Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)

[brownnskinn 0]

boy u been sleeping a lot nowadays, u sure is just sick u sick?

No nothing more here, plus Aunt flo's back, so I'm just mean as hell.

ok just checking....electricity is his baby mother's house...i think its because he's here which is why she's asking the question...this is where u pull out your bills....

Great point.

[brownnskinn 0]

I apparently need Jesus bc I am pissed bc hubby wants to help put electricity in his daughter's mothers home. I know he's only doing it for his daughter. but I just can't believe this woman has the nerve to ask. and what can I say. No den i look like the evil witch I feel like I want to be

His daugther's mother's house. Whyyyy? has she asked for things before?

No. She, they have been living with the mother she now has her own place and wants help lighting the place.

Does that mean help paying the monthly bill too?

Hell if I know.. I think I want a divorce.

[brownnskinn 0]

I'm going to Baskin Robbin's to get ice cream to stuff my self with. I need comfort food.

[*JG* 2]

Okay I need to vent! OK first the background story or none of the rest of the story will make sense. I dumped my kids father May of 06 for cheating. 2 weeks later the new chic got pregnant. And had a girl. Mean while she's psycho and has stalked me, sent the police to my house numerous times (lookin 4 the ex), and many, many other things. Why in the F*#$ did the heffer just call inviting us (the kids & I) to Brianna's 1st birthday party next Saturday. Mind you we NEVER have been on good terms (her doing) and if I ever see chic in public she will get beat down. My ex and her are not even together anymore. Of course they didn't last long. Oh I could go on and on! I can not believe this chic had the nerve to even call my flippin house! And unlike a normal sane adult I know damn well her motive is not so the children can have a relationship.

That kind of sounds like a set up to me. Like she wants to pump you for information on the ex or something.

[*JG* 2]

I apparently need Jesus bc I am pissed bc hubby wants to help put electricity in his daughter's mothers home. I know he's only doing it for his daughter. but I just can't believe this woman has the nerve to ask. and what can I say. No den i look like the evil witch I feel like I want to be

His daugther's mother's house. Whyyyy? has she asked for things before?

No. She, they have been living with the mother she now has her own place and wants help lighting the place.

Does that mean help paying the monthly bill too?

Hell if I know.. I think I want a divorce.

You silly girl!

You know how I feel about supporting those who I think can help themselves.

If it were me and I agreed to help put in the electric, I would be very focal about her making sure she can pay the bills. Whats the point of putting in electric if she is going to cry poor every month and beg for money to pay the bill? I think it is something you really have to talk about with hubby.

I saw a crane crashed down in New York City and a tornado in downtown Atlanta. Is everyone who lives in those areas okay today?

[*SunRay* 1]

Went to SJG in Sept last year. I liked it alot especially cause I was getting a break from no electricty and cold showers and sometimy water flow...haha.

Anyway we got a deal of less than $350 for the 2 of us. I thought it was catered to kids alot which was cool but you couldn't have food in your room, so no room service or bringing food up...I didn't like that at all. Also there were no motorized water sports included so that sucked. The food was good though. I ate at the restaurants and buffet. Oh but at the end of the stay...why did we go to check out and had a charge from someone (maid) using our room phone. Yeah I had to settle that quick quick. I thought the location of SJG was cool, but I think I would like to try the RIU cause I feel like SJG was missing alot of amenities. I would have been disappointed had I not paid so little for the stay.

Hey Lita,

I agree with you, I think the reason we liked SJG so much too is because we got a REALLY good rate for the 5 days but ur right about the "no room service" and stuff like that. They make it so u HAVE to eat all your meals at certain times and since i smoke cigarettes...I didn't like how you couldn't smoke in your room or really anywhere on the property but outside.

The food was decent and i enjoyed the beach, the pools and some of the entertainment....the bar in the main lobby was my favorite cause u could smoke cigarettes out there and here music 24-7 Overall, the best thing about SJG is the location and the fact that when it goes on sale, ur only paying about $100 a night for 2 people. Otherwise, I heard the RIU is the best all inclusive in Ochi....if you don't mind not being able to really Walk to anything close by.

RIU is the same way. There's no room service, however they do allow you to take food to your room. I love the rooms at the RIU and the fact that they have a mini bar and fridge in each room. The watersports are the same as SJG. Only non-motorized watersports. The speciality restaurants have to be reserved way in advance and you have to get up at the crack of dawn to try to get a reservation.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

JG..actually i am hoping it's a boy just that i love the girl names

[*JG* 2]

JG..actually i am hoping it's a boy just that i love the girl names

I have a boy and a girl. Everyone told me that was the perfect combo. Not so sure. Sometimes I wish I had two boys or two girls. They fight like cats and dogs sometimes!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

JG..actually i am hoping it's a boy just that i love the girl names

I have a boy and a girl. Everyone told me that was the perfect combo. Not so sure. Sometimes I wish I had two boys or two girls. They fight like cats and dogs sometimes!

