Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -

Morning everyone

I may be wrong, but I really don't see attitude there!!

I think she was just poking fun at HER son!!

Yes, I can agree with that.

But I also feel that the wife doesn`t mean much to them either if they are willing to disrespect her by cheating.

Men will do what they feel they can get away with.

If they were 100% sure the wife would leave, then they wouldn`t...

I agree, boy do I agree. I've lived this experience 1st hand with my kids father. I don't care if the chic is just a pin cushion, you disrespected me and our relationship, BUH-BYE loser. I deserve better. But on another note it took me awhile to get to that point, I always believed that I would never take back a cheater but when the situation involves yourself and your self esteem isn't where it should be its hard.

And hear what, in Jamaica they have a saying 'tek time draw yuh hand outta lion mout'...Basically saying that sometimes you have to slowly distance yourself from a situation...NOTHING wrong with that, just so long as YOU are doing YOU....

Hope your baby gets better soon

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -

Morning everyone

I may be wrong, but I really don't see attitude there!!

I think she was just poking fun at HER son!!

Yes, I can agree with that.

But I also feel that the wife doesn`t mean much to them either if they are willing to disrespect her by cheating.

Men will do what they feel they can get away with.

If they were 100% sure the wife would leave, then they wouldn`t...

I agree, boy do I agree. I've lived this experience 1st hand with my kids father. I don't care if the chic is just a pin cushion, you disrespected me and our relationship, BUH-BYE loser. I deserve better. But on another note it took me awhile to get to that point, I always believed that I would never take back a cheater but when the situation involves yourself and your self esteem isn't where it should be its hard.

And hear what, in Jamaica they have a saying 'tek time draw yuh hand outta lion mout'...Basically saying that sometimes you have to slowly distance yourself from a situation...NOTHING wrong with that, just so long as YOU are doing YOU....

Hope your baby gets better soon

MAWNIN English...I really am getting sick of working in D.C. Have you ever been to Red Apple?

[Jengles 0]

OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.

mr jengles met this older guy from j.a. at school, the guy lives with his daughter, the guy is in his 50's mr jengles says. ok so they talk every once in a while. the school had something for xmas and mr jengles made two dishes. They guy calls and invites mr jengles over to his house for xmas dinner. so mr jengles asks me if we can go, so i said sure in the evening. the guy then calls mr jengles and says to him, too bad mr jengles couldn't come over and cook xmas dinner for him and his daughter. I'm like huh???? mr jengles just took it as a complement to his cooking. I didn't cause u know the man has his family so what the hell are u talking about. anyway xmas day I was sick so we didn't go anywhere.

then the man calls and mr jengles says to him he is going to j.a. and the man could call me and get mr jengles cellphone number in j.a. o.k cool. the man calls a week later when he thinks mr jengles is in j.a. (remember now he lost his passport) so he was supposed to be in j.a. when the man called. the man says oh my duaghter went down yesterday. she's wasn't even staying anywhere around ochi, but still that is what u're calling him to tell him. not how u are doing or how is j.a. Is it just me reading too much into something. I asked one of my friends and she said I wasn't, just want to make sure. I haven't said anything to mr. jengles. the man has been calling since mr jengles has been gone but never when i'm home. so how do deal with something like that??

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

All now mi a wait fi answer on what to do, mi nuh get it yet!!!

anyway, you haven't told your family about Ken yet?? are they invited to the wedding??

Ok..so oonuh memba mi paper wah mi couldn't do ? mi prof email mi today a talk bout him send a "C" if mi ok wid dat..hmmm bwoy mi no know..mi really no feel like do no paper but den again mi no want no baxide C..wah oonuh tink ?

sounds like u doing a paper...if u were at a point where a "c" wouldn't move your g.p.a then cool, but u just started the program right...so it would be better if u did better in the beginning.

a dat mi a seh..but him a go ask mi if mi alright with that...hell no ..gimme mi incomplete mek mi finish and u grade mi

sounds good to me, but then maybe u can vomit pon him shoes and ask for the b.

clairen...i think we is all addicted myself and how u ask Lita for change and we nuh see how much money u give her. lol

i'm really really going to bed now. i told mr jengles i was going to bed two hours ago and all now mi still sitting by the computer

Yuj nuh se me give har $0.20 fe mi opinion and she owe me change cause hit ongle wut $0.02.

Yuh write, Lita gi the woman back her eighteen cents and hurry up, cause if she like me, she would charge u interest.

[Jengles 0]

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -

Morning everyone

I am so clueless as to what u are talking about. how is talking about my son, turned to having an attitude with you???

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

MAWIN SITAH JENGS...how u do?

Tap pull pon u hair...u head ago look like fi mi. Mi dehay wid a bad headache. Dem mad wid mi at work cause mi change mi mind and naw go pon the trip to California...now di TINKIN gyal afi go...look like mi day ago start of bad...she just cut ar EYE aftah mi.

[Tonya 0]

Morning Yardie Sistas!!!!!

I read in the one of the JA newspapers yesterday about two little bwoy pickneys that got on a bus after school heading to MoBay.

They made it to MoBay and got off near the airport. These little bwoy pickneys are 6 & 7. They followed the sounds of the planes and walked in that direction.

After finding Dead End, the climbed over a cement wall and other obstacles and made it to the runway.

The wind from the planes taking off had knocked them to the tarmack twice before the airport authorities got to them.

They told the authorities that they.......GET THIS.....wanted to travel abroad.

Shame on those little pickneys.......

Peace & Love,

Tonya

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

MAWIN GILL...don't worry -- You a nu di only STELLA.... we really need to link up, have a good drink and eeehhhhh labrish on.

