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[rebeccajo 14]

You can also assure the case isn't transferred and approved without interview by leaving out the I-693a. They'll either schedule an interview or send an RFE for it. Regardless, if you become certain your relationship is over before AOS is complete, withdraw the I-864.

Well, that won't necessarily work. This community is full of people who received their greencard without submitting I693A with their file. The anecdotal evidence suggests that if the Panel Physician in the home country certified at the consulate medical to the completeness of the required vaccines, some AO's will sign off on the file without the I693A. Other site members, knowing full well their vaccines were adequate, were RFE'd for the I693A.

It's not an absolute that lack of this document will throw the case back for interview, or even generate an RFE. It's one of those inconsistencies with the service.

[TracyTN 237]

I still can't figure out why anyone would get married with this kind of doubt.

[*JG* 2]

My fiance and I will marry soon, however things are getting slightly "rocky." I dont want to get into it.

One question, if we get married, submit the paperwork for AOS, then we decide its not going to work....can she just go back to her country and I call to cancel the AOS with Immigration?

If she does this, she's obviously not allowed back in the USA, so what would the courts say when I filed for divorce??

THANKS EVERYONE!

This post makes me sad. So sorry you are having doubts.

One thing to consider is if you marry and then she goes back, without divorcing and without submitting AOS, she will not be allowed back in the US. You will have to file a K-3 or a CR-1 at that point. I know someone this very scenario is happening to.

Please take your time and consider all options before you marry.

[DanielParul 50]

I still can't figure out why anyone would get married with this kind of doubt.

Why marry when the only thing you can think of right now is how to end it eventually

[N360 0]

She can go home at any time. Cancel AOS, they won't send you a refund.

Divorce varies by state, so it may be easier to do so before she leaves. But a better idea would be to wait with getting married, you have 90 days. If things don't work out, save yourself the trouble.