What is the best website for finding your soul mate

[Fandango 1,439]

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

I'm just gonna put it out there...I don't find it lazy, I find it downright strange.

I'm not bashin on anyone who found love online...much as I don't understand it, it obviously works for many so that's cool. But why anyone would CHOOSE to go thru this immigration stuff...man, my brain cannot understand it. If D and I broke up (which we never will, but hypothetically speaking ;P) I could NEVER consciously choose to have an int'l ldr AGAIN.

I do find it strange when comments are made about a whole country's people like 'X are great cooks' or summat similar like it's a breed of animal. I see this more times on VJ than I'd really like to! I also don't understand the whole 'send em back and get a new one' mentality that I've seen here on VJ with some...If you yourself are a native X, and would like someone from that country as well...what about X-American clubs? What about doing summat locally where you don't willingly walk into the whole distance/IMBRA/immigration/forms/waivers/proof/plane tickets/sleeping and living alone for God knows how long/etc???? Granted, if it happens by chance, of course you must see it thru, but picking women like you're ordering from a menu? 'I've tried the X and that didn't work out, so for a main course, I'd like to sample the Y.'

It just doesn't make sense to me. It never will, either....but I'm not about to sit here while we're all having a conversation about it and bite my tongue because it's not the 'acceptable' thing to say.

American women come from all over the planet. So what is the pull to look elsewhere? More 'buying power' perhaps?

[Sinergy 3]

You win! Geez!

Take a breath now! I assure you I read every little word. I don't see where I put any words in your mouth. I stated my opinion.

The OP was only asking for recommendations to foreign dating / introduction sites. He was not looking for a lecture on the proper use of the word "Soulmate" or how he should or should not be trying to find a future mate.

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

read what i wrote, stop skimming! sigh

it doesnt apply to you unless you sat one day and sd " IM GONNA GO ONLINE AND FIND ME A WOMAN"!

and im aware many on VJ met their SO online, i never sd anything against finding your SO online, dont put words in my mouth. I stated it was weird to wake up one morning with a feeling of needing to go online and SEARCH YOUR SOULMATE.

and I was stating my opinion on the situation, i wasnt looking for a lecture from anyone, especially you.

So ill let you have your opinion, even if it is twisting my words, and you will let me have mine, even tho you dont agree with it, and really you cant not agree with something you didnt understand fully anyway

It wasnt a competition, unless as i see you took it as one. It was me clearing the air of you trying to make me out to say something i was not. but thanks anyway for TRYING to understand:)

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

I'm just gonna put it out there...I don't find it lazy, I find it downright strange.

I'm not bashin on anyone who found love online...much as I don't understand it, it obviously works for many so that's cool. But why anyone would CHOOSE to go thru this immigration stuff...man, my brain cannot understand it. If D and I broke up (which we never will, but hypothetically speaking ;P) I could NEVER consciously choose to have an int'l ldr AGAIN.

I do find it strange when comments are made about a whole country's people like 'X are great cooks' or summat similar like it's a breed of animal. I see this more times on VJ than I'd really like to! I also don't understand the whole 'send em back and get a new one' mentality that I've seen here on VJ with some...If you yourself are a native X, and would like someone from that country as well...what about X-American clubs? What about doing summat locally where you don't willingly walk into the whole distance/IMBRA/immigration/forms/waivers/proof/plane tickets/sleeping and living alone for God knows how long/etc???? Granted, if it happens by chance, of course you must see it thru, but picking women like you're ordering from a menu? 'I've tried the X and that didn't work out, so for a main course, I'd like to sample the Y.'

It just doesn't make sense to me. It never will, either....but I'm not about to sit here while we're all having a conversation about it and bite my tongue because it's not the 'acceptable' thing to say.

American women come from all over the planet. So what is the pull to look elsewhere? More 'buying power' perhaps?

[Jenn! 918]

It's hard to say "to each his own" when one perceives a form of exploitation going on.

Sorry, but I just can't bring myself to "approve" of marriage-broker websites. Good thing my approval is not necessary!

[Glen Charles 0]

It made sense for me.

I worked in an all-male environment.

I had no place to go that put me in intimate contact with desirable women who were interested.

I joined gyms, went to bars, joined church groups. At my best, I am not a particularly funny, flirtatious or attractive guy. I do have an excellent job and a great education. Those dates I did get were burdened by multiple kids, nasty ex husbands or boyfriends, were immoral or lacked compassion and empathy, or had been burned badly and often enough that they basically were unable to trust anyone anymore.

