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MaryandMian Mentor

MaryandMian   1

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Take care of yourself and wishing you all the best in this matter.

Mary

Everything I respond to is from personal knowledge, research or experience and I am in no means a lawyer or do I claim to be one. Everyone should read, research and be responsible for your own journey.

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I am back from Disneyland, I saw some suggest we go. I had booked the trip before Johanna got here. The email activity has slowed. I figured we needed to spend some time alone together to fall in love again. It has been a difficult road when I know more than I should. I am takinging it day by day and being very careful. I thank you for all your on topic thoughts and advice. I will contiune to update the saga as I know more.

Being Careful in Seattle

Robert

Robert,

Email activity "slowing" might feel like a step in the right direction for you, but to an outsider whose vision is not influenced by strong emotional bonds, "email activity has ceased. And all explanations and apologies offered" would be the step you should be looking for. Giving someone a second chance is admirable...but a word to the wise...While you are trying to repair the breach of trust, be watchful of behaviourisms and "look with your brain" not with your heart. Best of luck.

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I am back from Disneyland, I saw some suggest we go. I had booked the trip before Johanna got here. The email activity has slowed. I figured we needed to spend some time alone together to fall in love again. It has been a difficult road when I know more than I should. I am takinging it day by day and being very careful. I thank you for all your on topic thoughts and advice. I will contiune to update the saga as I know more.

Being Careful in Seattle

Robert

Robert... I'm still praying for you... and wishing you the best. Let God lead you in the steps that you need to take.

Lynne

Tho' lovers be lost, love shall not... and death shall have NO dominion!

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to where the grace of God will not protect you.

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All good wishes Robert - I hope you get the end result you hope for but either way I wish you all the very best for the future (F)

Applied for K1

Met online 2001 - just aquaintances

Sept 2002 - 1st US visit - everything goes perfectly.

Dec 20th - Forms recev'd at CSC

Dec 27th - NOA1 received by snail mail!

Dec 29th - 'Touched'

March 10 2006 - NOA2!

March 23 - recv'd at NVC

March 24 - petition sent to London

April 9th - Pkt 3 rec'd!

May 17th - Pkt 3 signed for at London Embassy

May 24th - Medical

May24th - Pkt 4

June 14th - Interview 10am - APPROVED 1pm!!

June 16th - Visas received in my hot little hands 1pm :)

July 19th - flying to US!

July 27th - Married!! :-)

Aug 7th - Applied for SSN in married name

Aug 9th - SSN received

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I suspected something was up so I installed a software on my computer to track email and messenger. She is professing her love to someone and making plans to flee in the country. ...

Robert

Just a thought, is that legal? I mean installing programs to track e-mail and messenger? Can you use it against her without causing you any problems later? Cuz if that's not legal you have nothing to do but talk to her, you won't be able to use that as evidence of anything and she'll use that against you.

Nope its legal, as long as its his computer, and its in his home...yup its legal.

  • Feb 13th Applied for I129F
  • May 3rd I129F Approved and sent to Department of State for processing.
  • **Waiting for Notice of I129F approval to show up in the mail!**
  • NOA2 Showed up in mail Wed 24th May 2006
  • ** Nervous as all hell - Still no Instruction packet**
  • ** 27th June Email - Saying Application Approved??? **
  • July 7th Packet 3 Arrived (First one went missing? - this one was marked 'duplicate')
  • Pack 4 arrived 31st July
  • Appointment 18th Aug

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Robert,

Email activity "slowing" might feel like a step in the right direction for you, but to an outsider whose vision is not influenced by strong emotional bonds, "email activity has ceased. And all explanations and apologies offered" would be the step you should be looking for. Giving someone a second chance is admirable...but a word to the wise...While you are trying to repair the breach of trust, be watchful of behaviourisms and "look with your brain" not with your heart. Best of luck.

Well put. If this were to happen to me, I would never be able to trust her again. I would always try to second guess and think the worst about everything she says and does. Unfortunately, this kind of thing is like a slow acting poison.

Good luck with whatever decision you make.

08/07/05 - Traveled to Bangkok on business.

08/23/05 - Met Paveena in Bangkok.

03/25/06 - Spent a total of 6 months in Thailand, back to USA.

04/12/06 - Sent I-129F to NSC

04/19/06 - Check cashed

04/22/06 - Received NOA1

06/01/06 - Case transfered to CSC.

06/02/06 - Touched

06/03/06 - Touched

06/05/06 - Angry as hell at the government for its incompetence in handling the IMBRA law

06/14/06 - Touched with a NOA1 notice from CSC. Great. Next time the government decides to take over health care or some other important/large enterprise, remember the IMBRA fiasco and be glad you were not waiting for a heart transplant.

06/15/06 - Touched

06/16/06 - Touched

06/17/06 - Touched

07/03/06 - RFE for IMBRA

07/05/06 - RFE Sent back to CSC

07/11/06 - Touched

07/17/06 - Notice that IMBRA RFE was received and is in the system

08/05/06 - NOA2 Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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john_and_marlene   162

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Not to be mean, but I don't think you are thinking with your brain. You have been used for entry to the U.S. and you are holding onto a hope that is not there. I don't intend for this post to be anything but an outside view looking objectively at the facts. You have been used and should not allow it to continue. You will not find lasting happiness in this situration.

