this is for girls with an american fiance

[Alex & Rachel 78]

Does anyone notice all the hostility is coming form U.S. women.

Have you noticed that you've only replied to the US women? You've not really responded to anything the non-US women have said...

Edited March 2, 2008 by Alex & Rachel

[bora bora 1]

Does anyone notice all the hostility is coming form U.S. women.

Not US women -- women. Most of the people who post here most regularly are American, Canadian or British. But you saw above that Nessa, a Latin American, expressed the same views I have. I believe Panamania grew up in a Latin American family (could be remembering wrong though). Educated women tend to enjoy their individuality and demand to be treated as equals. I know... sucks, right?

Well said Alex...oh no, I guess I agree because my husband is from Latin America. Oops.

Well, in the Bible it does say that a woman should be submissive to her husband like a slave to his master. So I guess it's ok then - both submissive women and slaves...right?

[panamania79 2]

Does anyone notice all the hostility is coming form U.S. women.

Not US women -- women. Most of the people who post here most regularly are American, Canadian or British. But you saw above that Nessa, a Latin American, expressed the same views I have. I believe Panamania grew up in a Latin American family (could be remembering wrong though). Educated women tend to enjoy their individuality and demand to be treated as equals. I know... sucks, right?

Well said Alex...oh no, I guess I agree because my husband is from Latin America. Oops.

Well, in the Bible it does say that a woman should be submissive to her husband like a slave to his master. So I guess it's ok then - both submissive women and slaves...right?

Let's break out the whips and chains ladies .

[Jenn! 918]

You see? This is exactly the type of behavior that makes American men go looking elsewhere.

Shameful.

[Caladan 19]

Alex is right that it's advertising. Pick a country with a poor economy and poor prospects, preferably one that's far enough away to seem exotic. Paint a picture of the women as universally beautiful, submissive, and not like that American ###### who won't return your calls. Sell image to man who wishes to hit above his weight. The image will look nothing like reality, nor make any sense to someone raised in that culture, but why let a little detail like that stand in the way of some cash?

[Jenn! 918]

This was one of my favorites:

"Femininity - Last but not least, the mentality and culture of "feminism" that has taken over America has made it the most unfeminine place in the world. What American feminists (men as well as women) don't realize is that most of the rest of the world, both male and female, does NOT envy their feminism, but in fact despise it, finding it unnatural, distasteful, and UNfeminine (ironically). American feminism is rife with hypocrisy, double-standards, and dysfunctionality; yet it pervades all our modern culture, media, talk shows, sitcoms, etc., portraying women as either perpetual victims who can do no wrong, or as creatures with superior rights to men. (There are great websites that get into this in great detail, as it's beyond the scope of this summary) What this has done to the personality and behavior of women here is monstrous. Besides dress style (e.g. very few wear skirts and high heels now), their voices become coarse and rough, their mannerisms masculine, and their characters spoiled and selfish. Unlike women in the rest of the world, they aren't soft, tender, sweet, don't giggle when you say nice compliments, and don't like wearing skirts and heels. Women in the rest of the world, on the other hand, are proud of their femininity, and show it in many ways, in dress style, behavior, and attitude."

http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/6_Major_Advantages.htm

Edited March 2, 2008 by Jenn!

[Alex & Rachel 78]

Is that the same site by the man who, if you actually read all of the other pages, ends up having to pay prostitutes in Russia for sex, and then is scammed out of most of his money by one of the prostitute's pimps and still believes every word he writes? Because that was a pretty hilarious site.

I'm a little hurt that a few of the posts in this thread have been conveniently glossed over by a couple of the posters in order to make their point.

[Alex+R 0]

This was one of my favorites:

"Femininity - Last but not least, the mentality and culture of "feminism" that has taken over America has made it the most unfeminine place in the world. What American feminists (men as well as women) don't realize is that most of the rest of the world, both male and female, does NOT envy their feminism, but in fact despise it, finding it unnatural, distasteful, and UNfeminine (ironically). American feminism is rife with hypocrisy, double-standards, and dysfunctionality; yet it pervades all our modern culture, media, talk shows, sitcoms, etc., portraying women as either perpetual victims who can do no wrong, or as creatures with superior rights to men. (There are great websites that get into this in great detail, as it's beyond the scope of this summary) What this has done to the personality and behavior of women here is monstrous. Besides dress style (e.g. very few wear skirts and high heels now), their voices become coarse and rough, their mannerisms masculine, and their characters spoiled and selfish. Unlike women in the rest of the world, they aren't soft, tender, sweet, don't giggle when you say nice compliments, and don't like wearing skirts and heels. Women in the rest of the world, on the other hand, are proud of their femininity, and show it in many ways, in dress style, behavior, and attitude."

http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/6_Major_Advantages.htm

But what about this comment that follows it:

What a revelation! Actually it wasn't so much a revelation as it was comforting--comforting in the fact that I thought I was the only one to make these observations. I've never been to Europe/Russia, but I've met enough Euro/Russian women here (Los Angeles) to know that everything you say is ABSOLUTELY TRUE.