One thing about joining gyms and book clubs or whatever: if you are not really into it, you are at the wrong place, because you are meeting people who ARE into it. Great way to meet people who don't share a value.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I just want to throw it out there that American men are serious at BBQ'ing, love football, and cold beer. They make great handymen and aren't afraid to try hair plugs, toupee's or Rogaine to cover their baldness.

Call 1-800-USDA-BEEF

[SteveLaura 0]

I do find it strange when comments are made about a whole country's people like 'X are great cooks' or summat similar like it's a breed of animal. I see this more times on VJ than I'd really like to! I also don't understand the whole 'send em back and get a new one' mentality that I've seen here on VJ with some...If you yourself are a native X, and would like someone from that country as well...what about X-American clubs? What about doing summat locally where you don't willingly walk into the whole distance/IMBRA/immigration/forms/waivers/proof/plane tickets/sleeping and living alone for God knows how long/etc???? Granted, if it happens by chance, of course you must see it thru, but picking women like you're ordering from a menu? 'I've tried the X and that didn't work out, so for a main course, I'd like to sample the Y.'

It just doesn't make sense to me. It never will, either....but I'm not about to sit here while we're all having a conversation about it and bite my tongue because it's not the 'acceptable' thing to say.

American women come from all over the planet. So what is the pull to look elsewhere? More 'buying power' perhaps?

To a lesser or greater degree, most people stereotype people from different countries: French are arrogant, Germans are organised, Australians are alcoholics, Swedes are sex-crazed, etc... My wife liked the 'British' accent and sense of humour, but understood that this wasn't standard over the whole of the country.

If you happen to like people from a particular country - based either on their looks or perceived stereotype - then not everyone is going to be comfortable with going to a club where they hang out. Some people are shy and like the anonymity of a computer to chat with people first. I don't see the menu-choosing compariosn.

[garya505 2]

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

I'm just gonna put it out there...I don't find it lazy, I find it downright strange.

I'm not bashin on anyone who found love online...much as I don't understand it, it obviously works for many so that's cool. But why anyone would CHOOSE to go thru this immigration stuff...man, my brain cannot understand it. If D and I broke up (which we never will, but hypothetically speaking ;P) I could NEVER consciously choose to have an int'l ldr AGAIN.

I do find it strange when comments are made about a whole country's people like 'X are great cooks' or summat similar like it's a breed of animal. I see this more times on VJ than I'd really like to! I also don't understand the whole 'send em back and get a new one' mentality that I've seen here on VJ with some...If you yourself are a native X, and would like someone from that country as well...what about X-American clubs? What about doing summat locally where you don't willingly walk into the whole distance/IMBRA/immigration/forms/waivers/proof/plane tickets/sleeping and living alone for God knows how long/etc???? Granted, if it happens by chance, of course you must see it thru, but picking women like you're ordering from a menu? 'I've tried the X and that didn't work out, so for a main course, I'd like to sample the Y.'

It just doesn't make sense to me. It never will, either....but I'm not about to sit here while we're all having a conversation about it and bite my tongue because it's not the 'acceptable' thing to say.

American women come from all over the planet. So what is the pull to look elsewhere? More 'buying power' perhaps?

You don't understand it, yet you make some rather insulting assumptions about why people do it. Perhaps you don't see any "good" reasons to do it, so you assume all the reasons must be "bad'?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Those dates I did get were burdened by multiple kids, nasty ex husbands or boyfriends, were immoral or lacked compassion and empathy...

The Goddesses are angry today, my friend. You've asked for it. I hope you're ready.

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

I looked exclusively online because I don't go to school any more ; hate going to bars; I knew no one at work, I cared about, that was available; all my friends were married and knew no single ladies; I don't go to a church; on and on. There was no where to look, that I cared for, but online. I didn't start out looking for a Russian lady. I have nothing against women from anywhere. It just ended up that way.

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

I'm just gonna put it out there...I don't find it lazy, I find it downright strange.

I'm not bashin on anyone who found love online...much as I don't understand it, it obviously works for many so that's cool. But why anyone would CHOOSE to go thru this immigration stuff...man, my brain cannot understand it. If D and I broke up (which we never will, but hypothetically speaking ;P) I could NEVER consciously choose to have an int'l ldr AGAIN.

