***Help me (Baby DADDY - DRAMA)***

[Sonshyne 2]

I guess in the end they never really go away...they just keep coming back. I hope that is not what I get to look forward to. The one before him took 4 years, jail, protection orders and the like to get rid of him, but that didn't work. It was not until his WIFE tump dung im rass inna one grocery store (in LANGLEY PARK, MARYLAND - yeah I'm putting it out there)...it was BIG NEWS that he left me alone. He spent 2 weeks in the hospital for the JAMAICAN WOMAN beatdown. I think she went to jail for 6 month and they still married. Mi hear seh she beat him til her boot heel bruck (no joke). I wish I had a front row seat to see that, but I left and went into the next store. She beat his #### because he saw my car in the parking lot and left a LOVE note on it. Dumb A$$. I would have laughed my #### off if I had seen his wife kick is A$$.

You know you really shouldn't type stuff like this in the day, when we are at work, because no one understands, why I had my head in my hands and tears coming out my eyes. Yes, girl, I laugh till I cry!

Yo she kicked his A$$!

If that sista bruk har boot heel yuh nuh she wha kickin some serious A$$ Yuh nuh 'im mussi be suh embarass mi wonda wha 'im neva run?? Oh wait...

'im cyaan run wit deh boot heel dem stuck inna 'im RASS

Edited January 25, 2008 by Sonshyne

[JA Tam 7]

I guess in the end they never really go away...they just keep coming back. I hope that is not what I get to look forward to. The one before him took 4 years, jail, protection orders and the like to get rid of him, but that didn't work. It was not until his WIFE tump dung im rass inna one grocery store (in LANGLEY PARK, MARYLAND - yeah I'm putting it out there)...it was BIG NEWS that he left me alone. He spent 2 weeks in the hospital for the JAMAICAN WOMAN beatdown. I think she went to jail for 6 month and they still married. Mi hear seh she beat him til her boot heel bruck (no joke). I wish I had a front row seat to see that, but I left and went into the next store. She beat his #### because he saw my car in the parking lot and left a LOVE note on it. Dumb A$$. I would have laughed my #### off if I had seen his wife kick is A$$.

You know you really shouldn't type stuff like this in the day, when we are at work, because no one understands, why I had my head in my hands and tears coming out my eyes. Yes, girl, I laugh till I cry!

Yo she kicked his A$$!

Serve him right!!!! :lol:

[Forever Young 1]

I guess in the end they never really go away...they just keep coming back. I hope that is not what I get to look forward to. The one before him took 4 years, jail, protection orders and the like to get rid of him, but that didn't work. It was not until his WIFE tump dung im rass inna one grocery store (in LANGLEY PARK, MARYLAND - yeah I'm putting it out there)...it was BIG NEWS that he left me alone. He spent 2 weeks in the hospital for the JAMAICAN WOMAN beatdown. I think she went to jail for 6 month and they still married. Mi hear seh she beat him til her boot heel bruck (no joke). I wish I had a front row seat to see that, but I left and went into the next store. She beat his #### because he saw my car in the parking lot and left a LOVE note on it. Dumb A$$. I would have laughed my #### off if I had seen his wife kick is A$$.

You know you really shouldn't type stuff like this in the day, when we are at work, because no one understands, why I had my head in my hands and tears coming out my eyes. Yes, girl, I laugh till I cry!

Yo she kicked his A$$!

If that sista bruk har boot heel yuh nuh she wha kickin some serious A$$ Yuh nuh 'im mussi be suh embarass mi wonda wha 'im neva run?? Oh wait...

'im cyaan run wit deh boot heel dem stuck inna 'im RASS

LAWWWWWWD GAWWWWD!!! Wat a STRESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Ladies,

I had to share your wisdom and advice with my friend and of course, ya'll got them over here in tears. Tears of JOY and laugther.

[Jengles 0]

Ladies,

I had to share your wisdom and advice with my friend and of course, ya'll got them over here in tears. Tears of JOY and laugther.

We are always glad to be of service!!!!

[Sonshyne 2]

Ladies,

I had to share your wisdom and advice with my friend and of course, ya'll got them over here in tears. Tears of JOY and laugther.

We are here for strength and support

[Forever Young 1]

Ladies,

I had to share your wisdom and advice with my friend and of course, ya'll got them over here in tears. Tears of JOY and laugther.

We are here for strength and support

AMEN!!!! Cause if wi doan duh hit fuh each oddah...who a guh duh hit fuh wi?

[brownnskinn 0]

Ladies,

I had to share your wisdom and advice with my friend and of course, ya'll got them over here in tears. Tears of JOY and laugther.

We are here for strength and support

AMEN!!!! Cause if wi doan duh hit fuh each oddah...who a guh duh hit fuh wi?

You see it

[*JG* 2]

When I read stories like this, I am so glad I have no baby daddy drama. My kids' dad is wonderful. We just weren't meant to live together.

I hope it all works out for you, Tre.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Thanks ladies....

