from a moroccan forum discussing white marriage or marriage for papers

[unpatient 0]

And the sad thing is there's a woman somewhere that will go with this BS!

I actually found this post on a berber forum. i read it , read it again and was kind of shocked to see it in writing

but let me tell you a flip side. I actually know of one moroccan guy who married for papers, got his american wife pregnant and had a moroccan girlfriend on the side from back home. The moroccan guy decided he loved the "fat american" and decided to stay with her much to the furor of the moroccan girl.

I posted this post because I thought it gave a little insight into the perception of American women by SOME not all Moroccan women and how they view cross cultural marriages. The weirdness comes into play when the "man" does NOT leave the '"greencard" after he gets his papers. Then it becomes a guessing game for the "native" girls as to why he stayed the course with the "greencard".

Its perplexing to some North Africans when the SO stays with the person who sponsored them and does NOT return home and marry one of their own. Love really does rule sometimes, yes... and when it does its confusing often to those who thought they knew the score.....

Well i guess im one of those ladys you talked about, Only thing is i have been to morocco, i have met his family and friends. And i had been over there, and i love it over there.I love his famliy and they love me. And my family has met his family. And we love each other very much. You cant jugde people from what other people do , not all moroccan men are like that.

[morocco4ever 63]

It's a form a jealously that these North African women display...

They think of all the negative stereo types of "western women" and compare that to their own perceived "noble qualities."

Really, displays the smallness of their minds.

However, that being said....there are still some scoundrels out their who do prey on lonely western women.

[ya falaha! 0]

Uh oh not this again!

Any woman who is insecure will talk about their "noble" attributes and talk down about women they're "jealous" of. Doesn't matter where they come from.

It's a form a jealously that these North African women display...

They think of all the negative stereo types of "western women" and compare that to their own perceived "noble qualities."

Really, displays the smallness of their minds.

However, that being said....there are still some scoundrels out their who do prey on lonely western women.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Uh oh not this again!

Any woman who is insecure will talk about their "noble" attributes and talk down about women they're "jealous" of. Doesn't matter where they come from.

It's a form a jealously that these North African women display...

They think of all the negative stereo types of "western women" and compare that to their own perceived "noble qualities."

Really, displays the smallness of their minds.

However, that being said....there are still some scoundrels out their who do prey on lonely western women.

um i ate half a keylime pie yesterday and 2 cupcakes

[♥JP♥ 5]

It's quite sad that women have to put other women down to feel better about themselves or to justify their relationship. I am pretty sure that the majority of these MENA women that some of you think are jealous of you are indeed not jealous. I know it seems that it's easiest to dismiss their actions as jealousy or maybe that is what your husband or fiance has told you to mask the fact that these women don't approve of the relationship for one reason or another.

I think it's important to keep in mind that when people here make stereotypes about MENA men marrying older or overweight western women to get a green card, that many of you find these statements hurtful and uncalled for. As a MENA women, I find the statement that MENA women being jealous of you offensive as well. I am sure there are many here that find that comment offensive even if they are not arab, but don't appreciate their in-laws and friends being grouped into this ridiculous stereotype.

[SandyNJack 5]

[sereia 0]

lol sandy!

[Aymerlu 3]

I have a headache

[RAKASA 0]

I have a headache

if you continue reading this thread, it will only get worse!!!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

I have a headache

if you continue reading this thread, it will only get worse!!!

i want a sonic limeade now

[Aymerlu 3]

I have a headache

if you continue reading this thread, it will only get worse!!!

i want a sonic limeade now

ooooooooh....Sonic sounds awesome! I love diet vanilla coke!

Has anyone had a Sonic Seaweed slush? My kids always order them. They look gross, but actually taste pretty good

[Imua 0]

We don't have Sonic in NYC - waaahhh!!!

those blizzard -type ice cream things always look so good on the commercials.

We don't have DQ here either...

[sara535 15]

Sonic cherry limeades rock. now I want one too. Looks like I might have to make a sonic run.

THANKS Wahrania

[Jenn! 918]

No Sonic here either. That's it, we're moving south.

[RAKASA 0]

No Sonic here either. That's it, we're moving south.

C'mon Jenn.... I told you before there's also drive thru daiquiri shops!!!