Does anyone ever get sick of?

[eric&gen 0]

I do become sick of pity threads looool. People must have a boring life to exploit there personal lives on a forum like VJ. As for me what goes on with my personal life is none of anyone else business loooool.

[DeadPoolX 9]

Hey, that's great. But you know what? This is a message board design in-part for supporting others, which can take the role of helping people when they're depressed or down on their luck, too. Should it be a "personal blog" or something similar? No, probably not. However, there's nothing wrong with assisting another person in their time of need.

Besides... no one says you need to do it or even read those threads. So what's the problem?

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

For a lot of folks, they share their joys and woes because they consider they have friends here. Whole lot easier to make one general post to share a situation then try to track down each one individually. This forum is designed to support families during a very emotionally challenging period. It is difficult to remain monotone when concerns run high. Further, sharing personal stories helps to pass the time and humanize this sometimes long and bumpy ride. Nothing wrong with that.

[chri'stina 190]

I think our personal lives are a part of being a member of Visajourney...since we all are here due to falling in love with someone from another country and having to get together through the visa process. Whether someone chooses not to share much personal info, they can't deny that they are here for very personal reasons. It's not a game forum or something like that.

[eric&gen 0]

I will share any information that has to do with the visa process etc but when it comes to personal money or who got what try to out do each other is childish oh i have a new house new this new that big deal. if a family member is sick i wont waste time on here making long post they will be taken care of first.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

People who for whatever reason need the support of members of this forum are no worse than people who have links asking for support for the child's photo's....

each to their own......

Kez

Edited March 2, 2008 by Kezzie

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

I will share any information that has to do with the visa process etc but when it comes to personal money or who got what try to out do each other is childish ...

Ok.

So the fact that you have a big ####### is germane to the visa process.... how?

[eric&gen 0]

I will share any information that has to do with the visa process etc but when it comes to personal money or who got what try to out do each other is childish ...

Ok.

So the fact that you have a big ####### is germane to the visa process.... how?

I will share other information i do not use any enhanced pills its just natural growth i do not use Viagra to keep it stiff.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Natural growth? Ok, but again, how is that relevant to your visa process?

You do remember saying you only share information that has to do with the visa process, don't you?

[eric&gen 0]

Natural growth? Ok, but again, how is that relevant to your visa process?

You do remember saying you only share information that has to do with the visa process, don't you?

I will share other information i guess if i am in the mood to and i have interest in posting here.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

If you are in the mood to. Ok.

So could it be that the people you're b1tching about were also "in the mood" to share aspects of their personal lives?

Or are you the only one allowed to be "in the mood"?

[Nearly Done 8]

You should be grateful that you have a good personal support system. I have been a member here for over 4 years and I have shared some happy and yes some sad times on here. What we all have in common on here is the fact that we married a foreign spouse and therefore can relate to eaachother. This site was a god send went I first joined and helped me alot in the early days and now I am settled and very happy  but not for one minute would I consider a thread a "pity thread". If you feel a thread is going to be like this, then simply don't read it!  I would not disclose some personal information , but that is my choice and I won't knock anyone who does. Everyone has different ways of reaching out and rem

ember 

if you think it is a "pity thread" then maybe that person NEEDS help and support.

You have a beautiful baby

[eric&gen 0]

If you are in the mood to. Ok.

So could it be that the people you're b1tching about were also "in the mood" to share aspects of their personal lives?

Or are you the only one allowed to be "in the mood"?

I will not share any information about myself just to feed an ego make myself look bigger than everyone else try to make people smaller than me well on the inside im still the king lool.

[Mary Lou 682]

Yeah, most posts that are made by you always reference how "large" your ####### is, well in your mind anyway. So that needs to be a part of what you post on your visa journey?

[Marilyn. 340]

so sharing your ####### size is not feeding your ego???