Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[Marlita 0]

that is bullsh!t, on the real, i'm just shaking my head, she could have done better than that. but i can do u one better, my sister baby father is mr jengles twin. and mi done.

What the? I had to think about this for a minute. yall keep it in the family huh? rahtid!!

[Forever Young 1]

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

All now mi a wait fi answer on what to do, mi nuh get it yet!!!

anyway, you haven't told your family about Ken yet?? are they invited to the wedding??

Jengy,

I told my 'supportive' family members and my father. Aunts, Uncles...everyone one else jus a guh haffi find thorugh my family's gossip network! They will all talk ish amongst each other...but not to my face! I tried to tell the 'head' of deh gossip tree last night( so she could kick hoff deh new 'NEWS')...but as soon as she hear seh mi a guh Kingston...she start wan bag ah fussin'! Mi neva even git round fi tell har WHY mi a guh Kingston!

It's exhausting...I told 2 more family members this week...both of them immediately said the sane thing..."Yuh sure hit not Green cyard em a look!" On one hand I know I have matured alot ...cause deh old Gill wouldda cuss dem han keep moving. I see it as them looking out for me...which is sweet! But I'm a grown-a$$ ooman...Good or bad is my decision fi mek!

Yup their all coming to the wedding! It'll be VERY INTERESTING!!

Bless,

Gill

Gill, mi olda sista is the gossip network fi mi fambly. I hate it!! She was the one who told my dad of my engagement before I could do it. And she was the one who spread all this negative thinking and energy about him while I was planning my wedding. Thus making half my family not even support my engagement and not plan to go to my wedding. And don't get me started at how she went on at the wedding. Mi swear!!! Mi wan fi box her right then and there inna mi wedding dress!

that was jealousy, she married???

dyam come in like , mi a write to meself

yeah it was some serious jealousy. She not married but "supposedly" engaged and then not engaged...who knows. But get this.....she was supposed to get my dad from his hotel day of wedding. Why was i already like 1.5hrs late for my wedding cause people left me at the hotel by myself. Then when i finally get there, my dad is MIA. I'm pissed, cause I think he's not trying to walk me down the aisle or something. So I say I'll walk mi own rass self. Den dem seh no no, yuh cyaan do dat. So a brother frum mi husband church walk me. My dad....never been to JA, had to hail his own taxi and got to the site while I was at the alter.....all cause my sister didn't go get him. WOOOIIIEEEE!!!! Mi on fiyah!!!!! So then she get mad all day at the wedding cause people start fi chat so how she nah want mi dadfi walk mi (the younger sister) down the aisle before im walk har.......lawd god, if I didn't have Evan there, and just the spirit to enjoy being withhim and getting married that day i swear yuh would heard ol head of dutty wud cum out mi mout!

Lawd G-wd ( ) Lita,

That sound like a Toya han Fitz(ish) wedding! Baby Gurl, I learned a LANNNNNNNG time ago...hit's not deh wedding...it's deh marriage!

Bless,Gill

[Jengles 0]

?????

has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.

for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??

After rethinking the question, I'v not lost friends over it; but I have had words with people who don't even know me or Andre making comments as to our relationship. People who barely know me yet think they can judge. Ridiculously silly comments.

I guess they have nothing better to do.

I gotta say, today turned into a happy day. LD phone bill came......$7.81. I nearly cried when I saw it.

I am happy about your long distance bill, right now ringyard is my bestfriend. i had a few comments, but I would hope my friends could trust my judgement

[brownnskinn 0]

Someone muss have a question or dilemma?!? Yuh cousin brodda mother auntie nah have no problems? Mi knoa sey smaddy have sumting dem a wonda about and dem juss afraid fi ask. Come out wid it! Mek we chat sumting else fi deh ress of deh day

Alrite mi have a question? WHAT KEEP YAH COMING BACK TO JV? Mainly this tread? Sometime I wonder why I check dis here site so often. Do you actually value the opinions of those on the bord. Do you think people who post here are really genuine,How much of whats posted here matters? It's obviously not just for immigration info. Just wondering what your thoughts are.

[Jengles 0]

that is bullsh!t, on the real, i'm just shaking my head, she could have done better than that. but i can do u one better, my sister baby father is mr jengles twin. and mi done.

What the? I had to think about this for a minute. yall keep it in the family huh? rahtid!!

or something like dat!!! but mi not going to dwell on this, but it very much relates to your post.

