Problem My K1 visa applicant is here I suspect fraud

[Jenn! 918]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

Another one of those incredibly stupid comments!

Once again, bigoted opinon based on nothing more than narrow minded prejudice.

Sorry, kaydee, I fail to see how that is a bigoted opinion. Do you not believe that the percentage of fraud cases is higher with a larger age difference? Why do the consulates examine those cases more closely? They are bigoted as well?

You are right, however, that this is all besides the point.

We all wish Robert the best, I hope.

[tmma 467]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

Another one of those incredibly stupid comments!

Once again, bigoted opinon based on nothing more than narrow minded prejudice.

What the heck is wrong with some people?????

Matt, you might think that fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality-but they don't.

Robert is hurt right now and looking for support.

matt,I really thought ( after reading alot of your posts and your webpage) that you were far more intelligent than that!

Hmmm...

Robert-ignore the useless, pointless comments and soldier on!

regards

Michele

Edited April 27, 2006 by tmma

[Jenn! 918]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

What the heck is wrong with some people?????

Matt, you might think that fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality-but they don't.

Where in his post does Matt say that "fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality"? Is it insensitive to merely point out the fact that fraud happens more often in cases with certain characteristics than others? Come on!

[Jaylen Brit 0]

[tmma 467]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

What the heck is wrong with some people?????

Matt, you might think that fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality-but they don't.

Where in his post does Matt say that "fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality"? Is it insensitive to merely point out the fact that fraud happens more often in cases with certain characteristics than others? Come on!

Yeah-Matt didn't say ONE Nationality...etc...I stand corrected.

However; i still stand by my basic point I believe it IS insensitive to point it out to someone who obviously is hurting, feeling let down and going through all kinds of stuff right now.

Fraudulent visas are a fact of life...but not just limited to people with ages differences.

I still think it was insensitive and pointless of both Matt and Ryecatcher to use Robert's misfortune to point this out. that's all.

But thank you for correcting me....

Edited April 27, 2006 by tmma

[Jenn! 918]

Yeah-Matt didn't say ONE Nationality...etc...I stand corrected.

However; i still stand by my basic point I believe it IS insensitive to point it out to someone who obviously is hurting, feeling let down and going through all kinds of stuff right now.

Fraudulent visas are a fact of life...but not just limited to people with ages differences.

I still think it was insensitive and pointless of both Matt and Ryecatcher to use Robert's misfortune to point this out. that's all.

But thank you for correcting me....

Agreed. Probably wasn't the best time to point it out.

[David&Erin_Owens 0]

[Baileyj96 0]

So sorry for all the pain and worry you must be going through. I hope you can find a solution that will solve what you are going through and help you get through all of this.

Now just a comment on the rest. I don't understand why people can't just answer the question that was ask. Why do some on here find it a need to comment, judge and ask questions about his relationship that aren't necessary? He already stated that this was embarrassing for him..... He had a few specific questions that he wanted a answer to. I think the first few post were more than enough for him to figure out what he needs to do. Please ........if you have an answer to the questions then by all means give them. If you want to post your condolences then great. If you want to judge and drag people through the dirt , then why not give him a break and keep your comments to yourself.

Sorry, I don't usually post much but I just don't understand why one simple post by a man who is obviously hurting, needs to go on and on until it's completely off from the original post. I've seen this happen so many times. It's just like a pack of wolves stalking prey.

Baileyj

[Dixie_Peach 1]

JB... will you share the popcorn? I'll get the drinks...

[noura 0]

I'm w/ both of you!!!

I wish Robert the best tho, thru this painful time.... I hope you find what you need to move on!

Noura

[Nessa 23]

Now just a comment on the rest. I don't understand why people can't just answer the question that was ask. Why do some on here find it a need to comment, judge and ask questions about his relationship that aren't necessary? He already stated that this was embarrassing for him..... He had a few specific questions that he wanted a answer to. I think the first few post were more than enough for him to figure out what he needs to do. Please ........if you have an answer to the questions then by all means give them. If you want to post your condolences then great. If you want to judge and drag people through the dirt , then why not give him a break and keep your comments to yourself.

