Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

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Ok..so oonuh memba mi paper wah mi couldn't do ? mi prof email mi today a talk bout him send a "C" if mi ok wid dat..hmmm bwoy mi no know..mi really no feel like do no paper but den again mi no want no baxide C..wah oonuh tink ?

sounds like u doing a paper...if u were at a point where a "c" wouldn't move your g.p.a then cool, but u just started the program right...so it would be better if u did better in the beginning.

a dat mi a seh..but him a go ask mi if mi alright with that...hell no ..gimme mi incomplete mek mi finish and u grade mi

sounds good to me, but then maybe u can vomit pon him shoes and ask for the b.

clairen...i think we is all addicted myself and how u ask Lita for change and we nuh see how much money u give her. lol

i'm really really going to bed now. i told mr jengles i was going to bed two hours ago and all now mi still sitting by the computer

yeah man go clean up di pickney dem toys offa di floor ..but mi no understand him a come talk bout him send in C wid him brite self a no like mi did a do bad inna di class

[clairern 0]

Ok..so oonuh memba mi paper wah mi couldn't do ? mi prof email mi today a talk bout him send a "C" if mi ok wid dat..hmmm bwoy mi no know..mi really no feel like do no paper but den again mi no want no baxide C..wah oonuh tink ?

sounds like u doing a paper...if u were at a point where a "c" wouldn't move your g.p.a then cool, but u just started the program right...so it would be better if u did better in the beginning.

a dat mi a seh..but him a go ask mi if mi alright with that...hell no ..gimme mi incomplete mek mi finish and u grade mi

sounds good to me, but then maybe u can vomit pon him shoes and ask for the b.

clairen...i think we is all addicted myself and how u ask Lita for change and we nuh see how much money u give her. lol

i'm really really going to bed now. i told mr jengles i was going to bed two hours ago and all now mi still sitting by the computer

Yuj nuh se me give har $0.20 fe mi opinion and she owe me change cause hit ongle wut $0.02.

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awrite mi head a kill mi..mi gone a mi bed..lata...Jengs no bada wid all dat chatting tomorrow and mi no deh pon di board cause dat mean mi behind and affi go read all dem blasted pages

[clairern 0]

Nite y'all. See yuh a mawning.

[brownnskinn 0]

KimKim I'm so glad to hear that your doing betta

SHYNE a wah u a guh wid suitcase?

Mi ago out shoping fe new tings tuh put pon mi suticase fe mi trip tuh JA next month

DWL...SHYN sarry yah...JENGS the GINGER WINE a get to mi....but it GOODDDDDDDDD Ithink that's why I haven't been sick in very long time.

Mi need some a dat mi been sick 3 days and nuh go tuh wuk

SHYN, fram mi granni tell mi fi star tek a likkle sip everynight or 3 times a week, I've not been sick. I've been doing well for 3 years now. Last month 27 of my co-workers were out with the flu and that's just one division. Mi tell dem NO COME NEAR MI...

Oh my!!! Wow that is a lot of people!!

Pam feel better!

Did any of you ladies get the flu shot? I had one but its not working.

Maybe its common to be sick in 3rd trimester..

I didn't. I wish I did or at least gotten it for hubby, bc I think I've brought it home to him. I haven't gotten sick. It didn't work for many people. Its all over the papers here. The CDC is actually asking the makers to redo the shot BC so many people are getting sick any ways, apparently there are more strains of the flu going around than the vaccinations can handle.

I hope you feel ,better and please get some rest.

Edited March 6, 2008 by brownnskinn

[brownnskinn 0]

Ok Ladies, its my turn...I need advice.

So Evan has been voicing his concern about me not giving him enough affection and attention and time, and how i don't show him i need him and love him or basically just say affectionate things to him. I think that I do do all these things. But obviously not as much as he would like. We get into major arguments about this cause I sometimes feel like he is only noticing when I Don't do something, vs noticing when I DO. I understand the need to want your partner to tell you you love them and miss them and comment, say say they look good or send them little "sweet" notes, but my issue with this is, that if i am not doing it to his liking or then he begins to think that I am thinking the EXACT opposite of those things, like....I don't love him, or miss him, or I'm too busy for him, or don't think he's attractive enough on, and on, and on. I think that is completely unfair. What do you think? I don't know if he is having major issues with the seperation or if he is insecure or if he just needs more affirmation than most men I have been involved with and I just need to adjust. Do your men have these complaints?

And on a side note, I speak to him EVERYDAY. I send him texts, I usually have him call me back since he has a better phone plan than me, but I send him letters in the mail, email, and he still says that I am not showing him enough or being there for him when he needs me. Its stressing me out, literally cause I feel like I can't be sad or lonely and missing him, cause he's complaining about it enough for the both of us. Is there something I should be or could be doing to ease his mind or is he just tripping?