Someone muss have a question or dilemma?!? Yuh cousin brodda mother auntie nah have no problems? Mi knoa sey smaddy have sumting dem a wonda about and dem juss afraid fi ask. Come out wid it! Mek we chat sumting else fi deh ress of deh day

Alrite mi have a question? WHAT KEEP YAH COMING BACK TO JV? Mainly this tread? Sometime I wonder why I check dis here site so often. Do you actually value the opinions of those on the bord. Do you think people who post here are really genuine,How much of whats posted here matters? It's obviously not just for immigration info. Just wondering what your thoughts are.

Is where JV deh???

[brownnskinn 0]

right??? mek mi go home and e-mail yah a picture, but people say we look like brother and sister, me nuh see it but is what dem seh

Good, cause I want to see it.

that is bullsh!t, on the real, i'm just shaking my head, she could have done better than that. but i can do u one better, my sister baby father is mr jengles twin. and mi done.

What the? I had to think about this for a minute. yall keep it in the family huh? rahtid!!

or something like dat!!! but mi not going to dwell on this, but it very much relates to your post.

Someone muss have a question or dilemma?!? Yuh cousin brodda mother auntie nah have no problems? Mi knoa sey smaddy have sumting dem a wonda about and dem juss afraid fi ask. Come out wid it! Mek we chat sumting else fi deh ress of deh day

Alrite mi have a question? WHAT KEEP YAH COMING BACK TO JV? Mainly this tread? Sometime I wonder why I check dis here site so often. Do you actually value the opinions of those on the bord. Do you think people who post here are really genuine,How much of whats posted here matters? It's obviously not just for immigration info. Just wondering what your thoughts are.

Is where JV deh???

My bad, VJ...mi type too fas.

[Forever Young 1]

quote name='Marlita' post='1639642' date='Mar 6 2008, 03:12 PM']

YES

Gill, mi olda sista is the gossip network fi mi fambly. I hate it!! She was the one who told my dad of my engagement before I could do it. And she was the one who spread all this negative thinking and energy about him while I was planning my wedding. Thus making half my family not even support my engagement and not plan to go to my wedding. And don't get me started at how she went on at the wedding. Mi swear!!! Mi wan fi box her right then and there inna mi wedding dress!

that was jealousy, she married???

dyam come in like , mi a write to meself

Mi God sister actually said..."It's not fair you've had TWO marriages and I haven;t even had one!" "Well, I hope it's not just a green cyard em looking...cause den yuh a guh be han0-2!!!!" Now I ask yuh is WAT kindda shyt DAT!!!!

Mi jus laugh han tell har..."Bwoy, is NOW mi understand WHY mi ave two marriage han yuh ave NONE!!! Mi woulddna waan fi married yuh eiddah!" Now mine you this was all said in a shrewd laughing type manner...BUT SHE GOT MY POINT AND MOVED DEH HELL ON!!!! ...Don't ramp wid mi wid such foolishness!

Gill

Edited March 6, 2008 by Deyoungting

[brownnskinn 0]

that is bullsh!t, on the real, i'm just shaking my head, she could have done better than that. but i can do u one better, my sister baby father is mr jengles twin. and mi done.

What the? I had to think about this for a minute. yall keep it in the family huh? rahtid!!

Boy sound like my sister.

Edited March 6, 2008 by brownnskinn

[clairern 0]

GOOD MORNING MY BEAUTIFUL SISTAHS....how are ya'll. Bway mi ago mad...weh mi NOTICE deh!...ow dem decide who fi process fuss...bway..cho man

Hang on me dear. Mi dida feel the same way couple weeks ago and when mi least expect it, de case complete. Yuh knoa we deh ya fe yuh put yuh head pon we shoulda. We luv yuh and yuh can bawl pon we shoulda anytime

[SupportOAFJF 0]

quote name='Marlita' post='1639642' date='Mar 6 2008, 03:12 PM']

YES

Gill, mi olda sista is the gossip network fi mi fambly. I hate it!! She was the one who told my dad of my engagement before I could do it. And she was the one who spread all this negative thinking and energy about him while I was planning my wedding. Thus making half my family not even support my engagement and not plan to go to my wedding. And don't get me started at how she went on at the wedding. Mi swear!!! Mi wan fi box her right then and there inna mi wedding dress!

that was jealousy, she married???

dyam come in like , mi a write to meself

Mi God sister actually said..."It's not fair you've had TWO marriages and I haven;t even had one!" "Well, I hope it's not just a green cyard em looking...cause den yuh a guh be han0-2!!!!" Now I ask yuh is WAT kindda shyt DAT!!!!

Mi jus laugh han tell har..."Bwoy, is NOW mi understand WHY mi ave two marriage han yuh ave NONE!!! Mi woulddna waan fi married yuh eiddah!" Now mine you this was all said in a shrewd laughing type manner...BUT SHE GOT MY POINT AND MOVED DEH HELL ON!!!! ...Don't ramp wid mi wid such foolishness!