I've lived in L.A. all of my life and made these observations many years ago. L.A. has been referred to as a lonely town. Gee, I wonder why. Political correctness and "feminism" have destroyed the American female mind. Not to be anti-semitic, but Jews in media (which they completely run) and academia have played a large role in this.

Anyway, thank you so much for your keen insight. I was surprised that this was written by an Asian. Great article, great website. Keep up the great work.

D.”

[Empress of Groovy 373]

This was one of my favorites:

"Femininity - Last but not least, the mentality and culture of "feminism" that has taken over America has made it the most unfeminine place in the world. What American feminists (men as well as women) don't realize is that most of the rest of the world, both male and female, does NOT envy their feminism, but in fact despise it, finding it unnatural, distasteful, and UNfeminine (ironically). American feminism is rife with hypocrisy, double-standards, and dysfunctionality; yet it pervades all our modern culture, media, talk shows, sitcoms, etc., portraying women as either perpetual victims who can do no wrong, or as creatures with superior rights to men. (There are great websites that get into this in great detail, as it's beyond the scope of this summary) What this has done to the personality and behavior of women here is monstrous. Besides dress style (e.g. very few wear skirts and high heels now), their voices become coarse and rough, their mannerisms masculine, and their characters spoiled and selfish. Unlike women in the rest of the world, they aren't soft, tender, sweet, don't giggle when you say nice compliments, and don't like wearing skirts and heels. Women in the rest of the world, on the other hand, are proud of their femininity, and show it in many ways, in dress style, behavior, and attitude."

http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/6_Major_Advantages.htm

Would a coarse giggle be OK, as long as she's wearing heels?

[panamania79 2]

You see? This is exactly the type of behavior that makes American men go looking elsewhere.

Shameful.

Let them go elsewhere,I will not miss tham at all.

[B'sA 0]

You see? This is exactly the type of behavior that makes American men go looking elsewhere.

Shameful.

That's straight to the subject.Bravo

[Alex+R 0]

You see? This is exactly the type of behavior that makes American men go looking elsewhere.

Shameful.

That's straight to the subject.Bravo

LOL, someone turned off their sarcasm detector this morning. Oops.

[Rail 0]

Look at the picture of my fiancee. Does she look creepy? NO, she is very sweeeeet. One of the first things that she told me was, The husband is head of the wife like Jesus is head of the church. I guess he would say that is creepy too? I say it is sweet. I am good to her too. Thankyou.

He said, "Yes! That's creepy too!"

I gotta agree. That's even creepier than what you said before.

Your fiancee herself, however, appears to be very lovely, and I wouldn't say otherwise as I don't know her.

But the sentiment? I'm gonna go with "creepy."

I didnt say that she did!

Huh? Didn't say that she did what?

eta: Oh I get it. I was thrown off by the poor punctuation.

I'm sure she said it. It was a creepy thing she said.

It's not a statement on your wife overall, though.

You better get your husbands opinion on this too or maybe not, he may find it creepy.

Yup. He does.

You talk about your wife like a "good dog": you treat her well, and in return, she recognizes that you're the master. Not all men are looking to adopt a woman for a pet. Some are comfortable enough in their masculinity to not feel threatened by having an equal partner.

Thats just the way you persieve it. I just like being married to a female not a male. To be equal we would both need to be the same. Either both male or both female.

[Rail 0]

Does anyone notice all the hostility is coming form U.S. women.

Have you noticed that you've only replied to the US women? You've not really responded to anything the non-US women have said...

Thats because the hostile posts are from U.S. women.

[Alex+R 0]

Look at the picture of my fiancee. Does she look creepy? NO, she is very sweeeeet. One of the first things that she told me was, The husband is head of the wife like Jesus is head of the church. I guess he would say that is creepy too? I say it is sweet. I am good to her too. Thankyou.

He said, "Yes! That's creepy too!"

I gotta agree. That's even creepier than what you said before.

Your fiancee herself, however, appears to be very lovely, and I wouldn't say otherwise as I don't know her.

But the sentiment? I'm gonna go with "creepy."

I didnt say that she did!

Huh? Didn't say that she did what?

eta: Oh I get it. I was thrown off by the poor punctuation.

I'm sure she said it. It was a creepy thing she said.

It's not a statement on your wife overall, though.

You better get your husbands opinion on this too or maybe not, he may find it creepy.

Yup. He does.

You talk about your wife like a "good dog": you treat her well, and in return, she recognizes that you're the master. Not all men are looking to adopt a woman for a pet. Some are comfortable enough in their masculinity to not feel threatened by having an equal partner.

Thats just the way you persieve it. I just like being married to a female not a male. To be equal we would both need to be the same. Either both male or both female.

Men and women have differences which should be celebrated. But they are equally valid. So in a relationship, the input of both should be equally valuable, and the idea that one would consider a man like Jesus is preposterous, unenlightened, and actually kind of pathetic. I feel some pangs of sympathy when I read that, because I can't imagine how insecure a guy has to feel to want that.