Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.

You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.

DO you tell her?

Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?

Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

[Jengles 0]

I actually went back and tried to see where I offended you and i'm not seeing it. I can read what i want, but I won't bother with answering them and i'm thinking u have a problem with me because I have zero with you and if you thought I did, you could have used the PM function, but it's all good.

I think sometimes through the internet the 'wrong' message can be derived from normal conversation.....I never detected attitude, or saw anything that I could construe as such though.....

Yuh hear nutting bout Mr JENgles and di scrap yawd?

right back to the regularly scheduled programming....

he's another one that got my head hot last night, he hasn't gotten his passport yet, because he lost his j.a. liscense he's need a ride to get into town...u twin has a taxi...maybe it's just me. him a shop round junkyards today...shouldn't this have been done before...yuh see wah mi a deal wid?

WHAT??? i thought he got his passport already???? it seems like he just keeps going around in cricles.....hang in there i am sure you are very frustrated.....

sounds like you've met him,

I just have to laugh

[*JG* 2]

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.

You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.

DO you tell her?

Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?

Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

Without evidence, I choose to stay quiet.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Lawny, yes mi memba mi seet now, we go to a grocery store in Silver Spring just a block down from there...Can't remember the name right now, but they seem FAIRLY reasonable....Where do you do your grocery shopping???

The Carribbean store on New Hampshire avenue. Dem tieef too, but wah mi ago do.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

sounds like you've met him,

I just have to laugh

cha, mek him tan deh....why him nuh fine smaddy weh can drive and dem use him cyaar guh pick up di passport???

BTW, tell him seh nuh come up yah widout get a nex license, caws him nah guh can drive widout it ova yaso.

And if him a guh get a NY license, dem a guh waa him old one unless him a guh through di WHOLE process of getting a learner's, driver's ed etc etc

Lawny, yes mi memba mi seet now, we go to a grocery store in Silver Spring just a block down from there...Can't remember the name right now, but they seem FAIRLY reasonable....Where do you do your grocery shopping???

The Carribbean store on New Hampshire avenue. Dem tieef too, but wah mi ago do.

you have dem address???

mi might haffi guh pan a likkle runnings guh check dem out

[IrieCat 2]

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.

You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.

DO you tell her?

Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?

Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

Sorta in that situation now with my best friend. I know the guy she is trying to have a realtionship with is an A##. She sends him money, gifts for his kids etc ... (he is Lucian). There is nothing I can say to her though. I mentioned a couple times to her my thoughts and her reaction was just not to tell me what goes on with them anymore. I guess we have to figure things out for ourselves...

My friends to questions Louis' intentions but they have never met him. Thankfully I know they will give him a chance to prove them wrong. I just continue to tell them to "wait and see".

We all know the truth. Sometimes we have to open our minds to see it.

Lawny, yes mi memba mi seet now, we go to a grocery store in Silver Spring just a block down from there...Can't remember the name right now, but they seem FAIRLY reasonable....Where do you do your grocery shopping???

The Carribbean store on New Hampshire avenue. Dem tieef too, but wah mi ago do.

I have been there! LOL .. just had to let you know! haha.

I miss DC... wonder if Louis would like it??!!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

sounds like you've met him,

I just have to laugh

cha, mek him tan deh....why him nuh fine smaddy weh can drive and dem use him cyaar guh pick up di passport???

BTW, tell him seh nuh come up yah widout get a nex license, caws him nah guh can drive widout it ova yaso.

And if him a guh get a NY license, dem a guh waa him old one unless him a guh through di WHOLE process of getting a learner's, driver's ed etc etc

Lawny, yes mi memba mi seet now, we go to a grocery store in Silver Spring just a block down from there...Can't remember the name right now, but they seem FAIRLY reasonable....Where do you do your grocery shopping???

The Carribbean store on New Hampshire avenue. Dem tieef too, but wah mi ago do.

you have dem address???

mi might haffi guh pan a likkle runnings guh check dem out

Mi afi look fi it. It's on New Hampshire Avenue and University Bouvelard. It's down the street from Red Apple.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.

You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.

DO you tell her?

Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?

Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

Without evidence, I choose to stay quiet.

