Me & D's Visa Journey....

[Fandango 1,440]

is looking like it's pretty much over. Yes, it sucks, and no I won't go into details, and it's painful for both of us...but if it does come to pass like this, then it'll probably be for the best. This is not a rash decision as it's been coming for a while now.

I wanted to say thanks to everyone here for all the help and the friendship.

I posted this in OT cos that's where I usually post.

We have one month from yesterday left on our NOA2 approval. At this point, I'm not sure revoking it officially is the right thing to do as it's kinda up in the air at this point even though it's leaning towards not happening. But officially, I'm not sure if there's anything I NEED to do. Will it just expire?

Please no speculation on what's happened here....we both love each other an immense amount, and there are quite a few factors in play here that are quite beyond our control at this point. But it's not about infidelity or falling out of love or anything like that. I love D with all of my heart, and I don't want anyone bashing him or speculating about who did what to whom. In the spirit of disclosure, I just wanted you all to know since I spend so much time here, and if this does become official, I wanted to explain why I won't be coming back. Actually, I think it's more for myself to possibly embrace the fact that our relationship may well and truly be over. Part of accepting that fact is being honest about it and not hiding. Hahahaha....a possible goodbye thread! Wow who woulda thunk I'd be writing one of these?

I'm sure there are many on here who will take great pleasure in my pain. So it's party time for them, lolz!

[AnewKINDofFEELIN 0]

I'm sorry, Lisa. I wish you two the best.

I'm pretty sure that it will just expire and that would be the end of it.

[Ban Hammer 13,651]

i'm sorry lisa

[Ban Hammer 13,651]

I'm sure there are many on here who will take great pleasure in my pain. So it's party time for them, lolz!

oh they can bring it on. i got something for them.

[Alex+R 0]

Lisa, I'm pretty sure you'd have to be a monster to *enjoy* watching someone else lose something like that.

I'm so sorry, and I hope you will find a solution, if not now, then down the road.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

So sorry..

[sara..... 371]

hmm i dont know u so i can not say if u like u or not but even if i did know u and hated you i would feel bad for u........and for him because any break up is very sad......no matter what the reasons are......but they say that every experience in life teaches us something and that sometimes we do not know the reason for it only God knows.........we will pray for you to find peace and happyness...........no matter what the out come is of ur relationship with him.......

[Nessa 23]

sorry to hear that

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I am so sorry for the bad news Lisa. No way for the heart to heal quickly but I wish for you both the very best futures.

[Mephys 2]

Sorry to hear that

Take care of yourself

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

I'm so sorry Lisa

I wish you the best always.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

Sorry to hear. This immigration process is difficult at the best of times. To be honest - I'm actually surprised that so many relationships make it through that kind of pressure. The odds are definitely against all of us.

[churipu 4]

I'm so sorry Lisa...I still hope you'll come back here not for a goodbye thread but to tell us all you guys found a way.

[PlatyPius 5]

[SMOKE 1,426]

oh no way! Lisa don't give up. of all of us filing within the same time frame, i thought i would be making a post like this. you via PMs know some of the friction & problems me & Jen have been through. don't give up yet Lisa! you're too strong of a person to let outside interference end your journey.

if you have weighed all the options & are truely at the end. i'm so sorry for you & D. i wish you the best