05/16/2005 I-129F Sent

05/28/2005 I-129F NOA1

06/21/2005 I-129F NOA2

07/18/2005 Consulate Received package from NVC

11/09/2005 Medical

11/16/2005 Interview APPROVED

12/05/2005 Visa received

12/07/2005 POE Minneapolis

12/17/2005 Wedding

12/20/2005 Applied for SSN

01/14/2005 SSN received in the mail

02/03/2006 AOS sent (Did not apply for EAD or AP)

02/09/2006 NOA

02/16/2006 Case status Online

05/01/2006 Biometrics Appt.

07/12/2006 AOS Interview APPROVED

07/24/2006 GC arrived

05/02/2007 Driver's License - Passed Road Test!

05/27/2008 Lifting of Conditions sent (TSC > VSC)

06/03/2008 Check Cleared

07/08/2008 INFOPASS (I-551 stamp)

07/08/2008 Driver's License renewed

04/20/2009 Lifting of Conditions approved

04/28/2009 Card received in the mail

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Lizzy   0

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Wow this is a shite situation for ANY human being to be in, i'm so sorry.

I actually cryed when i read your post......((hugs))

I dont know you but i hope so bad that you get your situation sorted out.

Please do take care of yourself sweetie, but please keep an eye out for things that may trigger any feelings this is still happening, i think it would be much worse if you found out it was happening after you married your lady.

K1

September 15 - 2005: NOA1

October: Waiting

November: Waiting

December: In Security checks

January 2006: Waiting

February: Waiting..Contacted Congress

March 4th: APPROVED

March 17th: NVC posted file to London

March 20th: London Receives file

March 29th: Receive package 3

April 13th: London Receives package

April 19th: Medical - June 13th: INTERVIEW......APPROVED!!!!

June 20th: ARRIVE IN USA

Time taken for whole process 9 Months

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AOS

October: 13th: Sent off AOS Package

November 3rd: NOA1

November 14th: Snail mail ~ NOA1 ~ Case moved to the CSC for faster processing.

November 14th : CSC has petition for me and my daughter.

December 14th: Biometrics completed.

January 17th: APPROVED AOS!

January 22nd: Green card arrives in the mail:))

Time taken for AOS - 3.5 Months

Finished for 2 years.

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Yes, Robert, just please be careful.

My first husband was a cheater. Big time. I forgave but the trust was never there again. The words 'slow acting poison' used above are so appropriate. And deceit can take so many forms - it's not just about affairs. A person who hides things will behave that way about many issues - money, family matters, even goals or desires. After my ex gave up other women, he shifted his deceit to money. Just as a cheater can blame the innocent spouse by saying 'he or she didn't satisfy my emotional/physical needs' a liar will blame the important people in their lives for their own insecurities not being met as well. Believe it or not, a skilled manipulator can make you feel like it's you that is to blame.

Please tred wisely.

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disneyland is always a great way to repair a relationship! :thumbs::lol:

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“The truth is incontrovertible, malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end; there it is.”

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I am back from Disneyland, I saw some suggest we go. I had booked the trip before Johanna got here. The email activity has slowed. I figured we needed to spend some time alone together to fall in love again. It has been a difficult road when I know more than I should. I am takinging it day by day and being very careful. I thank you for all your on topic thoughts and advice. I will contiune to update the saga as I know more.

Being Careful in Seattle

Robert

Hell! If doing and saying the right things to someone guarantees and secures me a fully paid trip to a place I've never been to before, I'd do them in a heartbeat, even moreso if I was an immigrant in the US for the very first time!

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mrswooten4ever   0

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I am back from Disneyland, I saw some suggest we go. I had booked the trip before Johanna got here. The email activity has slowed. I figured we needed to spend some time alone together to fall in love again. It has been a difficult road when I know more than I should. I am takinging it day by day and being very careful. I thank you for all your on topic thoughts and advice. I will contiune to update the saga as I know more.

Being Careful in Seattle

Robert

Good luck to you Robert and yes be cautious but only you know what is right for you (F)

Adele

> Texas have received out application and cashed the cheque!

We got our NOA1 as at 26 Oct 2005!

Sent to CSC 26 Oct 2005

NOA2 26 Jan 2006

Sent to Embassy 9 Feb 2006

Embassy sent pk3 21 feb 2006

Recd and return pk3 27 feb

Medical 8 March

recd pk4 11 April

Interview 10 May

Visa Approved 10 May

Visa Received 13 May

Fly to Memphis 21 june

Married 1 September

AOS NOA1 23 Jan 2007

Case transferred to Missourri

Case transferred back to CSC feb 01

Card in the mail March 05

Case approved March 005

Welcome to America Letters received March 08

Filed for lifting of conditions - received in Vermont Jan 20 2009

I-797C NOA received Jan 26 2009

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