I try to get along with him, but he makes it very difficult. He wants to cuss me and tell me he's going to get custody of my son (LMAO). I don't hate him or anything, it's that I stopped loving him a long time go and I tried to make it work, but because of his arrogance and accussations I can't take it anymore. There's is nothing worse than being blamed for something or accused of something you're not doing. So, I decided enough was enough. Time to walk and I did. Wanted to walk away when I was pregnant, but fear kept me there. I feel so free now. Just trying to sell the house, then my mind will be at peace (well, kind of) until he starts tripp'in again.

[jawi876 2]

Well, I have to agree...this is site is my girlfriend site. Almost all of my friends are single now either by choice or their husbands for many years decided to have ummmmm 2 maybe 3 children outside of the marriage and (pastor) is going to say forgive him (not I). So, their thing for 2007 was whatever the men can do we can do and I wasn't down for that. I did my running in the days, dance, club, more dance, club, parties after a while you get tired of it. I stopped at the age of 27 (I'm 37 now). I had my son at 33 and lost a lot of friends that I though were close because their kids were older and they wanted to hang out, but by then I had a newborn. They told me I started too late. Well, that was God's plan for me. I can barely stay awake past 8pm let alone 4am. So, I'm a home body, I don't mind going out, but to tell you the truth I'd rather be home cuddled up with my son, my MAN (when he gets here), a book, a good movie and a bottle of STONE GINGER WINE. I drink a shot glass everynight. Got that from my great grandmother. She use to also mix stout and rum with nutmeg YUCK (what a stress). She say it give her staminia ***kiss mi neck**** I use to love it when she talked about men. I should have listened to her...if a man don't know the value of a good women, he's not worth your time and don't sit down a wait pon no man (especially if him a spoon feed you) -- that was me. I was being spoon fed.

Rooooolllliiinnnn! DWLPUMS!!! FAAADDAA!!! ROTFDWL....gwaan tru grandmummie!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

MAWNIN Ladies,

Hate to restart this...but I need a GROUP HUG...just been so stressed the last week or so. I just need a PEP talk that's all. I re-read the post...I just need someone to SHAKE me a little and get me past this week.

Thanks ladies.

Trelawny (fell off the track, but trying to get back on) - just need a little lift.

[Forever Young 1]

MAWNIN Ladies,

Hate to restart this...but I need a GROUP HUG...just been so stressed the last week or so. I just need a PEP talk that's all. I re-read the post...I just need someone to SHAKE me a little and get me past this week.

Thanks ladies.

Trelawny (fell off the track, but trying to get back on) - just need a little lift.

Mawning Sweets,

((((((((((((((((((((Lawny))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

What's up? Wahappen?

Bless,

Gill

[GabachaYucateca 0]

When em start wid em phockery yuh need fi LAUGH!!! Mi seh LAUGH at em!! Even if yuh nuh feel fi laugh...LAUGH!!!! Never let em see yuh Sweat!!! Bawl yuh #### off when deh Baby is sleeping and no one is around but infront of yuh ex han yuh child LAUGH!!!!

What BEAUTIFUL advice...sorry I fogot who typed it.

But that touched me!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

MAWNIN Ladies,

Hate to restart this...but I need a GROUP HUG...just been so stressed the last week or so. I just need a PEP talk that's all. I re-read the post...I just need someone to SHAKE me a little and get me past this week.

Thanks ladies.

Trelawny (fell off the track, but trying to get back on) - just need a little lift.

Mawning Sweets,

((((((((((((((((((((Lawny))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

What's up? Wahappen?

Bless,

Gill

Gill,

I'm trying not to let this man get the best of me, but at every turn he's doing something else. We have (we HAD) a buyer for the house and he (my ex) decides to not show up for closing which was yesterday. So, now the person is threatening to sue me, because he traveled from another state to close on the house and you know how the housing market is. I as lucky to get a buyer in 30 and to be able to close. He is doing everything to try to break me spirtually and financially. He thinks that if the house does not sell he has a better chance of me changing my mind and staying with him. I just don't get that. Maybe I'm missing some logic in that. He's shows up at my mom's church with his new woman and where does he sit with her right in FRONT of me. All I could do was laugh. Matter of fact, my whole family was laughing. It' tax time and do you want to know what the FRIGGER did (of course) claims our SON w/o telling me. I found out when his tax lady leaves a message on the answering machine. Took things out of the house that doesn't belong to him. Girl if I was to continue typing it would never end. I just don't know how much more of this I can. take. I think my son and I are going to go to Jamaica to visit Marcel for a month.

I have done so much for this man. When I met him, he had ABSOLUTELY nothing and I built him up. Now, he's trying to tear me down (BUT I'm not going to let him). I'd rather ruin myself financially and start all over again than lose the little hair I have left.

I can't believe I had hair flowing down the middle of my back last year this time, and now it's just at my ears. I till you STRESS will take complete control of your life. I'm learning the hard way, but I'm getting better.

Lawny