I know ..Kimora is a piece of work and my gosh she mek mi head hurt mi more time

Ok i have a real problem

I NEED KIMORA TO DEVELOPE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER FATHER...my gosh they drive me mad..one minute they're good and playing next min all hell break lose..I don't want him to start resenting her..cause she'll do stuff and he'll say "see, she ave sense" yes but dat no mean she understands what is meant..she lives to mimic...he doesn't get that he needs to "buy" her to win her over ..know what i mean ??..they make me MAD...is it that I"M the problem ?

[*JG* 2]

She will develop that relationship. It just takes time. You know this is something he has to do for himself.

I figured you would want another girl to name Akoi.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

She will develop that relationship. It just takes time. You know this is something he has to do for himself.

I figured you would want another girl to name Akoi.

i know..but he is so used to the "Jamaican" way of raising kids..i tell him to let her be a child..if she puts her toys all over the place it's a problem..awwww i'm tired....he said even other kids that r not his "run" to him even when they don't know him..i say well try going btwn them and they're mom at 2yrs old...

what's Akoi ?

[brownnskinn 0]

Went to SJG in Sept last year. I liked it alot especially cause I was getting a break from no electricty and cold showers and sometimy water flow...haha.

Anyway we got a deal of less than $350 for the 2 of us. I thought it was catered to kids alot which was cool but you couldn't have food in your room, so no room service or bringing food up...I didn't like that at all. Also there were no motorized water sports included so that sucked. The food was good though. I ate at the restaurants and buffet. Oh but at the end of the stay...why did we go to check out and had a charge from someone (maid) using our room phone. Yeah I had to settle that quick quick. I thought the location of SJG was cool, but I think I would like to try the RIU cause I feel like SJG was missing alot of amenities. I would have been disappointed had I not paid so little for the stay.

Hey Lita,

I agree with you, I think the reason we liked SJG so much too is because we got a REALLY good rate for the 5 days but ur right about the "no room service" and stuff like that. They make it so u HAVE to eat all your meals at certain times and since i smoke cigarettes...I didn't like how you couldn't smoke in your room or really anywhere on the property but outside.

The food was decent and i enjoyed the beach, the pools and some of the entertainment....the bar in the main lobby was my favorite cause u could smoke cigarettes out there and here music 24-7 Overall, the best thing about SJG is the location and the fact that when it goes on sale, ur only paying about $100 a night for 2 people. Otherwise, I heard the RIU is the best all inclusive in Ochi....if you don't mind not being able to really Walk to anything close by.

RIU is the same way. There's no room service, however they do allow you to take food to your room. I love the rooms at the RIU and the fact that they have a mini bar and fridge in each room. The watersports are the same as SJG. Only non-motorized watersports. The speciality restaurants have to be reserved way in advance and you have to get up at the crack of dawn to try to get a reservation.

Sounds like you and I both love the RIU. I didn't think the speciality restautants were worth all the trouble...the only thing I remember about being at that resstaurant was paying an outrages amount for OFF after being eaten by misquetoes while wating to be sevred all night.

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Clairey, Michelle..only us here tonite huh

When yuh no si Jengs yuh mus know ..wait til she come

How many of u guys go to the north shore when visiting ? or how many met their SO there ?

[brownnskinn 0]

She will develop that relationship. It just takes time. You know this is something he has to do for himself.

I figured you would want another girl to name Akoi.

i know..but he is so used to the "Jamaican" way of raising kids..i tell him to let her be a child..if she puts her toys all over the place it's a problem..awwww i'm tired....he said even other kids that r not his "run" to him even when they don't know him..i say well try going btwn them and they're mom at 2yrs old...

what's Akoi ?

Ditto I'm sure it just takes time...It must the the JA way, cause my hubby's the same, even with my children. Esp. with the toys everything for that matter. She's only 2. How long have they actually been apart?

[SupportOAFJF 0]

She'll be 3 in September...we had many trips in btwn from she was 2mths old til about 18mths...and just as she was walking and getting around and such..we only made one trip b4 he came..that was a hard trip even though she knows him..she didn't want to US to be in the same room..as soon as they are alone it's a dif story....and when he reprimands her i feel like he's over doing it and i don't sat anything of course but she feels me ..if u know what i mean..it's tough..

we don't have a yard for her to run around in especially winter time...