Lita, this sounds to me like separation anxiety. It is truly not easy being in a long distance relationship and it is certainly not helped with the stress that this immigration process puts us under. My husband didn't have those complaints, though he would get mighty upset when I didn't call on time and such when we were separated. It will be different when Evan gets here.

Ditto...Mine didn't have these complaints either, but I'm not sure if it's separation anxiety cause they've been apart for some time, he should be adjusting to the separation, then I'm think she did just come from JA so it could very well be missing her fi true and needing some reassurance, maybe the wait is getting, to him. Marilta remeba how you were when you'd just goten back(misseriable lol)....IMO, you are doing a heck of a lot more than I was doin during our separation and he just very well be trippin like you mentioned.

For me it seems worse when he got here.

[brownnskinn 0]

Some people just complain a lot so they have something to talk about.

Good point B. Also about the talking EVERYDAY. You both might need a break between so that when you do talk..youknow it's more quality vs quanty.

sometimes j.a. men talk rough and have no idea how they are coming accross.

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LAWD ME ADDICTED TO VJ. ME LOG ON FRAM ME COME HOME FROM WORK AND NOW A 1130 AND ME STILL DEH YAH. a WRANG WID ME EEHHH????

You see it. I'm tring to stay away, but it's hard. I need thearpy Good ting hubby wuk till 9 or so.

Ok..so oonuh memba mi paper wah mi couldn't do ? mi prof email mi today a talk bout him send a "C" if mi ok wid dat..hmmm bwoy mi no know..mi really no feel like do no paper but den again mi no want no baxide C..wah oonuh tink ?

Don't ask mi.. C's are for caring. lol . Like Jens seh as long as it dosen't effect

UR GPA.

Edited March 6, 2008 by brownnskinn

[Forever Young 1]

OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.

mr jengles met this older guy from j.a. at school, the guy lives with his daughter, the guy is in his 50's mr jengles says. ok so they talk every once in a while. the school had something for xmas and mr jengles made two dishes. They guy calls and invites mr jengles over to his house for xmas dinner. so mr jengles asks me if we can go, so i said sure in the evening. the guy then calls mr jengles and says to him, too bad mr jengles couldn't come over and cook xmas dinner for him and his daughter. I'm like huh???? mr jengles just took it as a complement to his cooking. I didn't cause u know the man has his family so what the hell are u talking about. anyway xmas day I was sick so we didn't go anywhere.

then the man calls and mr jengles says to him he is going to j.a. and the man could call me and get mr jengles cellphone number in j.a. o.k cool. the man calls a week later when he thinks mr jengles is in j.a. (remember now he lost his passport) so he was supposed to be in j.a. when the man called. the man says oh my duaghter went down yesterday. she's wasn't even staying anywhere around ochi, but still that is what u're calling him to tell him. not how u are doing or how is j.a. Is it just me reading too much into something. I asked one of my friends and she said I wasn't, just want to make sure. I haven't said anything to mr. jengles. the man has been calling since mr jengles has been gone but never when i'm home. so how do deal with something like that??

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

[Forever Young 1]

Sorry I'm late but....

HAPPY BURTDAY YARDIE, MI LOVE...WISHING YOU MANY MANY MORE!!!! :

Kimkim....mi nuh tink hit chocolate...yuh can eat hit!

LOVE YA YARDIE!!!!!

Gill

Edited March 6, 2008 by Deyoungting

[sus 70]

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -

Morning everyone

[brownnskinn 0]

The forensics patients, dem bodda mi, I had to go cover up mi las name, cause dis particular one, is gettin on my NERVES

My family...have been really great esp. my modda she neva have anything bad to seh bout anyone...I guess that's where I get it from.

[classychic77 0]

The forensics patients, dem bodda mi, I had to go cover up mi las name, cause dis particular one, is gettin on my NERVES

My family...have been really great esp. my modda she neva have anything bad to seh bout anyone...I guess that's where I get it from.

Good morning everyone. No work for me today, my daughters really sick. Going back to catch up on my reading, ya'll chat alot

[classychic77 0]

Yes, I can agree with that.

But I also feel that the wife doesn`t mean much to them either if they are willing to disrespect her by cheating.

Men will do what they feel they can get away with.

If they were 100% sure the wife would leave, then they wouldn`t...

I agree, boy do I agree. I've lived this experience 1st hand with my kids father. I don't care if the chic is just a pin cushion, you disrespected me and our relationship, BUH-BYE loser. I deserve better. But on another note it took me awhile to get to that point, I always believed that I would never take back a cheater but when the situation involves yourself and your self esteem isn't where it should be its hard.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

GOOD MORNING MY BEAUTIFUL SISTAHS....how are ya'll. Bway mi ago mad...weh mi NOTICE deh!...ow dem decide who fi process fuss...bway..cho man