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Black men prefering non-black women is an issue for a lot of black women. You simply don't see as many black women in mixed race couples as you do black men. I don't know if there are any black women reading here who care to comment, but if they do, they may have something to share that may be more useful than being offended or calling people idiots.

My opinions about the participants of this article are justified. Specifically, the one sided opinions presented. Moreover, people that fail to recognize the perspectives of others.

No member of VJ was attacked, which is the mission I am here to support. :)

Of course you believe your opinions are justified; they're your opinions. What did I say that was wrong?

Was it that Black men prefering non-black women is an issue for a lot of black women?

Was it that you simply don't see as many black women in mixed race couples as you do black men?

Was it that a black woman may have something to share that may be more useful than being offended or calling people idiots?

None of my commentary was offensive, and I think it was justified. Since no black women have shared their thoughts about the issue, there are unexplored areas beyond being offended and calling people idiots.

Read my post again. I highlighted the pertinent points for you.

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IMO the entire article was offensive, and filled with silly stereotyping.

The white lady started it all... And i believe she got what she wanted even more than she asked for

So, it's okay to spew racist bull$#it if someone else did it first? I just want to be sure I understand the rules :unsure:

Yes, I think it's okay to sometimes match someone's overt offensiveness by reflecting it right back on them like a mirror if the intention is to point out the absurdity of it all. Context comes into play as well...the intended audience was the readers of that magazine.

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Ahaha, nice topic.

But all I have to say is, destiny had already set someone for a man/woman, whether the partner is black or white or others, just leave it.

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I think the white woman got burnt LOL

Exactly. :yes:

So it's ok to throw around offensive stereotypes as long as you're teaching someone a lesson?

As long as the victim is white.

White women are easier than black women?

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This whole topic is ridiculous. Are there docile easy white women? yes. Are there loud, overweight domineering black women? yes Are there virtuous, strong intelligent black women? yes Are there Virtous strong intelligent white women? yes. And there are women of each stereotype of both colors and women everywhere in between. To even ask or answer this question just shows the stupidity or ignorance of both parties.

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Ha Ha! This is funny. Its an old article that came out YEARS ago. Well as a Black woman, I can say that I have dated the whole United Nations of races and ethnicities so I never saw the issue of Black women not being in cross-racial relationships.

I think the guy in the article was being as crude as the original woman was...so in that case he made his point. Both points were a tad extreme but I gotta say that the comments and reasons he made about why Black men choose to date white women.....I've heard that alot...from Black men. Now nothing is ever 100% final so I am sure there are just as many cases of Black men dating outside there race for legitimate and loving realtionships, but the comment he made is also a reason why Black men date other races. Truth hurts, yes, but it still doesn't take away that its the truth.

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Ha Ha! This is funny. Its an old article that came out YEARS ago. Well as a Black woman, I can say that I have dated the whole United Nations of races and ethnicities so I never saw the issue of Black women not being in cross-racial relationships.

I think the guy in the article was being as crude as the original woman was...so in that case he made his point. Both points were a tad extreme but I gotta say that the comments and reasons he made about why Black men choose to date white women.....I've heard that alot...from Black men. Now nothing is ever 100% final so I am sure there are just as many cases of Black men dating outside there race for legitimate and loving realtionships, but the comment he made is also a reason why Black men date other races. Truth hurts, yes, but it still doesn't take away that its the truth.

Truth hurts for real :thumbs:

02/02/2008:- Filed AOS

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12/02/2008:- Received NOA for I-485 and I-765

19/02/2008:-Received Biometric appointment

03/03/2008:-RFE (I-485)

11/03/2008:-RFE mailed back

17/03/2008:-AOS touched, and case processing has resumed

08/05/2008:-Made Infopass appointment in Atlanta for Friday 16th

21/05/2008:-EAD Card production ordered

22/05/2008:-EAD Touched

27/05/2008:-EAD Card Production ordered again

27/05/2008:-Case transferred to CSC' I am K3 Holder,This is Strange Folks

29/05/2008:-Approval notice sent for EAD

29/05/2008:-AOS touched

30/05/2008:-EAD received

03/06/2008:-AOS touched"pending at CSC"

04/06/2008:-AOS touched

04/06/2008:-Transfer notice received

06/06/2008:-AOS touched

18/06/2008:-AOS touched

19/06/2008:-AOS touched

08/07/2008:-AOS transferred back to NBC***CSC SUCKS***

09/07/2008:-AOS touched

14/07/2008:-AOS transferred to another office...I guess my local office :-S

17/11/2008:- Interview noticed received for 13/01/2009

13/01/2009:- AOS Interview APPROVED!!!!!!

16/01/2009:- Card production ordered

19/01/2009:- AOS touched

23/01/2009:- Card production ordered again

26/01/2009:- Welcome letter received

28/01/2009:- Approval notice sent

29/01/2009:- AOS touched

30/01-2009:- I never thought I'd be typing this ---->10years green card received... USCIS, see you when I see you

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I think the white woman got burnt LOL

She sure did :yes:

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I think the white woman got burnt LOL

Exactly. :yes:

So it's ok to throw around offensive stereotypes as long as you're teaching someone a lesson?

As long as the victim is white.

White women are easier than black women?

http://www.teenpregnancy.org/america/stati...ID=3&sID=20

:lol:

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Why do idiots always get the interviews? VJ'ers could provide some useful interview material.

Because the smart people have better things to do than stick around and provide "interview material" in order to feel self-important.

In college, I was told that black people can not, by definition, be racist. So the argument is moot. Of course he's not being racist. He's just being a tard.

I love that idea -- it's so twisted, only a college professor could spout it off. I've always thought that racism, by definition, was the act of employing discriminatory practices to the point of exclusion, restriction or preference based on race, color, descent, or national/ethnic origin. So yes, racism can be perpetrated against African Americans; however, it can also happen to anyone else as well, since everyone could fit into at least one of those categories. African Americans could (and have) discriminated against others and will most likely continue to do so, since they are human.

IMO the entire article was offensive, and filled with silly stereotyping.

The white lady started it all... And i believe she got what she wanted even more than she asked for

So, it's okay to spew racist bull$#it if someone else did it first? I just want to be sure I understand the rules :unsure:

Yes, I think it's okay to sometimes match someone's overt offensiveness by reflecting it right back on them like a mirror if the intention is to point out the absurdity of it all. Context comes into play as well...the intended audience was the readers of that magazine.

Well, it's nice to know that "two wrongs make a right." :whistle:

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