[Jengles 0]

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -

Morning everyone

I actually went back and tried to see where I offended you and i'm not seeing it. I can read what i want, but I won't bother with answering them and i'm thinking u have a problem with me because I have zero with you and if you thought I did, you could have used the PM function, but it's all good.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Morning Yardie Sistas!!!!!

I read in the one of the JA newspapers yesterday about two little bwoy pickneys that got on a bus after school heading to MoBay.

They made it to MoBay and got off near the airport. These little bwoy pickneys are 6 & 7. They followed the sounds of the planes and walked in that direction.

After finding Dead End, the climbed over a cement wall and other obstacles and made it to the runway.

The wind from the planes taking off had knocked them to the tarmack twice before the airport authorities got to them.

They told the authorities that they.......GET THIS.....wanted to travel abroad.

Shame on those little pickneys.......

Peace & Love,

Tonya

OMG....they let that happen again. I thought there was a fence of something to prevent that. I thought they made the fence higher or something. They could have been hurt. In 1979 when we went to leave Jamaica to fly to D.C. my brother (then 7 years old) decides he did not want to get on the plane (you had to walk up the steps) back then to get on the plane. He runs under the plane and the guards had to go after him. My mother nearly killed him once they got him on the plane. Damn...... I even remember what I ate, wore and drank on that day. When the lady asked me if I wanted a COKE to drink. I asked her, WAH NAME SO? Back in those days, I only knew Pepsi. And I flew up on Eastern Airlines. Seems just like yesterday.

[*JG* 2]

that is absolute foolishness, the department of homeland security should do what. a lie and they have time to do that??? mi can't believe my tax dollars is being spent on that foolishness. it would have been better if he did say a social worker. all dem people that adopt every day from china the homeland security is going to fi dem house. u about to get me UPSET. I think someone should try calling the american embassy and speaking to someone else. because was pure foolishness and phuckry was dropping from that CO's mouth.

I won't b**ch too much about the memo - it's on a nonprofit website of an organization that helps kids - So it's out there for a good cause, just was shocked to find it (and a little pissed that I wasn't told or given credit!)

I haven't heard of the DHS having to come to the house - what the issue is with a Sp. immigrant juvenile petition is that the DHS has to sign an affidavit that they consent to the filing of the petition - doesn't mean it's granted, but it's a fairly simple step.

Back when I wrote this memo, we had a case where an attorney that I worked with and I were appointed as Court appointed advocates for a young girl in foster care - the more we learned of her story, we realized that she had no legal status in the US as she had been brought here under another person's visa. So, my research work began into how the He** do we get her a green card? I am very happy to say - she not only is a green card holder now, we got her mom and sisters out of a refugee camp and over here to be reunited.

I am not sure what will happen with this girl having left the US though - But I would file a grievance against the lawyer that gave that advice - let him pay the costs to bring her back here!

I haven't heard about DHS coming to the house; but I did read about a state appointed social worker having to make a visit before the adoption is finalized. I looked into adopting our nephew back in 2006.

I think they need to find a GOOD immigration attorney to work on this one.

[IrieCat 2]

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

MAWIN GILL...don't worry -- You a nu di only STELLA.... we really need to link up, have a good drink and eeehhhhh labrish on.

Do I understand this correct (sorry my Jamaican patois is not that good LOL).. Your fam doesnt know your getting married?

I sorta kept it a secret too .. although my mom and aunt came to St Lucia to meet Louis. I didnt tell them till I got the K1 paperwork ready.

My mom was always a B when it came to my men... she Loves Louis so she wasnt surprised when she found out what was happening... I can't beleive I talk about wedding plans with my mom! Its amazing.

I am sure your family will Love him as you do.. they will know it is the real thing!!!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

MAWIN GILL...don't worry -- You a nu di only STELLA.... we really need to link up, have a good drink and eeehhhhh labrish on.

Do I understand this correct (sorry my Jamaican patois is not that good LOL).. Your fam doesnt know your getting married?

I sorta kept it a secret too .. although my mom and aunt came to St Lucia to meet Louis. I didnt tell them till I got the K1 paperwork ready.

My mom was always a B when it came to my men... she Loves Louis so she wasnt surprised when she found out what was happening... I can't beleive I talk about wedding plans with my mom! Its amazing.

I am sure your family will Love him as you do.. they will know it is the real thing!!!

Irie,

Please SPRINKLE some NOA2 dust on this thread for me also. Thanks sweetie.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

MAWNIN English...I really am getting sick of working in D.C. Have you ever been to Red Apple?

Noooo.....is it a restaurant????

I wish I could work some of your days for you lol.....right now I feel like a fish out of water, there's just NOTHING to do around here!!!

I am going to see Jill Scott next week, she's my matey My husband LOVES her!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

I actually went back and tried to see where I offended you and i'm not seeing it. I can read what i want, but I won't bother with answering them and i'm thinking u have a problem with me because I have zero with you and if you thought I did, you could have used the PM function, but it's all good.

I think sometimes through the internet the 'wrong' message can be derived from normal conversation.....I never detected attitude, or saw anything that I could construe as such though.....

Yuh hear nutting bout Mr JENgles and di scrap yawd?

[sus 70]

I actually went back and tried to see where I offended you and i'm not seeing it. I can read what i want, but I won't bother with answering them and i'm thinking u have a problem with me because I have zero with you and if you thought I did, you could have used the PM function, but it's all good.

Sorry if I misinterpreted it, but there have been several comments that you made after posts of mine that came across as heavy sarcasm, and just seemed out of order, so I spoke up about it. Since the posts were here, then I chose to address them here. It could be just that I am being overly sensitive due to stress, but that's how I felt - if I took it wrong, then I apologize.