Morning JG--

But what if you see the SO with another woman (several) times. Would you still stay quiet.? I've lost a few friends this way. Sometimes I just don't know what to do. Sometimes I say nothing and I lose a friend, because the other woman told my friend that I knew about the relationship all along. Touchy subject. I just don't know. I love my friend and I don't want to see her hurt, but what her SO is doing is wrong, so, do I say something or keep my MOUT shut. Last year, my girlfriend was messing with her boyfriend's cousin and I kept telling her it was wrong and she kept tell her boyfriend that she was at my house and he would show up and the drama would go on. One day I just got fedup and I said look, cut the ####### or I'm going to tell. I don't want nobody come shoot my A$$, while you're getting a piece of A$$. Her boyfriend, the cousin and I all went to highschool together and things just went down hill from there.

[Jengles 0]

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.

You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.

DO you tell her?

Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?

Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

I would tel her, but it's all about the timing. don't tell her when they are all lovey dovey, wait until she complaining about something he did and then say something like. yeah i notice he always does such and such and keept it moving. she may not agree with you are say anything at all, but she will start thinking about it.

[IrieCat 2]

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.

You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.

DO you tell her?

Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?

Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

I would tel her, but it's all about the timing. don't tell her when they are all lovey dovey, wait until she complaining about something he did and then say something like. yeah i notice he always does such and such and keept it moving. she may not agree with you are say anything at all, but she will start thinking about it.

That is a good idea... make her think it is her that saw the light!

[Jengles 0]

sounds like you've met him,

I just have to laugh

cha, mek him tan deh....why him nuh fine smaddy weh can drive and dem use him cyaar guh pick up di passport???

BTW, tell him seh nuh come up yah widout get a nex license, caws him nah guh can drive widout it ova yaso.

And if him a guh get a NY license, dem a guh waa him old one unless him a guh through di WHOLE process of getting a learner's, driver's ed etc etc

Lawny, yes mi memba mi seet now, we go to a grocery store in Silver Spring just a block down from there...Can't remember the name right now, but they seem FAIRLY reasonable....Where do you do your grocery shopping???

The Carribbean store on New Hampshire avenue. Dem tieef too, but wah mi ago do.

you have dem address???

mi might haffi guh pan a likkle runnings guh check dem out

English - he has his NY perimit...he tried to get the passport last monday, but when the guy came with the car

there was someting wrong with the car...i called thinking he should be on his way back from town and instead they act the mechanic shop. ugh

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

I have to admit, just by looking at photos even in this thread, I often have a 'notion'.

So far, some have already broken up, there is one I think is DEFINITELY gone as he gets his green card and about 3 other 'hmmms'.....

But the way I look at it, who the hell I am to look at a photo and tell you that he's out for what he can get?

With my friends, I tell them ONCE and leave it.

They are grown, if they can't hear, they will feel.

My good good friend constantly cheats on her husband, she loves him but she says she can't help it.

So I just keep out of it, and ask her to keep me out of it.

Lied for her once when she put me on the spot, but NEVER again.....

[Jengles 0]

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.

You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.

DO you tell her?

Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?

Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

Without evidence, I choose to stay quiet.

Morning JG--

But what if you see the SO with another woman (several) times. Would you still stay quiet.? I've lost a few friends this way. Sometimes I just don't know what to do. Sometimes I say nothing and I lose a friend, because the other woman told my friend that I knew about the relationship all along. Touchy subject. I just don't know. I love my friend and I don't want to see her hurt, but what her SO is doing is wrong, so, do I say something or keep my MOUT shut. Last year, my girlfriend was messing with her boyfriend's cousin and I kept telling her it was wrong and she kept tell her boyfriend that she was at my house and he would show up and the drama would go on. One day I just got fedup and I said look, cut the ####### or I'm going to tell. I don't want nobody come shoot my A$$, while you're getting a piece of A$$. Her boyfriend, the cousin and I all went to highschool together and things just went down hill from there.

girl when u writing the book

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

English - he has his NY perimit...he tried to get the passport last monday, but when the guy came with the car

there was someting wrong with the car...i called thinking he should be on his way back from town and instead they act the mechanic shop. ugh

ok, that's cool then

here in MD, you have to surrender your foreign license when you are issued with the MD one...

[Jengles 0]

English - he has his NY perimit...he tried to get the passport last monday, but when the guy came with the car

there was someting wrong with the car...i called thinking he should be on his way back from town and instead they act the mechanic shop. ugh

ok, that's cool then

here in MD, you have to surrender your foreign license when you are issued with the MD one...

because he had to do everything from scratch i was advised not to even tell dmv that he had a j.a. liscense