What is the best website for finding your soul mate

[Glen Charles 0]

There are a million sites to meet a foreign bride. I would not try it unless you are truly desperate, though, because it is expensive, and can indeed be a life-long expense.

Lots of women want to find a man and make a family in the US. I don't blame them: in some countries it is hard for a woman to meet a man who has the means to provide shelter and food to a family. Many of these women ultimately make great wives.

That being said, on these sites, there is probably 5 scammers for every legitimately interested woman.

Here is my advice:

1) Do not allow yourself to be committed to a particular girl until after you have met her in real life.

2) Never send money to a girl you are not committed to. See #1 above. Make that clear from the very start.

3) If she presses for a commitment or moans about emergencies, stop chatting with her.

4) Never send money to a girl you are not committed to. See #1 above. Make that clear from the very start.

5) Internet cafes everywhere on earth are used largely to allow people to chat with loved ones at a distance. For this reason, THEY ALL HAVE WEB CAMS. Every single one of them. She is lying if she says there is not one there, and is actually a 200 pound man or elderly woman. I have a friend who was scammed by a Russian woman. She sent him hundreds of photos BUT NEVER CAMMED WITH HIM.

6) Never send money to a girl you are not committed to. See #1 above. Make that clear from the very start.

7) If she is from a poor country, it is impossible for a person to get a US tourist visa unless she is already rich. Never send money to help pay for a visit.

[Marilyn. 340]

you can't go and search for a soul-mate

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

you can't go and search for a soul-mate

one can at the bunny ranch.

[Marilyn. 340]

you can't go and search for a soul-mate

one can at the bunny ranch.

hmmmm, not sure if that qualifies as a soul-mate

Edited February 4, 2008 by MarilynP

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

you can't go and search for a soul-mate

one can at the bunny ranch.

hmmmm, not sure if that qualifies as a soul-mate

depends on how much money one has

[Glen Charles 0]

"you can't go and search for a soul-mate"

Can too.

In fact, you better, if your life does not naturally put you in the right circumstances.

People successfully do it all the time.

Edited February 4, 2008 by Glen Charles

[sara..... 371]

I think it depends on ur culture and how much effort ur willing to put into it.......but three years ago i met perviz when i put my profile on muslimmatrimonial.com there are alot of players on just about any of the sites people are looking at for marriage connections u just have to pull all the weeds to reach the flower.....also sites such as that do not charge a lot of money and i did see that there are many that are not muslim on some of the sites when i was researching it....if ur a girl u dont want to put ur picture because u will be flooded with a lot of players but someone before me gave some really good advice do not put ur heart into it with out first meeting the person sites like those have a lot of people that enjoy the chase but do not want to commit....

you can't go and search for a soul-mate

one can at the bunny ranch.

hmmmm, not sure if that qualifies as a soul-mate

depends on how much money one has

[Dr. Obvious 49]

I don't know if I could ever find a soulmate on the web.

Well not on the web's meat market, anyway.

[Fandango 1,439]

tryreallife.com

[Nessa 23]

tryreallife.com

[Sinergy 3]

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

Edited February 4, 2008 by Ionescu

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

[Sinergy 3]

Why is this weird? Last time I looked, the numbers were extremely high of people on VJ that found their fiancé(e) online. I'm one of them and I am far from lazy. There a lot of people that are not into the club scene or other similar venues. Plus, the OP desires to meet a lady from a foreign country. I doubt he'll find her at the local gym.

why dont you try finding one in person, why sit at home and look on your pc.

Joining clubs, and going to the gym is a good way.

why just sit and browse? kinda lazy dont ya think?

Also why would you SEEK your soulmate online??? thats just not a proper way to SEARCH one.

i understand it happening that way if your just on and bla bla, but to purposly seek online is weird

read what i wrote, stop skimming! sigh

it doesnt apply to you unless you sat one day and sd " IM GONNA GO ONLINE AND FIND ME A WOMAN"!

and im aware many on VJ met their SO online, i never sd anything against finding your SO online, dont put words in my mouth. I stated it was weird to wake up one morning with a feeling of needing to go online and SEARCH YOUR SOULMATE.

Edited February 4, 2008 by Ionescu

[BJZags 17]

I don't know if I could ever find a soulmate on the web.

I don't suppose many people go about trying to find their "soulmate" on the web. Its simply another mechanism for meeting people. Its no more weird then someone who goes to the clubs trying to meet someone, or who goes to the gym to meet people, or happens to meet someone while standing in-line at the grocery store. If you do any of these things with the thought before-hand that I'm gonna meet my "soulmate" (whatever that means) then your likely going to be disappointed, and come across as very strange to the people you encounter. But, maybe, the web can put a person in a place to meet like-minded people where the chance of finding a "soulmate" is more likely to happen then if you don't take this step.

[Marilyn. 340]

I just started chatting in chatrooms because I was bored etc... and I just happened to bump into my future hubby there ....

although when I first met him he annoyed the heck out of me... come to think of it he still annoys me sometimes