I do find it strange when comments are made about a whole country's people like 'X are great cooks' or summat similar like it's a breed of animal. I see this more times on VJ than I'd really like to! I also don't understand the whole 'send em back and get a new one' mentality that I've seen here on VJ with some...If you yourself are a native X, and would like someone from that country as well...what about X-American clubs? What about doing summat locally where you don't willingly walk into the whole distance/IMBRA/immigration/forms/waivers/proof/plane tickets/sleeping and living alone for God knows how long/etc???? Granted, if it happens by chance, of course you must see it thru, but picking women like you're ordering from a menu? 'I've tried the X and that didn't work out, so for a main course, I'd like to sample the Y.'

It just doesn't make sense to me. It never will, either....but I'm not about to sit here while we're all having a conversation about it and bite my tongue because it's not the 'acceptable' thing to say.

American women come from all over the planet. So what is the pull to look elsewhere? More 'buying power' perhaps?

[AnewKINDofFEELIN 0]

To a lesser or greater degree, most people stereotype people from different countries: French are arrogant, Germans are organised, Australians are alcoholics, Swedes are sex-crazed, etc... My wife liked the 'British' accent and sense of humour, but understood that this wasn't standard over the whole of the country.

French are hairy, germans stink, australians are indeed alcoholics, and swedes are good guitarists. Brits have bad teeth. Americans are loud and fat.

[Reynaldo 0]

Are American men scared of American women?

[Alex+R 0]

I looked exclusively online because I don't go to school any more ; hate going to bars; I knew no one at work, I cared about, that was available; all my friends were married and knew no single ladies; I don't go to a church; on and on. There was no where to look, that I cared for, but online. I didn't start out looking for a Russian lady. I have nothing against women from anywhere. It just ended up that way.

I don't see a problem in looking online. I think that's lost the stigma it had in the late 90s/early 00s. But did you use a marriage broker? I think that's what most people object to. Men who say, "I'd like a Filipina. I will pay 20 dollars to meet Filipinas who have indicated they would like to marry an American."

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Are American men scared of American women?

This would be a good time to post some choice lyrics from American Woman.

[SteveLaura 0]

To a lesser or greater degree, most people stereotype people from different countries: French are arrogant, Germans are organised, Australians are alcoholics, Swedes are sex-crazed, etc... My wife liked the 'British' accent and sense of humour, but understood that this wasn't standard over the whole of the country.

French are hairy, germans stink, australians are indeed alcoholics, and swedes are good guitarists. Brits have bad teeth. Americans are loud and fat.

[Sinergy 3]

I looked exclusively online because I don't go to school any more ; hate going to bars; I knew no one at work, I cared about, that was available; all my friends were married and knew no single ladies; I don't go to a church; on and on. There was no where to look, that I cared for, but online. I didn't start out looking for a Russian lady. I have nothing against women from anywhere. It just ended up that way.[/b]

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

I'm just gonna put it out there...I don't find it lazy, I find it downright strange.

I'm not bashin on anyone who found love online...much as I don't understand it, it obviously works for many so that's cool. But why anyone would CHOOSE to go thru this immigration stuff...man, my brain cannot understand it. If D and I broke up (which we never will, but hypothetically speaking ;P) I could NEVER consciously choose to have an int'l ldr AGAIN.

I do find it strange when comments are made about a whole country's people like 'X are great cooks' or summat similar like it's a breed of animal. I see this more times on VJ than I'd really like to! I also don't understand the whole 'send em back and get a new one' mentality that I've seen here on VJ with some...If you yourself are a native X, and would like someone from that country as well...what about X-American clubs? What about doing summat locally where you don't willingly walk into the whole distance/IMBRA/immigration/forms/waivers/proof/plane tickets/sleeping and living alone for God knows how long/etc???? Granted, if it happens by chance, of course you must see it thru, but picking women like you're ordering from a menu? 'I've tried the X and that didn't work out, so for a main course, I'd like to sample the Y.'

It just doesn't make sense to me. It never will, either....but I'm not about to sit here while we're all having a conversation about it and bite my tongue because it's not the 'acceptable' thing to say.

American women come from all over the planet. So what is the pull to look elsewhere? More 'buying power' perhaps?

a cookie for you

you finally hit it in the nail of what i was saying.

Its NOT weird to go online looking for ppl to meet and talk to and BOOM you met your love, however to go online and specificlly look for your soulmate, right down to country of origin, then its weird.

You did exactly what i sd was NOT weird, so i dont know why you took offence to it.