Uscis has been the end of us

[Tyrobe 1]

I'm so sorry to hear this. My best wishes are with you.

[Mohgli 0]

Good bye Susie and jamie and thank you for your great help.

I wish you all the luck in the world with your spouses when you finally get reunited.

The wait was obviously too long for my husbdand.

Wish you all to be safe.

Hi

please let us know if there is any way we can help? reaching out senators? congressmen? we will do whatever it takes from our end, just let us know. consider option of Direct Consular filing or whatever it takes to get the marriage back on track.

wishing you the best and strength in this situation.

M

[Jamie&Dora 0]

Oh Dearest Christine,

I am devestated to hear this news. I can only imagine your sorrow. Furthermore i feel terribly guilty as i am visiting Dora in Hungary this week and our journey should soon be over.

Please im me if you feel up to it. Eirhter way, ill try to reach you.

Your Buddy,

jamie

[JeanneVictoria 55]

I'm very sorry

[SusieK 3]

Christine,

I am still here hun just when you come online lets chat please - do me one favor tho read this its from JEN's post and its her signature....

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

DO not let USCIS and the powers to be do this to you.

S

[Kris and Susiek 0]

Good bye Susie and jamie and thank you for your great help.

I wish you all the luck in the world with your spouses when you finally get reunited.

The wait was obviously too long for my husbdand.

Wish you all to be safe.

Christine,

Please come back online we can talk hun i read what you said....dont let them get the better of you and John - you are both good people and this is a test of patience and your case has been that as has others. Please im me when you come online pleasseeeee........

xxxxxxxxxx

Christine Please do come back and talk to Susie even just to say hi As Susie says dont let them win for there can only be one winner and that is all of us your friends are here for you all you have to do is call one of them and talk please

Hope the gods see fit to reunite you x

Kris

[doodlebugg 10]

This process certainly does test one's patience. Sorry it didn't work out for you.

[MsZ 6]

Looking at your timeline, I find it hard to believe that he would blame any problems on USCIS. I have to think it is a cop-out.

[Nita&Assaad 0]

I am so sorry to hear what has happen!! I know the process can be very, very hard!!! You are a wonderful and beautiful person, You will prevail... Sorry to hear that your husband's patience was pushed to the limited

My thoughts are with you

Nita

[✿Ice Rain✿ 0]

omg.. i feel your heartaches.. i am so sorry... hope things will still be fixed between you and your husband.. (L)

[Jamie&Dora 0]

Looking at your timeline, I find it hard to believe that he would blame any problems on USCIS. I have to think it is a cop-out.

MsZ,

I dont know you at all, but blast you for sending such an insensitive and judgmental post.

signed,

jamie d. woyton

[MsZ 6]

Sorry, but that's my take. The wait is difficult but based on their timeline, how that alone could break up an otherwise healthy couple is beyond me. So I would put my money on something else and that USCIS is being made the scapegoat. I've seen enough LDRs faulter because of third parties to be skeptical especially when they haven't been married for that long. And if he's giving USCIS as the reason, I would be skeptical. I think the poster should consider alternative explanations for her situation. I think he's full of it.

[Jamie&Dora 0]

Sorry, but that's my take. The wait is difficult but based on their timeline, how that alone could break up an otherwise healthy couple is beyond me. So I would put my money on something else and that USCIS is being made the scapegoat. I've seen enough LDRs faulter because of third parties to be skeptical especially when they haven't been married for that long. And if he's giving USCIS as the reason, I would be skeptical. I think the poster should consider alternative explanations for her situation. I think he's full of it.

MsZ,

Forgive me for my take. I know Christine far more than you. Furthermore, her relations with her husband predate my ralations with my wife by 4 years. I dont expect you to know these things, but i hope in the future you might consider that all of these stories of these members are personal and sensitive to all of us. As a member of this sight far longer than i, i would expect more sensitivity to tragedy from you.

I ask you, before you posted, did your read her profile, did you read her posts, did you try to learn about the topic prior to YOUR post?

To this I challenge you. Still, in my opinion your fired off a quick online post to something quite terrible. AGAIN i challenge you to examine yourself as to your post. And I challenge anyone reading, if you feel you must fire off a quick post to anyone who posts difficult news, please do so with kindness and not judgement. There is nothing wrong with inqiry, but there is something wrong with pre judgment. If you have reason to inquire harshly, then do so by PM.

I DO wish you peace, but my heart is still bleeding for Christine, and hence from that comes my dissapointment at your post. Can you not from her simple post see pain???? Every other post but yours sees the pain as clear as the noon day sun,

jamie

P.s. I hope you dont see the world like your post.

[*Snowdrop* 604]

Sorry, but that's my take. The wait is difficult but based on their timeline, how that alone could break up an otherwise healthy couple is beyond me. So I would put my money on something else and that USCIS is being made the scapegoat. I've seen enough LDRs faulter because of third parties to be skeptical especially when they haven't been married for that long. And if he's giving USCIS as the reason, I would be skeptical. I think the poster should consider alternative explanations for her situation. I think he's full of it.

MsZ,

Forgive me for my take. I know Christine far more than you. Furthermore, her relations with her husband predate my ralations with my wife by 4 years. I dont expect you to know these things, but i hope in the future you might consider that all of these stories of these members are personal and sensitive to all of us. As a member of this sight far longer than i, i would expect more sensitivity to tragedy from you.

I ask you, before you posted, did your read her profile, did you read her posts, did you try to learn about the topic prior to YOUR post?

To this I challenge you. Still, in my opinion your fired off a quick online post to something quite terrible. AGAIN i challenge you to examine yourself as to your post. And I challenge anyone reading, if you feel you must fire off a quick post to anyone who posts difficult news, please do so with kindness and not judgement. There is nothing wrong with inqiry, but there is something wrong with pre judgment. If you have reason to inquire harshly, then do so by PM.

I DO wish you peace, but my heart is still bleeding for Christine, and hence from that comes my dissapointment at your post. Can you not from her simple post see pain???? Every other post but yours sees the pain as clear as the noon day sun,

jamie

P.s. I hope you dont see the world like your post.

Well said Jamie, let's not get distracted - the point of this topic is to give support to the OP, Christine - I hope you are okay. I'm sorry you are going through this.

[MsZ 6]

I'm not going to defend my opinion because you don't like it. I never questioned her pain. I questioned his reason.