costs are really really outdated! Try around $60,000 -

How come my raises are never parallel to inflation??????????????????????

That's what I want to know! And I work in the legal field - I see our fees going up, but it's definitely not showing in my raise!

We are dealing with the divorce issue now - DJ was married before, and long story short, even though they have been split for years and his ex served him with papers, she never filed them. So, it's $5000 for an attorney to sit down and hear your story, and another $60,000 to complete the divorce - Plus, the "fees being paid over time" doesn't seem to exist. It's money upfront.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Okay. I got my interview date and guess what. I asked for it (even the time). June 24th 1:30 pm. I told you that lady I spoke to outside the embassy was so very nice. She told me to ask for an afternoon appointment and I got it. Since we'll be driving from Trelawny. Now, mi need smadi fi help mi find a ticket. I'm so stress right now mi can't concentrate on nothing. So, if anyone wants to help me of have some free time -- BWI to MBJ 6/20-6/27

http://www.ytbtravel.com/hopeful

I found a flight for those dates on Delta for 387.00 including taxes. This price is only on this site, if you go to Delta it is higher. I am a travel ageant, so I did some searches for you.

Hope this is helpful.

[Amaya's Mommy 0]

Okay. I got my interview date and guess what. I asked for it (even the time). June 24th 1:30 pm. I told you that lady I spoke to outside the embassy was so very nice. She told me to ask for an afternoon appointment and I got it. Since we'll be driving from Trelawny. Now, mi need smadi fi help mi find a ticket. I'm so stress right now mi can't concentrate on nothing. So, if anyone wants to help me of have some free time -- BWI to MBJ 6/20-6/27

http://www.ytbtravel.com/hopeful

I found a flight for those dates on Delta for 387.00 including taxes. This price is only on this site, if you go to Delta it is higher. I am a travel ageant, so I did some searches for you.

Hope this is helpful.

Roxcie or anyone else really,

do you think I should just book my ticket now for early June even though the prices are incredibly high or take my chances later for some last minute fares? I'm worried if I book now at $500+ from nyc that in a few weeks there will be a sale or something and prices will go down.

[Islandwoman 0]

Sorry to hear all your problems, Lawny - praying for your family! Delta has those dates for $384 - connecting flight, though

Sus you should be a travel agent in your next life!! You can find a deal!!

[sus 70]

Sorry to hear all your problems, Lawny - praying for your family! Delta has those dates for $384 - connecting flight, though

Sus you should be a travel agent in your next life!! You can find a deal!!

LOL, Island - I am the ultimate bargain hunter!

Mommy - My attitude towards airfare is this - If I find a price that I think sounds reasonable and is within my budget, I book - and then try to not stress if the prices drop lower. Because if you don't book, you also run the risk that they will go higher - Sometimes I get the best deal, sometimes I find cheaper - but I can't let that stress me out.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Okay. I got my interview date and guess what. I asked for it (even the time). June 24th 1:30 pm. I told you that lady I spoke to outside the embassy was so very nice. She told me to ask for an afternoon appointment and I got it. Since we'll be driving from Trelawny. Now, mi need smadi fi help mi find a ticket. I'm so stress right now mi can't concentrate on nothing. So, if anyone wants to help me of have some free time -- BWI to MBJ 6/20-6/27

http://www.ytbtravel.com/hopeful

I found a flight for those dates on Delta for 387.00 including taxes. This price is only on this site, if you go to Delta it is higher. I am a travel ageant, so I did some searches for you.

Hope this is helpful.

Roxcie or anyone else really,

do you think I should just book my ticket now for early June even though the prices are incredibly high or take my chances later for some last minute fares? I'm worried if I book now at $500+ from nyc that in a few weeks there will be a sale or something and prices will go down.

Remember your dates are in the mist of summer vacations, therefore the prices are not going to be going dowm much, unless you get one of Spirit Airline specials. Note with the megers of Airlines, we all can expect to pay more not less in the future.

[*JG* 2]

That is what I was going to say.........June is a pretty popular month in JA. I would book now.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

wait ...am i reading correctly...$60,000 for a divorce ???? now mi know why ppl separate and never divorce OMG !!

[*JG* 2]

LOL, Costs are really really outdated! Try around $60,000 -

How come my raises are never parallel to inflation??????????????????????

That's what I want to know! And I work in the legal field - I see our fees going up, but it's definitely not showing in my raise!

We are dealing with the divorce issue now - DJ was married before, and long story short, even though they have been split for years and his ex served him with papers, she never filed them. So, it's $5000 for an attorney to sit down and hear your story, and another $60,000 to complete the divorce - Plus, the "fees being paid over time" doesn't seem to exist. It's money upfront.

Oh, Sus, I'm so sorry. Like you need those issues in the middle of all the visa related ones. I hope it all works out very quickly and easily for you.

wait ...am i reading correctly...$60,000 for a divorce ???? now mi know why ppl separate and never divorce OMG !!

We are talking JA conversion, right? Even so, it's still so darn much.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

sus..i hope u get a discount or something..my gosh that's a lot

[sus 70]

Thanks, Jomo - it's filed, it's just a matter of waiting till it's final - That's been our entire hold up with moving forward, whether getting married or doing the K1 -

[SupportOAFJF 0]

OOOO!! this is in JA.... that's a relief..just gotta keep these things as side notes..u never know

[sus 70]

sus..i hope u get a discount or something..my gosh that's a lot

I am talking $60,000 JA, not US - Unfortunately, I work in commercial litigation, and not JA family law so no discount! But, I spent lots of time researching the issue before DJ went to a lawyer and filed - that seems to be the going rate in most of JA, even for a straight up divorce, no kids, no property,....