Sexual incompatibility troubles marriages

[Jenn! 918]

Getting into an argument while in bed is probably not the best aphrodisiac.

au contraire.

Oh Jenn!!! Thee is wise sister :devil:

Do share your wisdom with this mortal. ...please!

Brother... I think it might be more than you can handle :devil:

Baby steps, Steven. Next time maybe you might mention that she's put on a few pounds. See where things go.

[AnewKINDofFEELIN 0]

Baby steps, Steven. Next time maybe you might mention that she's put on a few pounds. See where things go.

Hahaha.

"Honey, those pants make your a** look like it's chasing you. Wanna have sex?"

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Getting into an argument while in bed is probably not the best aphrodisiac.

au contraire.

Oh Jenn!!! Thee is wise sister :devil:

Do share your wisdom with this mortal. ...please!

Brother... I think it might be more than you can handle :devil:

Baby steps, Steven. Next time maybe you might mention that she's put on a few pounds. See where things go.

[almaty 19]

Baby steps, Steven. Next time maybe you might mention that she's put on a few pounds. See where things go.

Hahaha.

"Honey, those pants make your a** look like it's chasing you. Wanna have sex?"

honey is you azz that big or do you a hippo in your trousers?

[Alex & Rachel 78]

Completely agree with this article. Sexual compatibility is so important.

Less than 10 times a year sounds about right for my last relationship

I was in one of those, too. Even when we had sex, I felt like my hand was a better partner. Then when the breakup was imminent, she started getting frisky and trying to keep me from leaving. That just made me even more bitter that it took that much for her to want to have sex. There's nothing like trying to talk your SO into having sex once a month.

Of course, the complete lack of communication meant it was completely unsatisfying when it did happen.

The three tips in the article are spot on. I'm just thankful I realised what was wrong and was able to build on my experiences in the current relationship.

[mawilson 2,133]

Completely agree with this article. Sexual compatibility is so important.

Less than 10 times a year sounds about right for my last relationship

For some people, sex is not that important.

[Alex & Rachel 78]

Completely agree with this article. Sexual compatibility is so important.

Less than 10 times a year sounds about right for my last relationship

For some people, sex is not that important.

Yes, and?...

It doesn't matter if you want sex twice a day or once a year. The key word here is compatibility. If you're with someone who never wants sex and you want it all the time, then you have a problem. If you both want it all the time, or you both don't want it at all, there's no problem.

[AnewKINDofFEELIN 0]

Completely agree with this article. Sexual compatibility is so important.

Less than 10 times a year sounds about right for my last relationship

I was in one of those, too. Even when we had sex, I felt like my hand was a better partner. Then when the breakup was imminent, she started getting frisky and trying to keep me from leaving. That just made me even more bitter that it took that much for her to want to have sex. There's nothing like trying to talk your SO into having sex once a month.

Of course, the complete lack of communication meant it was completely unsatisfying when it did happen.

The three tips in the article are spot on. I'm just thankful I realised what was wrong and was able to build on my experiences in the current relationship.

Definitely. Lindsay and I were up front about what we both wanted sexually in a partner and it has definitely made it better. The problem with the old relationship was that she couldn't converse about it. She would get defensive and start arguing right away. Less than 2 months after we broke up, she was pregnant. Maybe it was me.

[DeadPoolX 9]

Completely agree with this article. Sexual compatibility is so important.

Less than 10 times a year sounds about right for my last relationship

For some people, sex is not that important.

Yes, and?...

It doesn't matter if you want sex twice a day or once a year. The key word here is compatibility. If you're with someone who never wants sex and you want it all the time, then you have a problem. If you both want it all the time, or you both don't want it at all, there's no problem.

I completely agree with that.

I wouldn't put sex up as "the most important" factor in a relationship or marriage, but it's certainly something to think about. If you don't match up at all, then that'll hurt you eventually.

[mawilson 2,133]

Completely agree with this article. Sexual compatibility is so important.

Less than 10 times a year sounds about right for my last relationship

For some people, sex is not that important.

Yes, and?...

It doesn't matter if you want sex twice a day or once a year. The key word here is compatibility. If you're with someone who never wants sex and you want it all the time, then you have a problem. If you both want it all the time, or you both don't want it at all, there's no problem.

Agreed.

[Alex+R 0]

It talks about sexual compatibility, but it doesn't define it. Is it just how often you want to do it and whether or not one person is game if the other person has some weird kink, or is it more?

[AnewKINDofFEELIN 0]

It talks about sexual compatibility, but it doesn't define it. Is it just how often you want to do it and whether or not one person is game if the other person has some weird kink, or is it more?

I think it's just in general. Is one person a fluffy (that's twice) and the other one thinks it's weird? Does the girl want it 4 times a day and the guy only has it in him twice a week?

Mainly, when you are in bed, do you find something lacking? Is there something you wish your SO would try but won't?

[sj5 4]

It talks about sexual compatibility, but it doesn't define it. Is it just how often you want to do it and whether or not one person is game if the other person has some weird kink, or is it more?

I think it's just in general. Is one person a fluffy (that's twice) and the other one thinks it's weird? Does the girl want it 4 times a day and the guy only has it in him twice a week?

Mainly, when you are in bed, do you find something lacking? Is there something you wish your SO would try but won't?

He won't try to do it in ceiling.

[AnewKINDofFEELIN 0]

It talks about sexual compatibility, but it doesn't define it. Is it just how often you want to do it and whether or not one person is game if the other person has some weird kink, or is it more?

I think it's just in general. Is one person a fluffy (that's twice) and the other one thinks it's weird? Does the girl want it 4 times a day and the guy only has it in him twice a week?

Mainly, when you are in bed, do you find something lacking? Is there something you wish your SO would try but won't?

He won't try to do it in ceiling.

You could always put a mirror on the ceiling to see if it gives you a similar effect.

[sj5 4]

It talks about sexual compatibility, but it doesn't define it. Is it just how often you want to do it and whether or not one person is game if the other person has some weird kink, or is it more?

I think it's just in general. Is one person a fluffy (that's twice) and the other one thinks it's weird? Does the girl want it 4 times a day and the guy only has it in him twice a week?

Mainly, when you are in bed, do you find something lacking? Is there something you wish your SO would try but won't?

He won't try to do it in ceiling.

You could always put a mirror on the ceiling to see if it gives you a similar effect.

thanks for tips.. I will shop in home depot. LOL

jk