i-601: General Moral Support, i-601 app

[Bootylicious!! 2]

Well I was probably a little misleading when I posted Friday. I just go to a family doctor so basically I knew all she would do was refer me somewhere else. I just thought maybe she would have some answers for some other questions I had, but she said she would let them handle it. So I have to track everything really good this month or until we get an appointment. She said sometimes it can take a year to get in one of those places. I hope it doesn't take that long.

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We've been denied. It's over.

[mnmex 0]

Sorry to hear that Miss Liss. The appeal process is over. But your life with Javier doesn't have to be. I wish you much luck in the coming days to find the strength to figure out a plan B.

take care.

[chagalafamilia 0]

This is hard..............I want to answer everyone first, but it is impossible. So.....

Melissa: I am so sorry about the denial. Can he wait out the ban and then reapply? I can imagine a whole lot less appealing places to live than Mexico. Even if I had to live where Alex is from I could make it work to be with him. So whatever you decide I will be rooting for you. By the way round up to the next dollar????

Charity: I am sorry your family dr could not tell you anything. Just plot everything you can for the specialist and keep your fingers crossed that they can let you know what is going on. I am also glad that Jaime arrived safely. Is he going to stay with his dad for right now?

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Benita: Yes he is. Thank goodness. I think we have somewhere for him to go after his dad leaves so that is good too. I know, I need to write everything down. I am not too good about that so it will be hard.

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hey guys...i just wanted to say that for me, living in Mexico is no big deal. i would go there tomorrow if i just had to worry about me. this is going to break my mom's heart. i'm her only surviving child. i don't know how i'm going to break the news to her.

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Forgot to mention that I had a Dr appointment this morning with Ultrasound. Baby is fine, heartbeat was 146, was squirming around. Got pictures, even one of a foot. I go back on May 31st.

[Bootylicious!! 2]

Benita: I love your new ticker. I am glad things are going good with the baby. That's great.

I hope everyone is having a great day today. It's beautiful here so that always makes for a good day. We have an appointment May 18th at the Reach Clinic in Charlotte. That's also our anniversary, so hopefully we will hear some good news. I am not sure what the first appt will be like. It may just be a consultation type thing. They are sending me a packet of info that I need to fill out so maybe I will know more after I get that. I can't believe we got in so quickly. I was expecting it to be about a month, not two weeks. Maybe this is a sign of good things to come. I will keep you all posted on what we find out, if anything. Thanks girls for always being there for me no matter what situation I am in. You all are great.

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Charity….I am glad you got in so quickly!! And I am sure you’ll hear good things because that is your anniversary too! A good omen. In other news, you were in my dream last night. It was weird. You worked at my old college and I remember being so baffled that I had never seen you when I went to school there. VJ is creeping into my unconscious thoughts!! Ha, ha.

Benita…glad to hear you and baby are doing well. Hope the next appt goes just as smoothly.

I am thinking of changing careers. I know that sounds crazy but I think I need a bit more action. Sure this paralegal/interpreter stuff is fun at times but there is such a routine that at times I feel like a robot. I am thinking nursing. However Miguel keeps saying, if you become a nurse remember to be nice to the patients. I was like what?! And then I remember that I am at times “brava” and rather sarcastic. So I said, well I’ll just save that for YOU when I get home. Ha, ha. I go on Thurs to an info session and on Friday to meet with an advisor. It might just be a crazy idea right now but perhaps it’ll turn into something. Nothing like when things calm down I gotta put stress and financial uncertainty back into our lives. Ha, ha.

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Stephanie: A change in career sounds nice. I would like one too. I just don't know what else I would like to do. I am not really interested in much. I would like to just be rich so as not to have to work. That's too funny about your dream. It fits though since I actually do work at a college. I hope we hear good things at the office. I looked up their website and it is very informative. I think we picked a good place to go. It says on there the first appt is a consultation. We'll see what we find out.

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Charity: Your signature looks FANTASTIC. I am glad you figured out the flags and that you left your name first. GOOD LUCK AT THE DOCTOR.

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Benita: Thanks. I did good, didn't I? It wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. Thanks for the luck too.

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Melissa-

I am so sorry about the denial. I don't know what I would do if I were in your shoes. I called you so we could talk but you call me if you want. The way I see it you have three options. Take Care girl.

Charity-

my sister had trouble getting pregnant the first 4 years she was married and then she went to Juarez and saw a Dr. there. They gave her pills and some injections. She now is pregnant with her 5th child. She has a 6, 5, 4, 2 and one on the way. Sometimes it takes a while but don't stress over it because sometimes that is all it is, stress.

Benita-

that is so sweet! Remember these precious moments because when they are teens you will forget how cute they were.

I have been soooo busy, I went to the rally last night and I'm tired I have not stopped since last week, I know any day now I am just going to stay home, not work and go to sleep. I need it.

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Bonnie: I am sure a lot of it is stress. I think going to the doctor and finding out nothing is wrong will alleviate some of that stress. At least I hope that's what we find out. I mean, we know I can get pregnant because I have had a miscarriage before. It's just taking forever and we don't know why. The first time it happened pretty quickly. We got married in May and were pregnant by September. That's why we don't understand what is going on. I am sure what ever it is, this clinic will be able to help us. Thanks.

Everyone have a great day today. It's Wednesday already!

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Charity: I know a couple that would agree that stress is a major factor. They tried for almost 5 years to get pregnant, they used all types of fertility treatments (invitro, hormone therapy, etc...) They had finally decided they would complete the move to their new house and then adopt. Right after they moved in they found out they were expecting. And in November they just added #2 to their family. Here are their 2 miracles (Evan & Adam). I know after my miscarriage we were in a stressful situation and it took getting out of that (his girl cousin was living with us), for us to get pregnant with Emily. With this baby, it took no time at all, but that may have been because when I went to CDJ to get him we knew he was getting his visa and that sure as heck reduced our stress.

SOOOOOOOOO.....Take a deep breath......try to put all your worries behind you and let nature take its course. I will keep you and Javier in my thoughts and prayers.