Gill

brite !

[brownnskinn 0]

quote name='Marlita' post='1639642' date='Mar 6 2008, 03:12 PM']

YES

Gill, mi olda sista is the gossip network fi mi fambly. I hate it!! She was the one who told my dad of my engagement before I could do it. And she was the one who spread all this negative thinking and energy about him while I was planning my wedding. Thus making half my family not even support my engagement and not plan to go to my wedding. And don't get me started at how she went on at the wedding. Mi swear!!! Mi wan fi box her right then and there inna mi wedding dress!

that was jealousy, she married???

dyam come in like , mi a write to meself

Mi God sister actually said..."It's not fair you've had TWO marriages and I haven;t even had one!" "Well, I hope it's not just a green cyard em looking...cause den yuh a guh be han0-2!!!!" Now I ask yuh is WAT kindda shyt DAT!!!!

Mi jus laugh han tell har..."Bwoy, is NOW mi understand WHY mi ave two marriage han yuh ave NONE!!! Mi woulddna waan fi married yuh eiddah!" Now mine you this was all said in a shrewd laughing type manner...BUT SHE GOT MY POINT AND MOVED DEH HELL ON!!!! ...Don't ramp wid mi wid such foolishness!

Gill

WOW, she sound like my sister too...you see why I have to pray B4 I go around her.

[clairern 0]

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -

Morning everyone

HUH

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Jealousy is one ####### mi a tell yuh

[Jengles 0]

because i feel that the women/people here can relate to me, some of you have already went thru this journey and are just starting. i used to read and think hey me and mr jengles are going thru that or good idea. plus it helps when the people around u have the same mindset/mindframe.

and the support of relationships not the teardown of relationships. it is easy for anyone to say leave him/her but to me that doesn't make a marriage. my grandparents were married sixty something years, i lived with them and i saw that marriage wasn't easy, but it wasn't something u walked away from just like dat.

I like getting advice from different people wth different opnions, some of my friends always agree with me, but sometimes i know i need a different point of view and i get it from here.

oh yes and oonu intelligent!!!

and I hope I give good advice when I'm not joking around and in general making a general a$$ of myself!!

[clairern 0]

OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.

mr jengles met this older guy from j.a. at school, the guy lives with his daughter, the guy is in his 50's mr jengles says. ok so they talk every once in a while. the school had something for xmas and mr jengles made two dishes. They guy calls and invites mr jengles over to his house for xmas dinner. so mr jengles asks me if we can go, so i said sure in the evening. the guy then calls mr jengles and says to him, too bad mr jengles couldn't come over and cook xmas dinner for him and his daughter. I'm like huh???? mr jengles just took it as a complement to his cooking. I didn't cause u know the man has his family so what the hell are u talking about. anyway xmas day I was sick so we didn't go anywhere.

then the man calls and mr jengles says to him he is going to j.a. and the man could call me and get mr jengles cellphone number in j.a. o.k cool. the man calls a week later when he thinks mr jengles is in j.a. (remember now he lost his passport) so he was supposed to be in j.a. when the man called. the man says oh my duaghter went down yesterday. she's wasn't even staying anywhere around ochi, but still that is what u're calling him to tell him. not how u are doing or how is j.a. Is it just me reading too much into something. I asked one of my friends and she said I wasn't, just want to make sure. I haven't said anything to mr. jengles. the man has been calling since mr jengles has been gone but never when i'm home. so how do deal with something like that??

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

All now mi a wait fi answer on what to do, mi nuh get it yet!!!

anyway, you haven't told your family about Ken yet?? are they invited to the wedding??

Ok..so oonuh memba mi paper wah mi couldn't do ? mi prof email mi today a talk bout him send a "C" if mi ok wid dat..hmmm bwoy mi no know..mi really no feel like do no paper but den again mi no want no baxide C..wah oonuh tink ?

sounds like u doing a paper...if u were at a point where a "c" wouldn't move your g.p.a then cool, but u just started the program right...so it would be better if u did better in the beginning.

a dat mi a seh..but him a go ask mi if mi alright with that...hell no ..gimme mi incomplete mek mi finish and u grade mi

sounds good to me, but then maybe u can vomit pon him shoes and ask for the b.

clairen...i think we is all addicted myself and how u ask Lita for change and we nuh see how much money u give her. lol

i'm really really going to bed now. i told mr jengles i was going to bed two hours ago and all now mi still sitting by the computer

Yuj nuh se me give har $0.20 fe mi opinion and she owe me change cause hit ongle wut $0.02.

Yuh write, Lita gi the woman back her eighteen cents and hurry up, cause if she like me, she would charge u interest.

deh langa she tek fe pay, de interest a compound