Baileyj

He asked for people's opinion, he should expect that. People would judge, that was also expected. I'm sure he was aware of that when he posted here and he's a big man, he can handle it.

[almaty 19]

i have known robert case since i was on nsc awhile back..i am truly sorry as you have had a difficult time getting her here...with the nsc...etc. i wish you the best..ignore the chopf##ks that love to kick a person when they are down to inflate their small azz ego ..and i wish you the best..dean

[sukie175 0]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

What the heck is wrong with some people?????

Matt, you might think that fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality-but they don't. As I said earlier, I still wish you the best Robert and am very sorry

Where in his post does Matt say that "fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality"? Is it insensitive to merely point out the fact that fraud happens more often in cases with certain characteristics than others? Come on!

I also think this point cannot be ignored, to do so or to attack it is jusy naivety. Having said that we all know this is not true in the the majority of large age difference cases, but sometimes and with some nationalities, very sadly it is. Robert as I said before very sorry and wish you an easy route out.

Edited April 27, 2006 by sukie175

[kaydee457 13]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

What the heck is wrong with some people?????

Matt, you might think that fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality-but they don't. As I said earlier, I still wish you the best Robert and am very sorry

Where in his post does Matt say that "fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality"? Is it insensitive to merely point out the fact that fraud happens more often in cases with certain characteristics than others? Come on!

I also think this point cannot be ignored, to do so or to attack it is jusy naivety. Having said that we all know this is not true in the the majority of large age difference cases, but sometimes and with some nationalities, very sadly it is. Robert as I said before very sorry and wish you an easy route out.

This is where the bigotry and narrow-mindedness comes to the surface. Where in Robert's posting has he ever mentioned the age difference as the *defacto* causal element in this unfortunate situation?

Unfortunately, it only exists in the minds of some readers of this thread. A few here assume this to be the reason for possible fraud. Could it be that she simply never loved him, regardless of age?

For those of you that do not know the definition of bigot here it is;

bigot

One entry found for bigot.

Main Entry: big·ot

Pronunciation: 'bi-g&t

Function: noun

Etymology: Middle French, hypocrite, bigot

: a person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices

- big·ot·ed /-g&-t&d/ adjective

- big·ot·ed·ly adverb

[Jenn! 918]

I think it is perfectly OK to point out that older men in this country are putting a loaded pistol to their head and hoping it doesn't go off when getting involved with a much younger woman from overseas. The chances for fraud are greater than the chances she is honest and loves you. This is just a simple fact that cannot be avoided.

Of course, that doesn't change the pain Robert is going through and my heart goes out to him. I hope she gets her @ss deported because that is what she deserves.

What the heck is wrong with some people?????

Matt, you might think that fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality-but they don't. As I said earlier, I still wish you the best Robert and am very sorry

Where in his post does Matt say that "fraudulent visa applicants only come in ONE age group, sex and nationality"? Is it insensitive to merely point out the fact that fraud happens more often in cases with certain characteristics than others? Come on!

I also think this point cannot be ignored, to do so or to attack it is jusy naivety. Having said that we all know this is not true in the the majority of large age difference cases, but sometimes and with some nationalities, very sadly it is. Robert as I said before very sorry and wish you an easy route out.

This is where the bigotry and narrow-mindedness comes to the surface. Where in Robert's posting has he ever mentioned the age difference as the *defacto* causal element in this unfortunate situation?

Unfortunately, it only exists in the minds of some readers of this thread. A few here assume this to be the reason for possible fraud. Could it be that she simply never loved him, regardless of age?

For those of you that do not know the definition of bigot here it is;

bigot

One entry found for bigot.

Main Entry: big·ot

Pronunciation: 'bi-g&t

Function: noun

Etymology: Middle French, hypocrite, bigot

: a person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices

- big·ot·ed /-g&-t&d/ adjective

- big·ot·ed·ly adverb

Could it be that you are hypersensitive this because of the age spread in your own relationship? No one ever said that a large age spread would necessarily indicate fraud. There's no reason for name calling here. And thank you for the dictionary definition, but I think most of us are aware of what a bigot is.