Sexual incompatibility troubles marriages

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

I don't think my equipment will reach the ceiling. We need eric on this thread.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

It talks about sexual compatibility, but it doesn't define it. Is it just how often you want to do it and whether or not one person is game if the other person has some weird kink, or is it more?

Yeah, what if you both like to be tied up? Take turns?

[sj5 4]

I don't think my equipment will reach the ceiling. We need eric on this thread.

LOL...

honestly.. Sex is more important in relationship.. I would feel bad if I don't get sex even just once a year

[Ban Hammer 13,673]

Baby steps, Steven. Next time maybe you might mention that she's put on a few pounds. See where things go.

Hahaha.

"Honey, those pants make your a** look like it's chasing you. Wanna have sex?"

honey is you azz that big or do you a hippo in your trousers?

or if she has those pants off, tell her that when she walks, her butt looks like two pigs fighting over a milk dud.

[Amby 490]

charles #######? never heard that one before

[Niels Bohr 72]

I don't think my equipment will reach the ceiling. We need eric on this thread.

YOU ARE SO VERY FUNNY! ROFLMAO! You made my day!

[Ban Hammer 13,673]

charles #######? never heard that one before

it's an old one.

[Amby 490]

charles #######? never heard that one before

it's an old one.

oh right...I'm not old like you are so that explains it

[Ban Hammer 13,673]

charles #######? never heard that one before

it's an old one.

oh right...I'm not old like you are so that explains it

[Nessa 23]

85 is a really low number

that is about 1.6 times a week.....

Imagine couples in special circumstances. Like in our case, Charles travels around 9 weeks a year. That's around 63 days that we just won't be able to have sex. Imagine someone who travels more than that. Imagine those people that just won't have sex while on their period for some weird reason, imagine their period last 8 days, thats around 96 days a year they just can't have it

[DeadPoolX 9]

85 is a really low number

that is about 1.6 times a week.....

Imagine couples in special circumstances. Like in our case, Charles travels around 9 weeks a year. That's around 63 days that we just won't be able to have sex. Imagine someone who travels more than that. Imagine those people that just won't have sex while on their period for some weird reason, imagine their period last 8 days, thats around 96 days a year they just can't have it

That's a very good point. I gather most of us here could classify our relationships under the heading of "special circumstances" since the majority are apart more often than together. That would skew the results in favor of less sex than more. Like Nessa pointed out, no matter how much you want to have it, if your partner isn't there, it's not happening.

[Caladan 19]

The national average is 85 times a year?! That seems awful low to me.

Remember, that's "average." That means there are a lot above and below that number. In addition, we have a lot of senior citizens today, many of which probably drop the average by quite a bit, since it's unlikely they're being quite as "frisky" as two 20 year-olds.

Or people with young kids, where just under twice a week might be hard to squeeze in.

Factor in a job with travel, periods, etc., and it doesn't sound all that low.

[Sister Fracas 5]

85 is a really low number

that is about 1.6 times a week.....

Imagine couples in special circumstances. Like in our case, Charles travels around 9 weeks a year. That's around 63 days that we just won't be able to have sex. Imagine someone who travels more than that. Imagine those people that just won't have sex while on their period for some weird reason, imagine their period last 8 days, thats around 96 days a year they just can't have it

sorry, cramps, pain all over between neck and knees, bloating, etc, just doesn't make the idea all that attractive... nevermind other messy issues....

nah, chocolate is much better.

[Nessa 23]

sorry, cramps, pain all over between neck and knees, bloating, etc, just doesn't make the idea all that attractive... nevermind other messy issues....

nah, chocolate is much better.

I understand that about cramps, bloating, etc, I've had days like that.

[garya505 2]

It talks about sexual compatibility, but it doesn't define it. Is it just how often you want to do it and whether or not one person is game if the other person has some weird kink, or is it more?

I think it's just in general. Is one person a fluffy (that's twice) and the other one thinks it's weird? Does the girl want it 4 times a day and the guy only has it in him twice a week?

Mainly, when you are in bed, do you find something lacking? Is there something you wish your SO would try but won't?

Don't you mean "... the guy only has it in her ... "?