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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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I saw Robert on this thread about 2 hours ago. I'm pretty sure that hashing the age difference isn't doing anything to help him feel less embarrassed about his situation. And it doesn't matter if he shouldn't feel embarrassed....he said he was - those are his feelings - and right now he could use our support.

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You cannot "reason" with me because the lot of you have the same presumption that most western women have......

like I said, bigots.

And you, sir, - could you try being a little less pompous? Unless it's too much bother to come off your self-appointed pillar?

Robert, the MAJORITY of us hope that you take care of yourself first and foremost and we feel bad about what has happened.

Take care. (F)

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Can we NOT turn this into a flame thread when there´s a fellow VJer overstressed with a very difficult situation?

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Robert... I am sorry that you are hurting... and again, I would just like to say that I will be praying for you. I won't offer advice, I think you need to listen to your heart and to your instincts.

*hugs*

Lynne

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HOLY #######!!! I have just wasted a good portion of my LIFE wading through all the flaming going on here! This is crazy!

Robert, I'm sooooo sorry this happened to you! I really don't know what advice to give you about this because I can see the pros and cons of both sides... if you confront her she might claim abuse but if you don't confront her then you might be misunderstanding so you need to talk to her to get it all out in the open. Seems like a very difficult situation for you to be in. :(

One thing I haven't seen anyone comment on is the affidavit of support that he filed for her... what happens with that? If she flees is he still responsible to support her??? I sure hope not!

Again Robert I'm really sorry for you and I wish you the best of luck. (F)

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: England
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We are so upset to hear your story Robert.. and we are concerned for you. After reading 10 pages of threads we haven't seen another posting from you and can't help but wonder how you are holding up. Please know that your friends here on VJ are keeping you in our thoughts...

Crash and Cari

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i think robert is a proud man and came here for assistance only.,.when a few posters got into other areas..he moved on

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: England
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I have to agree with brother dean.. i was extremely upset reading this thread and seeing how far off topic it was going.. this thread was about one of us reaching out and it turned into a debate (or two)...

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Crash (UK) and Cari (NYC) Two lives, two hearts joined together in friendship united forever in LOVE

July 17, 2005 - HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE - OUR WEDDING DAY!!!!!

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8/8/05 - sent I-130 to Vermont

8/18/05 received NOA!!

9/9/05 I-130 APPROVED!!

2/13/06 CASE COMPLETE per NVC - got letter on 2/25/06

3/28/06 - INTERVIEW SCHEDULED FOR 5/2/06 @ 10:30 A.M.

Medical scheduled for 4/10/06 - everything went great!!

5/2/06 - INTERVIEW - APPROVED !!

5/20/06 - Crash came home to NY for good!!

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I-751

3/24/08 sent in petition to VSC

3/25/08 FedEx confirmed-package received

3/28/08 check cleared bank

3/31/08 received NOA1-extension (dated 3/25/08)!!

4/7/08 received NOA2-biometrics appt (dated 4/3/08)!

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Algeria
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HOLY #######!!! I have just wasted a good portion of my LIFE wading through all the flaming going on here! This is crazy!

Robert, I'm sooooo sorry this happened to you! I really don't know what advice to give you about this because I can see the pros and cons of both sides... if you confront her she might claim abuse but if you don't confront her then you might be misunderstanding so you need to talk to her to get it all out in the open. Seems like a very difficult situation for you to be in. :(

One thing I haven't seen anyone comment on is the affidavit of support that he filed for her... what happens with that? If she flees is he still responsible to support her??? I sure hope not!

Again Robert I'm really sorry for you and I wish you the best of luck. (F)

I wonder about that too, the affadavit of support... but I guess if he shows that he tried his damndest to get her out of the country... ?

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Robert sorry to hear this news. (F)

I hope things will get better for you soon.

I am sure this is most difficult for you right now.

For the people on here that have to ALWAYS be so rude and mean. GET A DAM LIFE.

I would really hate to be your SO if you act this way on here. A good man came on here for help and some of you had to turn it around and kick him when he is down. Get a dam heart. Probley took that man a lot of courage to come on here and post that. Give him some incouragement, not ###### about his age and why you think it failed. Some of ya need to grow up for real.

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Peggy... :thumbs:

Exactly what I was thinking...

Compassion would be a good start. We could ALL quite easily be standing in the same shoes.

Robert, if you see this, I want you to know you have been in thoughts, in my prayers, and in my heart for days. I wish you peace and comfort, my friend.

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Tread softly because you tread on my dreams"

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The Affidavit of Support should be the least of his worries, however, it's a valid question. In any case, it's not legally binding, and due to the restrictions on the K-1, the Affidavit only obliges the sponsor while the alien is in the USA until the approval of a valid I-864 that accompanied the submission for adjustment of status. Once she fails to marry him, or marries someone else (she'll be in for a surprise to find out that she can't adjust that way) or her I-94 expires, her status as a prospective immediate relative beneficiary expires and the Affidvait falls with it. In the event that Robert would alert ICE to her intentions and the withdrawal of his intention to marry, I believe the Affidavit would be nullified.

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Robert hope you are fairing well and wanted to let you know that you do have people concerned and praying for you.

Mary

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Everything I respond to is from personal knowledge, research or experience and I am in no means a lawyer or do I claim to be one. Everyone should read, research and be responsible for your own journey.

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Robert.. Hugs... I hope you find the strength and help you need to face this difficult situtation.

You trusted your Heart.. she is the one not representing herself as she stated.

I agree that DOCUMENTATION is what is clearly needed... Talk to some authorities.. especially expressing the questions on protecting yourself on possible allergations of ABUSE... You dont even have to touch her for a person to make false claims... and in the long run .. the one claiming to be the victim is the one the law will normally stand to listen to .. so keep documents clear on your suspicions. I hope and pray it is just a misunderstanding... dont forget.. cultural and communication differences can be partially to blame here as well.. but .. all said and done.. you got to follow your instincts..

My prays and thought go out to you it is not a simple situation to be in (F) .. ..

.....COME ON PEOPLE. PLAY NICE.. ...

I now totally understand why I have been a member on VJ for way over a year and still only have like 4 or 5 blue dots.. ... .. it is simply for this reason of the flaming that is done when one request clarification to their situation that I find it hard to respond... and .. dont think that just cause you are lit up like a candle with hearts or blue dots on how much you post means a thing... other than . you post alot.. .. sometimes it is just as important to read all the posts.. .. not necessarily reponding. .. ... things like what is being posted here.. simply leaves a rather empty hole in my heart... it is just not right :crying:

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caring isn't caring unless the other person knows;

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